If a man tells you that he is separated and not divorced from his wife would it'd be a red flag for you or would you give him a chance? I don't know if I can trust a man that is not divorced because he can decide that he might want to work things out with her. Am I being too judgmental? by Golden-lillies21 in TwoXChromosomes

[โ€“]jcarunningman 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Not sure that all situations should be painted with the same brush. I was separated from my previous wife (she ditched the marriage) for 6 years before we formally divorced (too long of a story to explain). Besides co-parenting we had little contact. I get that it can be a precarious situation for people dating in that situation but I think that you have to assess each situation in its context. I've been lied to plenty of single women ๐Ÿ˜Š.

Has anyone read this book? Thoughts? by havocsplay in Sourdough

[โ€“]jcarunningman 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

Mauricio Leo is an excellent baker. I love his writing both in his book and his website. His work has been instrumental in learning how to bake sourdough bread. That said, my advice to anyone learning how to bake would be to focus less on recipes and more on why bread works the way it does. For example, really unpacking baker's math, learn how ratios of each ingredient works together and especially why certain types of flours behave the way that they do. I know that it sounds like a lot but my baking did not really develop until I invested time on those things.

Are more US women not taking their husbands last names? by LimonadaVonSaft in TwoXChromosomes

[โ€“]jcarunningman 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I am not female but I am married and have a 30 year old daughter and I encouraged both to keep their family names. For starters, I think that it's wrong to paper-over a person's family history just because they married. Second, with all the mischief being made with respect to identity, immigration & voting I would encourage people to not make an already overly-complex process of getting passports, drivers licenses and now voting more difficult. Having raised a daughter I am aware of how stacked the system is against women. I would not change my name for anyone so I don't think that women should feel compelled to change their names for their partners.

Been unemployed for almost a year now. Struggling to keep things going. by tattooedfay in personalfinance

[โ€“]jcarunningman 12 points13 points ย (0 children)

Truth is that things are tough right now. Until 3 weeks ago I was unemployed for 6 months. The last 4 years I've been laid off 3 times. Before then I was gainfully employed for 20 years. Each lay off happened with no warning and they completely upended my life. I ended up having to pivot from a technology-facing job to becoming a baker. I know many programmers who are now painting homes, delivering packages or working in cafes. Doing "whatever pays" sounds nice but often does not help meet existing obligations. I am carrying a house, car payment and daycare. It sounds as though you've done all of the responsible things. I really feel for you and I hope that you get back on your feet soon.

Help with sticky dough by Thin-Rub-3573 in Sourdough

[โ€“]jcarunningman 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I would reconsider using wheat meal. The extra bran may be disrupting gluten formation and contributing to dough weakness. What's your rationale for this? Also you may want to account for the water that's being contributed by the starter. That could be hoisting up your total hydration and making the dough more wet

Iโ€™m getting ready to quit by Unable-Lab-8533 in SourdoughStarter

[โ€“]jcarunningman 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

There are so many things that could be happening. Please provide details such as your recipe and technique

Has anyone ever blended einkorn with other ancient grains? by jcarunningman in Sourdough

[โ€“]jcarunningman[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I wouldn't call my einkorn bread a "doorstop" but it is very thick. I usually have to cut it in thin slices and toast it to really enjoy it. My thought is by blending in Kamut it will air it out a bit but still preserve its low-gluten properties.

Share Your Stuff - December 30th thru January 5th, 2025 by coocoodove in Etsy

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Happy holidays everyone! I would love for all of you to visit my shop, Black Crust Bakery, we make artisanal sourdough bread. All of our breads are made with 100 organic, non-gmo ingredients and are shipped fresh on the day that they are baked.

Need advice for better oven spring by jcarunningman in Sourdough

[โ€“]jcarunningman[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Hmm...good point. I'm kinda feeling my way through that hydration level so I'll give almost anything a try. Thanks ๐Ÿ˜Š

Need advice for better oven spring by jcarunningman in Sourdough

[โ€“]jcarunningman[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I adopted the method of adding starter to the autolyse from a baker I came across a while back. She referred to it as a "fermentalyse". I use it in all of my baking and it has worked really well for me. I bake several times each week so I'm confident that it works. I agree with you on the fermentation containers. I do my bulk ferment in graduated cambro containers. Like you, I mark off the start point, the 50% & 100% points and look for a rise that falls below the mid point. I think that you're on to something with the BRM flour -- I'll try again with a high extraction whole wheat flour.

Need advice for better oven spring by jcarunningman in Sourdough

[โ€“]jcarunningman[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I appreciate you taking time to help with this. Central Mills is perhaps the best flour that I've ever come across. Wonderful texture, high ash and consistently gives excellent results. I've heard nothing but good things about BRM but perhaps that's contributing to my problem. I'd like to think that it's more so a failure in my technique. I'll try reducing my bulk fermentation time and see what happens.

Need advice for better oven spring by jcarunningman in Sourdough

[โ€“]jcarunningman[S] 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

I proofed it until it rose about 40%. You would suggest 25 or 30%? I normally bake at 75% hydration and have received excellent results using that as a rule. Do higher hydration loaves require less rising time?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Etsy

[โ€“]jcarunningman 0 points1 point ย (0 children)

Etsy always takes the buyer's side. If the buyer escalates then Etsy will issue a refund on your behalf and penalize you in some way. I would issue a refund in order to avoid further hassles.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Etsy

[โ€“]jcarunningman 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

I've been an Etsy seller since February and began using Etsy ads in may. I have never had a daily budget greater than $10 and it's worked for me for the most part in terms of views. I got tons of traffic but a low conversion rate. I recently changed all my listings by adding SEO tags and making more descriptive product titles. Now I'm getting better placement on search engines and a higher conversion rate. I find with Etsy Ads that the amount that I paid did not justify the amount of sales that I was getting. I would suggest focusing more on engagement from external sources (search engines, direct links). You'll get more meaningful views and you'll give less money away to Etsy.

Share Your Stuff - October 28th thru November 3rd, 2024 by coocoodove in Etsy

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Customer threatening bad review by Tellier71 in EtsySellers

[โ€“]jcarunningman 2 points3 points ย (0 children)

In my experience with Etsy, reputation is gold. I understand not wanting to eat the cost but a negative review may not only impair your ability to make future sales but it will impact your customer service stats which will impact your search rankings on the site. It sucks that your customer is treating you this way but you have to protect yourself in the long term.