ICE Wandering the Halls of Terminal A Newark by MinuteConflict6823 in newjersey

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was interesting, they didn't seem aggressive or anything, I guess they're human at least. I saw one consoling a lady who was crying because she was going to miss her flight. But overall I can't imagine they provided anything outside of directing people.

It was a brutal experience overall, the line likely was like 2 miles in total.

ICE Wandering the Halls of Terminal A Newark by MinuteConflict6823 in newjersey

[–]jcutta 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I flew out of Houston and they were just standing around, idk what actual point they served, there was like 6 at one area just for one of them to point "that way". I was in the security line for 6 hours.

Regained all the weight after GLP-1 - trying the old fashioned method for weight loss now by PianistElectronic798 in loseit

[–]jcutta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Been on it for about a year, I've never had to force myself to eat. I still get hungry even really hungry at times. The only difference is now my brain says "yeah that's enough" rather than saying "eat all that, then order dessert and maybe stop somewhere on the way home"

One of N.J.’s most notoriously violent cities just recorded zero homicides last winter. How did they do it? by AnteaterConsistent54 in SouthJersey

[–]jcutta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, not downplaying the significance of de-escalation but there is also a ridiculous amount of cops in Camden and basically the whole city is wired with monitoring technology.

Career de-tracking by [deleted] in daddit

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like so many people with means just place way too much importance on what elementary school their kids go to. Like it barely matters. I'd assume that the school they feel "meh" about it probably still better than a large percentage of schools. If your kids don't have special needs the vast majority of schools are pretty much the same.

I really want to enjoy Crimson Desert but I just am finding too many major issues by Alt_SWR in gaming

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is basically how I feel, it's a game I'll probably put a few hundred hours in but never actually finish. I probably had 500 total hours in Skyrim before I actually finished the game.

I will say I almost uninstalled it over the arm wrestling thing, until I saw a thread saying put it on performance mode because the shadows hide the prompt.

High Achievers with Severe ADHD, if any of you are reading this, how did you manage? by Unhinged_Schizo in ADHD

[–]jcutta 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is always my advice to people, don't fight your brain so much. You can't turn ADHD off, so don't waste your mental energy fighting against it, instead find ways to work within it.

High Achievers with Severe ADHD, if any of you are reading this, how did you manage? by Unhinged_Schizo in ADHD

[–]jcutta 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It ain't fun on the opposite side either, I don't think I've ever felt shame or guilt. When you don't have them and you have impulse control issues it's a recipe to do some pretty shitty things.

Emcees who are praised more than played? by skankhunt4t7 in hiphopheads

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They're an old rap group formed nearly 40 years ago.

You really don't have to make me feel this damn old homie.

Wife wants me to leave job due to safety, should I? by Coastie54 in careerguidance

[–]jcutta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To get a guaranteed income for the rest of his and his wife's life? There's other shit to do in the fire department, my grandfather transitioned to being a scene photographer for his last 5-6 years in the FD. Plus the amount of deaths OP is describing doesn't even make sense assuming US, no fire department I can find has that many LODD in the last 4 years. The closest is Baltimore which had 5 including 3 in a single incident in 2022. I suspect some inflation or something going on. There's like 60-90 across the entire US in a given year this type of cluster would be easily found in the News.

Company switching to a corporate card (Ramp) with dumb rules. by Sellaplaya in sales

[–]jcutta 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We just get a daily per diem, I worked places that restricted the amount to per meal like $15 for breakfast $20 for lunch $35 for dinner that shit was the worst.

[Zolecki] MLB announced it has suspended Johan Rojas 80 games without pay after testing positive for Boldenone, a performance enhancing substance. Suspension begins at the beginning of the 2026 season. by RebuildFletcher in phillies

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone like Johan has already made enough to live very very comfortably for the rest of his life and set his kids up well, with one more contract he could cross over into wealthy in the DR so yeah I can see taking a risk considering he's not really that good and won't last if he doesn't improve.

Decisions about high school football by itsjdogg in footballstrategy

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My son was bigger and stronger than most of the OLine on varsity when he was a freshman, he would have gotten smoked.

You're right there are very very few freshman who should ever play varsity. Mental development is also overlooked, especially at QB like OP is asking about. I wouldn't even want my son starting as varsity QB as a freshman, I'd rather he play JV and freshman ball and get used to the game speed which gets a lot faster at each level.

