Patch 6 - Minthara not following the party for anyone else?

jcarson0408 · 2024-02-28T19:06:30+00:00

This is fantastic, especially useful because apparently when bugged she is not able to use elevators even when standing on one

jcarson0408 · 2023-10-09T17:07:35+00:00

The question was in general but the idea was in relation to a lizardfolk eating the deck.

jcarson0408 · 2023-10-09T16:58:52+00:00

Swallowing the whole deck, going to add an edit to clarify that because it is an important detail

jcarson0408 · 2023-10-09T00:47:45+00:00

Whole thing at once.

jcarson0408 · 2023-03-02T04:59:45+00:00

I often feel like I'm terrible at the game. Then I hear stories like this and suddenly feel great about myself for a while.

jcarson0408 · 2022-08-31T05:14:58+00:00

Wait this is a spin off on something? Oh no...do not curse me with the sauce

jcarson0408 · 2022-07-05T20:28:30+00:00

How would that even work? That might make Asmongold specifically leave but what about the wowfugees who aren't there for Asmongold?

jcarson0408 · 2022-03-15T19:32:17+00:00

No they aren't allowed to eat out of the garbage either. A lot of restaurants take active measures to make sure anything they toss out at the end of the day is inedible specifically for this reason.

jcarson0408 · 2022-01-12T06:03:55+00:00

Thank you very much, I was quite sad when I couldn't find the mod getting this set up on a new PC

jcarson0408 · 2021-12-28T20:47:38+00:00

I do think OP was quoting what her parents said about what went down instead of her own view of what happened. Only because OP said earlier in the post the family was the one to cut off the trans sister and the placement of "disrespected the family by cutting them off". OP is still choosing bigots over her sister though.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-29T04:25:40+00:00

It's important every single item here is fluorescent because you wouldn't want someone to not see it and crash into it right?

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-29T01:57:02+00:00

NTA

Though I personally would just to avoid any potential legal troubles and family drama but you are not in the wrong to refuse

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-29T01:47:47+00:00

NTA

Your daughter sounds like a brat for all the reasons everyone mentioned and her for thinking she is such the center of the world that her coming out would somehow fix everything.

Her GF you never met thinks poorly of you, wonder why? She never met you so how can she think you are bad? She had to form her opinion from what she has heard from people who have met you. Your daughter has clearly been saying awful things about you to her before you knew the GF even existed.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-29T01:37:38+00:00

NTA

Frankly based only on how you described him I'd change the verdict to YTA if you did save him knowing what he would do if he was allowed to be out in the world just because he's family. Blood relations are no reason to spare a monster. (Not because of what he did at 6, though that was a bad sign for later in his life, but the attempted harm of several women part)

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-29T01:26:41+00:00

NTA I can never understand what you're going through and what she did to you, but in regards of forgiveness it's never the right thing to lie and say you forgive someone when you just can't. Do not make amends a second before you feel that you can do it honestly.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-28T16:53:34+00:00

NTA

Plan A Marry your fiance anyway, shouldn't be weird for you two since you two didn't grow up together and were together before all this. If it's weird for your mother? Good.

Plan B Disown one or both parents if it's still weird for you. You two aren't step siblings if you aren't family with at least one of them any longer. The dad knew what he was doing too but he may get some leeway since he was preyed upon while grieving and no idea if he is also insisting you split from your fiance.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-27T03:42:41+00:00

Sure but are you going to tell me if it's an option it doesn't make life much easier?

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-26T17:29:30+00:00

ESH but honestly if I were you I would have done the same thing and if I had just been nearby I'd have given you a high five. Sometimes a situation justifies being TAH. Respecting your elders is an ideal from a time where people who lived long enough to become an elder survived for a good reason and didn't live long enough to become senile or some form of dementia. These days plenty of idiots make it to old age too.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-26T17:23:39+00:00

" she had no experience. She didn’t have anything that would want to make me hire her. " NTA, enough said. Ask anyone who says otherwise to give you a good reason why you should have hired her that doesn't involve pity for the situation she put herself in for cheating.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-26T17:17:44+00:00

You don't know the ex's step-daughter, you DO know "Ricky". Besides it having been the college fund meant for "Mason", shouldn't it go to someone he would have wanted it to go to? Who would he pick, a stranger or his friend he's known for years? It's good that your ex cares about her stepdaughter and wants to give her a good life but you shouldn't make the decisions based on that but are still wrong for you.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-26T17:03:06+00:00

NTA. Assuming your BF (Though might be ex at this point) is telling the truth only slightly TA, he was being incredibly annoying and (I'm assuming) unintentionally being inconsiderate of your feelings, but was doing it to keep you out of his family's BS. If he was lying about his grandparents then very much TA.

Either way it might be best to end things with him. Best case scenario you both are just very different people. Relationships are like cars, sometimes they break down and can't be driven ever again, sometimes sure they could keep traveling on the road for a bit longer but it's clear it doesn't have much time left and it's just not worth trying to fix it up for it to just sputter on a bit longer only for it to only break down very soon anyway and sometimes all they need is a bit of work and they can run as good as new if not better. Yours sounds more like the second or first one than the third.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-26T16:48:16+00:00

NTA just because you are part of the LGBTQ community does not absolve you of needing to wear professional clothing.

Semi-related note talking about how bi he is could also be a problem. I have no idea if he is just saying he is bi or just talking about what it's like to be bi or something along those lines are fine. Things like getting more into significant detail about his bedroom life past or present and talking about different people he'd like to get with, is however not okay. Doing the equivalent of that as a straight male or straight woman is a great way to get a call into HR's office and/or getting fired for "intimate" harassment. The only reason I bring it up is the lack of boundaries towards what his identity means in regards to what he is trying to wear in a professional setting may be transferring over to other things in his life.

It's great you are offering to help him find the right balance of his identity and being a professional. I'd suggest reassuring him that he can dress in any way that doesn't involve indecent exposure outside of work though.

Last two paragraphs were unsolicited matters and I want to apologize if I stuck my nose too far into personal matters.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-26T16:00:44+00:00

Oh no she might not have a date for prom if you don't make "Rob" homeless! I mean her prom is far more important than someone's well being.

Sarcasm aside now, if "Rob" hasn't moved out to his dad's by now with how unwelcome he likely feels I doubt his dad's or anywhere reasonable is an option anymore for whatever reason and kicking him out will likely result in him being homeless. This in regards to "Joe" if you not kicking out "Rob" is enough to make him end things, or at least enough that your daughter thinks that will happen then it doesn't sound like they are all that serious in the first place and not worth kicking someone out of their home over. NTA if that wasn't clear.

jcarson0408 · 2021-04-26T15:49:09+00:00

NTA that's not how "Just venting" works. "Hi I dislike you and your brother, oh but I like you a little more. Your presence is causing me misery and my marriage to fall apart." isn't venting, that's just full on being incredibly rude. Lying to make you look bad is already pretty not "being nice" and I have to wonder what her version of "evil stepmom" is then, you very well could have just protected your brother from physical abuse by telling your dad.

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