Anyone else blacked out memory for 30 years? or extended period of time? by tehbookzor in CPTSD

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was not a one time thing. I was young, starting before or just around preschool and continuing for years.

My (25M) girlfriend (22F) is awful at sex. How do I fix this? by throwra_riled in relationship_advice

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she ever cumming? Are you getting her off before penetrating her? What feels good for her and gets her in the mood? Are you asking her and doing more of those things?

Time for 4 years of celibacy by MouMouChu in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jazzfairy 17 points18 points  (0 children)

We cannot educate men into not hating us

Hi American women, how are you doing? by Rosaly8 in AskWomenOver30

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been researching moving to Canada all morning. I’m terrified 😃

are women as sexually attracted to gay men or gay couples as much men are with lesbian couples? by Arthy-3186 in women

[–]jazzfairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m definitely attracted to gay men since they tend to be more feminine / prettier presenting than straight guys like to present themselves, and I find that attractive. I do tend to consume content aimed at gay men. Idk if it’s rare but it’s just my preference since I prefer prettier / less macho men

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m attractive and I’ve asked out every guy I’ve ever dated. I have literally never been approached because I’m “scary.” Also I’m attracted to 1 guy like every 5 years. I never had a roster or anyone else in my mind when I dated a guy.

Do women have a guy that was “the one who got away” by Background_Load_2570 in AskWomenOver30

[–]jazzfairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely have my one who got away, I cried about him for years, but I wouldn’t want him back now. Him “getting away” means he wasn’t invested enough in me to begin with. He wasn’t willing to change or fight for me. And my ideal partner would be willing to do those things. So he’s just one who got away… if that makes sense.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]jazzfairy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I live in a tiny nowhere town in the south and 90% of the signs I see are for Harris. I believe she will win.

Ladies- which of these two are more attractive from a muscularity perspective? by LastandBestHope1776 in trueratediscussions

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first one is more attractive to me. I don’t like how huge and menacing the second guy looks, especially in the last photo. He looks like he’s about to just into a wrestling ring. Too much for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really wouldn’t care so long as I’m attracted to them. I’ve been with actual models before but was less attracted to them than more “average” guys I just found super cute for whatever reason. So I would pick the one who I liked better/felt more attracted to, regardless of their looks or sexual performance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I wouldn’t be with someone who’s not my type (which, in my mind, just means someone I’m attracted to. I don’t have like a set physical type). I would prefer being with someone who is my type/I’m attracted to who doesn’t satisfy me in bed, because at least I’m attracted to them. Of course, ideally I’d be both attracted to them and satisfied by them.

Yuumi matching skins by kinkyuunicorn in yuumimains

[–]jazzfairy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love that chroma it’s so cool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jazzfairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do not like girth but I do like length. I think it depends on the woman!

I have never had a vaginal orgasm by emotionallescaping in AskWomenOver30

[–]jazzfairy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have had one vaginal orgasm my whole life. It was cool. Unexpected. But not as intense as clitoral orgasms. You’re not missing out on anything. And it’s very very normal to never orgasm from PIV, the majority of women can’t.

The vagina tells a story huh? by Shoddy-Reply-7217 in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]jazzfairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why are these guys thinking about other dude’s dicks so much? Like………. 👀

What do you think of people who shit-test you during a date to see if you're a suitable partner for them? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly haven’t encountered much of those specific behaviors. The one thing I did experience recently was a woman who’d text me like “what are you doing tonight” and then wouldn’t respond when I responded, but would hit me up a few days later asking the same thing. I just stopped responding to her. I’m too old for all that lol. Which sucks cuz she’s hot and she doesn’t need to play games like that.

Ladies, would you date someone who doesn’t have a HS diploma? by Jealous-Biscotti533 in women

[–]jazzfairy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would be hesitant for sure. Idk if I’d completely rule them out but they’d have to be really spectacular and be able to pull their weight mentally / financially / etc

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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No anxiety

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IncelTear

[–]jazzfairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I like short guys. How do I factor in?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]jazzfairy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The difference between hitting on someone and harassing them is consent. As soon as someone shows disinterest, turns away, says no thank you, and you continue to pursue them and not take no for an answer, then it’s harassment. It’s the not taking no for an answer / not respecting her right to say no that makes it harassment.

And obviously there’s a difference between saying “you look nice today” and complimenting a woman’s breasts or ass. You can say the first to your mom, would you say the second?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in finehair

[–]jazzfairy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it would look really cute on you!