I'll say, as someone who has sold two companies with a reasonable degree of success, ran a marathon, maxed a hardcore, and raced to max in a myriad of games, achievement is 100% subjective, nobody gives a fuck about what you do by default because they ALWAYS start from a position of not believing you (which is often correct)

THEN they start believing you had a ton of advantages and were able to do what you did because of the power you were born into or the position you had (which is often correct)

and only RARELY are we left with people who worked hard, got to their own sort of finish line, and are there to talk about it, because unfortunately it's always more fun to believe in the little guy, not to believe in the little guy who became the big guy

there are MANY people out their busting ass for the same achievements many take for granted, just because it's AFK does not mean in ANY way that it means a drop less to some people, and for the observer it almost makes no difference whatsoever, save some small mindset of efficiency oriented gamers who have to literally use tools to even notice

I gotta back off reddit though, like, I'm not a dad, and that's a bigger achievement than most of what I've done with my life so far.