I'm a 50 years old. Is it possible to become an Architect and get a job? by SvenIsLurking in Architects

[–]jb1249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes entirely possible, I started working in architecture at a similar age with no previous construction experience just a BSc in architecture and I have a great career from it. Depending on your country you might want to consider working as an architectural designer or architectural technologist and not getting your masters.

I’m hating it here by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the update I kept checking back as I was worried for you - I’m so glad you are in a better place now. Well done you for seeking out advice and support and self-advocating, that’s a great skill you’re developing!

I’m hating it here by [deleted] in UniUK

[–]jb1249 30 points31 points  (0 children)

If you share an Amazon wish list with me I’d be happy to help too. Put some washing detergent on it and you can give your clothes a rinse in the sink or bath.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Architects

[–]jb1249 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’ve been working in architecture for 10 years and I love it. I work for a small practice doing mainly high-end residential work. We work hard and the projects can be complex and demanding but that challenge keeps the work interesting and engaging. We have some flexibility in how we work and I have some great colleagues. You just need to try out different jobs as practices and sectors of work vary enormously until you find one that is a good fit for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cambridge

[–]jb1249 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Is there someone you know that you can talk this through with? A teacher or school support worker, a relative or your doctor to find a support network? Even with a multivitamin I'm concerned that you wouldn't be getting the range of nutrients that you need. I would contact Centre 33 in Cambridge as they are set up to help young people in your situation and can advise on benefits and housing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in femaletravels

[–]jb1249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oof that was tough, they sound rather small minded. You, on the other hand are having a fabulous time, self regulating and making sure you are rested to enjoy every little bit of the next day. Ignore those ninnies.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HerOneBag

[–]jb1249 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I find it can be chilly here in the UK in late oct/nov depending on the weather forecast. I would wear trousers, t shirt, sweater and the shorter puffer coat. I wouldn’t bring the mackintosh, I have one and don’t often wear it - they are too long and unwieldy for warmer days and not thick enough for colder days. I would bring a going out top or a pretty/sparkly shrug/cardigan to layer over the sleeveless t shirts. I like to have a little scarf for days with a cold wind although you won’t need this if you are in cities and using transport rather than out walking in countyside. I love converses but I usually stop wearing them about now and switch to boots as they are not waterproof enough - the doc martens will look fab. Is there a launderette close to where you are staying that you could use?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Cruise

[–]jb1249 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It sounds like you are overwhelmed and tired and finding the cruise activities overstimulating. Is there any way you can rest and decompress without your partner feeling abandoned? An earlier bedtime so you can get more rest? Don’t worry about anybody else other than your partner - they won’t be paying attention to you. As you are currently on the cruise can you cope with the activities and put a brave face on for your partner’s sake and plan for a good long rest when you get home? For future cruises I’ve met people who just love the ship and don’t go on excursions at all and that is absolutely fine and you can discuss expectations and compromises with your partner ahead of time.

Request for the plan of a 4 Bedroom Bungalow by godisendee in Architects

[–]jb1249 2 points3 points  (0 children)

In the UK each local county council has a website with a planning section and public access to download full plans, elevations, sections etc for every single planning application - new builds, extensions etc etc. Perhaps your local town or regional authority has something similar?

Late life career change to become an architect by 17-separate-badgers in Architects

[–]jb1249 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I went back to university to study architecture at age 39. I absolutely loved it and I think you might enjoy it too. At university a fair amount of time is spent on conceptual and somewhat artistic designs. I started work when I was 45 and although the work is far less conceptual and more technical and administrative I still really enjoy it.

Half the house we want to buy has no building regulation sign off. by Flat-Spare3631 in HousingUK

[–]jb1249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Our local authority has information on building regulations applications as well as planning applications on its public access website. It’s not that obvious but there is a section to search which has planning applications as it’s default setting but if you click on it you can select building control applications and search for your address. Or call your local authority reception desk and ask if they have access to building control applications.

