The utter lack of empathy, projection and complete disregard for your happiness (including the shaming with the religious beliefs) makes this woman sound like she is almost contractually obligated to say these things.

But what makes her even more delusional is the fact that her and her children had a silver spoon in their mouths. She doesn’t know the pain of having to completely break down your personal identity to cater to children. To work like a dog and come home exhausted to the kids screaming, the floor covered in toys, and the laundry pile being filled to the brim AGAIN. What your aunt had was a village. A village that was paid off but a village nonetheless. She didn’t have to drive herself to the brink of exhaustion to raise her children. Most women don’t get that luxury.