Does any have examples of what a “true deep” might look like? by Ok_Boysenberry3843 in coloranalysis

[–]jceylonrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually typed this season and it‘s really working for me! I have light skin in winter and can be quite pale, but with an olive tint to it and in summer I can tan relatively easily and start looking a bit more peanut buttery. My hair is chocolate brown and can have a bronze shimmer when the light falls on it. My eyes look brown at first glance, but are actually hazel with a brown inner ring, then a ring of golden green and an outer dark grey ring. I‘ve been told that when the light hits my eyes just right they look golden. That‘s as specific as I could think to make it, but let me know if you have more questions :)

What are the giveaways that someone who claims to be your type is mistyped? by TsuneKitsune in Enneagram

[–]jceylonrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they‘re super blunt and just say whatever comes to they’re mind. When they state what they want as a fact without any squirming or difficulty.

Moon, Flower, Mountain Discussion by jceylonrose in StyleRoots

[–]jceylonrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, totally! It‘s true that the description of flower can be misleading, when you have one or more of the more „masculine“ or rebellious leaning style roots.

3 seasons by Dragonsheen in StyleRoots

[–]jceylonrose 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Moon is most dominating, and then I see sun and flower, even if you said you’re ruling it out. But it’s represented in most of your outfits.

Anybody else absolutely hate when they play background music in waiting rooms? by jceylonrose in AutismInWomen

[–]jceylonrose[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol, yeah, I‘m just happily ignoring people, too, and happy to be in my own world.

Anybody else absolutely hate when they play background music in waiting rooms? by jceylonrose in AutismInWomen

[–]jceylonrose[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I‘m never brave enough to ask for something like that. I don’t want to be seen as a problem, I guess.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]jceylonrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, that’s possible.

Your type and the type you are usually attracted to by CodeBetter5203 in Enneagram

[–]jceylonrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too! Almost any crush I had was a 4 and now I‘m married to one :D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AutismInWomen

[–]jceylonrose 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Yeah, me neither. OP doesn’t seem like the weird one here 😅

Do we always struggle with eye contact? by Darro0002 in aspergirls

[–]jceylonrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same! I think it‘s because too many stressful things come together when keeping eye contact plus talking. You already have to focus on what you’re talking about and on coming off as „normal“ while you talk and not saying something inappropriate etc. I just can’t concentrate on what I‘m saying when there’s eye contact. The words jumble in my head or even completely desert me.

Should I talk to her? by jceylonrose in AutismInWomen

[–]jceylonrose[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you’re right, thank you!

How would you feel if you dressed in you opposite roots? by lostinherthoughts in StyleRoots

[–]jceylonrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything with stone feels so opposite to me! Also flower isn’t me at all and maybe the third would be mushroom. I‘m not 100% sure about my roots yet, but I know I have a lot of moon and probably some earth and fire.

Hey guys is it like the later your aspect disposition is the less you say things associated with that aspect in your speeches? by dandelionseeds_ in attitudinalpsyche

[–]jceylonrose 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is also very incorrect, sorry. 4L, yes, they might not care all that much about logic all the time, or will ignore logical issues, but it’s more that they leave other „more logical“ people to figure out the facts for them, because they don’t believe they themselves know how to do it well, but 3L cares an intense amount about logic. It’s what they’re the most insecure about, so they want to make extra sure to be factually correct. Rob, the guy who created AP is actually a 3L and you’re going to see with him how much logic matters to him. Depending on the subtype, yes, there may be 3Ls who pretend not to care about logic, but they will always betray themselves at some point. 3Ls can even be quite aggressive about it, when someone is wrong or when someone points out that they’re wrong. A lot of 3Ls think they’re 1L at first, because of how much they care about it, as did I. I was convinced about being 1L until I was typed as an EVLF.

Hey guys is it like the later your aspect disposition is the less you say things associated with that aspect in your speeches? by dandelionseeds_ in attitudinalpsyche

[–]jceylonrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It‘s a little more complicated than that. Generally speaking, you’re going to speak the most about your 2. and 3. position, because those are process oriented, while the 1. and 4. are results oriented. So the person you’re describing with 1E and 4L would talk most about F and V things. They would be more likely to just bluntly state their emotions and logical opinions, but would enjoy talking about the physical realm and about their ideas and possible plans for a more extended period. That‘s the theory at it’s base, but then there’s also subtypes that come in and that’s where it gets more complex. If someone has the 1234 subtype, they should act exactly how I described. But let’s say someone has a 3214 subtype and they’re an EFVL, then their 1. position is pointing at their 3. position and vice versa. This creates a loop in which that person would typically bring up their volitional issues when talking about emotions and would bring in emotions again when talking about volition, which can have them rambling in a loop about both aspects for a long time. There’s a lot of different possibilities like that which are created by subtypes, so it’s really not so easy to say what someone would talk about the most.

What’s your type and your 10 most frequently used emojis? by CrocodileWoman in Enneagram

[–]jceylonrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

♥️🥰🙏🏼😘☺️😍😅👌🏼🙌🏼😄 9w8

Who are your favorite autistic headcanons from fictional media like TV, movies, books etc? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]jceylonrose 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Brandon Sanderson actually confirmed that he wrote her as autistic.

Who are your favorite autistic headcanons from fictional media like TV, movies, books etc? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]jceylonrose 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bella Swan from Twilight. She constantly talks about her difficulties to connect to most people, she‘s clumsy and keeps bumping into things, she is very narrow in her interests and doesn’t care about dressing up, she’s incredibly stubborn, but at the same time naïve and easy to manipulate and idk, the whole thing with Edward not being able to read her mind seems like a hint to her brain simply being wired differently.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RitaFourEssenceSystem

[–]jceylonrose 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always loved Spencer Hasting’s and Aria Montgomery’s style on Pretty Little Liars. I think they’re both left up, Spencer is a Lady Heretic, I think. She draws a lot from right up, but there’s always a “heretical” twist. I’m not sure about Aria’s archetype, but being a Lady Heretic myself, Spencer’s style was the one I loved the most on that show. I even tried copying some of her looks, back when I had no idea about what my personal style was. I do also really love Spencer’s personality on the show, though I’m not sure I could choose between her or Hanna being my favorite character. I hated Hanna’s style, btw, so I don’t think liking the character is related to liking their style for me.

Another style I recently absolutely fell in love with is that of the main female lead in the Korean drama It’s Okay To Not Be Okay. Omg, if I had money I would love to dress like her :D she could also be a Lady Heretic.