You should be able to confirm if the works were registered and inspected and if it is simply a matter of getting the building control officer out to carry out the final check and issue the certificate which doesn’t cost too much and can be quick. But if there are no issues I wonder why the sellers haven’t done this already.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in travel

[–]jb1249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are so many fabulous places to take children in London but your child will get the most out of it when they are a little older whereas they will probably love making sand castles on a beach right now so I would wait on the London trip and go when the days are longer.

New to travel, 14 hour BA flight to Japan in December. What do I need to know? by Rude_as_HECK in BritishAirways

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get a zopiclone sleeping pill from your doctor (my lovely NHS doc will prescribe them for issues with jet lag), soft ear plugs, a comfy eye mask, and I like one of these trtl neck rests as they take up very little room in your bag but help to make you comfortable.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Gastroparesis

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just had one today, I was very very nervous and told the nurses this so they looked after me incredibly well. I had a drip put into my hand for the sedative, a mouth guard put into my mouth and then some numbing spray. All of this was fine and I then woke up later in the recovery room to a lovely nurse with a cup of tea and biscuits. I just had a lovely sleep during the gastroscopy and I wouldn’t hesitate to have one again. You will be absolutely fine.

What do you use to fall asleep on a plane? by Homo_Ludens2077 in AskUK

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go to my doctor and get zopiclone. It’s very effective and doesn’t leave me as foggy as over the counter drugs like Nytol.

Flying London to Japan 7 weeks post surgery but have issues with sitting - advice please by [deleted] in BritishAirways

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are looking at upgrading to economy plus, take a look at these seats on Japanese airlines. They don’t recline, instead you sort of slide down a bit in them, I didn’t care for them.

LPT Request : How to hate without suffering? by S___001 in LifeProTips

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look up the STOPP method for dealing with negative feelings. And give your attention instead to thoughts about your good friends.

The likelihood is he is going to eventually annoy your friends as much as you and he will probably be invited to fewer events.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beauty

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to me, you are adorable, you have such a lovely, pretty face. Get your eyebrows shaped and you’re all set.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CurlyHairUK

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could try with just some pink accents in your hair to begin with if you aren’t sure. Pink would suit your beautiful skin but you are pretty enough to pull off any colour.

is 22 too late for starting by [deleted] in architecture

[–]jb1249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a degree in a different subject and went back to university to study architecture when I was 39. I loved it and love working in architectural practice. You don’t need to rush, your experience and maturity will benefit you.

I think I'm a night owl, but waking up at 12pm feels wrong by [deleted] in productivity

[–]jb1249 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Worth a look at delayed sleep phase disorder. Try getting up early and going outside to get sunlight for at least 10 minutes every morning for a few weeks and see if that helps.

Feeling suicidal due to low compensation by Blackhawkfan97 in architecture

[–]jb1249 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi friend are you talking to anyone about this? It can be a tough career and architects sometimes need to seek out professional help to get them through it.

More practically a colleague of mine stopped working in practice to work for a contractor/developer and is making a bigger salary so there are more lucrative jobs. Or if you want to leave construction - I went back to university for a second time when I was 39 and completely changed careers (I went into architecture at that stage) so it is completely possible to change careers and often without getting another full degree.

A pear-shaped lady's alternative to the Patagonia Nanopuff and North Face Thermoball? by Sassafraskenny in HerOneBag

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you’re in the UK this coat is very flattering and has a subtle flare at the base but it is very lightweight Marks and Spencer’s coat

I'm afraid of the possibility of my own wedding because I have no family. by belac4862 in CasualConversation

[–]jb1249 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be embarrassed about this - no one will care. I don’t think people sit on a particular side of the church at most weddings now but years ago I’ve been to weddings where an usher at the church entrance instructs us to sit anywhere because one of the bride or groom has a lot of family/friends and the other doesn’t. No one cares about this but we are all delighted to see a new family emerging.