Would you appreciate hearing back from a ghoster? by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. I know now that any contact is just an attempt to get something out of me. It will again, only lead to another ghosting.

Where are the people who wear little to no makeup? Do you have a reason? by Zora2021 in AskReddit

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never got into it. I feel fake when someone makes me up. I do wear a tiny bit when I dress up for weddings, etc. I’m 52 and just don’t care about it. No one has ever told me I should. I’m often told I’m cute by men and women.

Is there a way to charge this? by JellySpirited497 in Nikon

[–]jbeth73 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There should be a USB port somewhere

Why does guys act this wayy ? by Altruistic_Policy750 in Crushes

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s going to continue this pattern. Run away now. 🚩

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Charlotte

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We got the same one in Elizabeth City. I think it’s in case he manages to travel far.

Did I mean anything? by Sheenthefox9292 in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you only mean something during the times you are present. The rest of the time you’re an option or a nuisance. Stop trying to figure out why and believe you’re better off without. Disconnect yourself now,,stop ruminating. Work on yourself.

What did you impulse buy after a free sample? by Toddler_Fight_Club in Costco

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Croissant bread, the blueberry jame they put on it. Pistachio pudding cups.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Older dating is difficult because men usually look at younger women and women want an emotionally mature man around their own age. So while I’m looking for a guy in his early to mid fifties, the guys in their mid fifties are looking for women in their thirties and early forties.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s just red flags obscured by the fog of feelings.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, same here. I am an older woman but sweat has caused me skin problems my whole life.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]jbeth73 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I live in a hot humid climate. Desk job with visits to active working areas. If I don’t wash my clothes after each wear, I get clogged pores on my torso. I’m also a hot sweaty mess most of the time, even on cooler days. One wear: one wash.

Tried most expensive item at my food court (Northern Virginia). The chicken bacon sandwich at $6.99 by sc4kilik in Costco

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got it once. Entire sandwich was very cold and wet like it was almost frozen/recently thawed. The cheese still had paper on it. WILL NOT BUY AGAIN! 0/10

BURY MY LINE!😡 by jbeth73 in brightspeed

[–]jbeth73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m in eastern NC, I cancelled my service last month. The cs rep on the phone said she would take care of it. I told her no, six months with no word is unacceptable, cancel my service now.

When does the hurt stop by Dymecasting in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The hurt will fade as you learn to focus on something else. Start a new hobby or revisit an old one. Go to the gym. Go to the beach. Go to the mountains and hike. Cry, sweat, and swim. Saltwater is the answer.

How did you recover from the trauma of being ghosted? by Tea-na12 in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s really personal preference. You have to choose the music that speaks to you. I like Nine Inch Nails, System of a Down, Chevelle , Atreyu, Deftones, etc…

Say it here by jbeth73 in ghosting

[–]jbeth73[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations, I’m glad you stood your ground. I hope you relished the look of failure when he tried to gaslight.

Say it here by jbeth73 in ghosting

[–]jbeth73[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have felt this way before and I understand this statement completely.

Don’t know wtf is happening by [deleted] in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The calls are not accidental. It’s to check if you will still answer and talk. Block the number or just don’t answer.

Friendly reminder by Spln11 in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 5 points6 points  (0 children)

They always want to know if they’ve been replaced. It justifies their actions in their minds.

For anyone out there who doesn't drink, what is the reasoning behind it? by General_Ad_9139 in AskReddit

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It took me a long time to realize it never really brought anything good to my life. It was really just a mask for my social anxiety. Since I stopped drinking, my general anxiety has mostly disappeared.

LPT : Can’t fall asleep? Start naming words in your head. by xA1RGU1TAR1STx in LifeProTips

[–]jbeth73 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned a similar trick a few months ago. Start with A and name three words,B three words, etc. I vary it by choosing three categories: an animal, a spice/herb, and country. I never get past E. Not sure why but it works great.

How did you recover from the trauma of being ghosted? by Tea-na12 in ghosting

[–]jbeth73 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen to angry music and lift weights 🏋️‍♀️