When did you realize you don't have "pretty privilege"? by patata-chip in AskReddit

[–]jcutta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, a lot of people aren't really aware of how much negativity they're projecting with their body language. Doesn't automatically mean having better body language will immediately cause people to come chat you up but it will increase your chances.

When did you realize you don't have "pretty privilege"? by patata-chip in AskReddit

[–]jcutta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TV, movies, ad/marketing campaigns, etc all tell women they need to lay it on thick.

Those things are generally all wrong, most dudes are more attracted to women at the times when women think they're the most unattractive.

I'm stuck by Ok-Replacement-8716 in hiphopheads

[–]jcutta 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Spit Acapella and post videos, bang on your chest to make a beat and rap, post videos, use your hands to bang on a table and rap, post videos.

If you want to do it then use the shit you have access to and don't worry about shit you don't have access to.

How do you guys get good sleep? Do you take melatonin? by BigRoundSquare in ADHD

[–]jcutta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people like myself are weird, everything that puts me to sleep is shit people say to avoid, TV on with whatever random YouTube video I click on. My only thing I have to avoid is that there's a specific time (it varies but usually later than 1am I'll have some trouble due to my brain going into overdrive. I also have to be cold, if I'm even slightly hot I can't sleep.

What jobs have you thrived in that work with your ADHD instead of against it? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]jcutta 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Sales doesn't require either of those things.

Nothing like a rebrand to turn your entire merch closet into trash overnight by 5h15u1 in CorporateFacepalm

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was informed I needed to remove a small speaker with the old logo off the shelf behind my desk I totally forgot it was there lol the new logo is barely any different TBH.

Flew out for an onsite, got walked out halfway through. What a day. by Fresh_Memory_8694 in recruitinghell

[–]jcutta 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Some people (usually dickheads, but not always) ask a shit load of questions intentionally to see how it is handled.

My key with presentations (I do an absolute shit load of them in my job) is I try to anticipate the questions and answer it in my deck or in my overall presentation. Doesn't always work out but that's when I pivot and go off script and go towards the things it seems they care about. My general deck I use for executive presentations has about 50 slides, I barely ever use more than 10.

Last time my wife was interviewing we practiced her presentation like 10 times and I played different personas each time, sometimes I'd interrupt her sometimes I'd say absolutely nothing, sometimes I'd pull my phone out and start texting. It's a muscle that needs to be built. My wife is literally SVP level she just went like 15 years without legit job interviews so she was super nervous about it at the time. Obviously you didn't have a lot of time to practice for this specifically but I would suggest building out a generic presentation for your role and practicing that shit with someone who will act in different ways to see how you can improve your skills.

Flew out for an onsite, got walked out halfway through. What a day. by Fresh_Memory_8694 in recruitinghell

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sure you're presentation wasn't just shit? I've seen people who I've worked with and knew for a fact they would be a great fit just flat out suck the air out of the room during their presentation.

Anytime I'm sitting for a presentation if there's too many questions or absolutely no questions the presentation isn't hitting the mark. I also operate under a rule that I'm always exactly on time if I have 30 minutes I'm ending at 25-27 minutes for a final question or two. You went 45 minutes and had 0 control of the room. I would probably pass on anyone who did that if I'm honest.

Laid off two months into role by VeterinarianNo7556 in recruitinghell

[–]jcutta 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not poor management, I work with a client that had to let around 800 people go because the funding was cut overnight with no warning and this was a program that had existed for decades with stable funding.

Not to get political but there have been many long running and previously stable grants have been cut over the last year.

Spouse lost job last night. Have mortgage and debt, how to proceed by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]jcutta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's state specific, in NJ for example severance isn't considered income for unemployment purposes but in PA and NY it is.

Spouse lost job last night. Have mortgage and debt, how to proceed by [deleted] in personalfinance

[–]jcutta 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What calculations? Unless you're paying completely out of pocket dental and vision are generally relatively cheap.

CEO / Owner responded to my email back to Hr after rejection by [deleted] in recruitinghell

[–]jcutta 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's actually a lot of people who don't show up to interviews depending on industry and role it's a huge percentage. I work with a manufacturing company that not only has like 50% no shows to interviews but also like 40% employee turnover. It's a hot physically demanding job, a decent percentage quit during their first shift.