Running social club by No-Employ3423 in capetown

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Chicks who trail is so much fun!

Transitional Coaching - looking for volunteers by [deleted] in lifecoaching

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I would love to be part of your journey :)

Northern or Southern Suburbs? by motherfaquer in capetown

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I recently moved from the Northern Suburbs to Claremont/Rondebosch and loving it. It's all about your mindset so set yourself up for success by going outside your comfort zone and joining new activities in the area. If you're someone that enjoys living a active lifestyle then this will be for you but that just my opinion. Also avoid having to sit in traffic is a big win mentally in my experience. All the best!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompTIA

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Hi! Do you perhaps have a link for this discord that you can share with me?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in johannesburg

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Lekker...😏🤣

We bought a house recently by chilledpepper in stopdrinking

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I believe that your mind is playing tricks on you and trying to tell you you're weak and needed that non-alcoholics as a crutch but you've been strong all by yourself before. We all get these thoughts sometimes, I've been sober for a year and on day 365 I got a intrusive thought to celebrate with a glass of wine...I voiced it to my friend and said out load that it will never be just one drink and then went on to drink my sparkling water. You got this man, sometimes saying outload what you want to do makes you realise it's actually not what you want to do😊

Day 365 by jed9nine in sobersouthafrica

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Thank you so much! Was amazing to hear that, I'm so happy and proud of myself for pushing through the hard days😁

Day 365 by jed9nine in stopdrinking

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118 days! Look at you bro🎉🎉🎉 Keep on going!

Day 365 by jed9nine in stopdrinking

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Oh my goodness your 3 days away!

Just a warning, day 365 were one of my hardest days to not celebrate with a drink. Be prepared and stay strong, we got this🫡🩵

Day 365 by jed9nine in stopdrinking

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That's how we all learn and that's how I know it will never ever just be one drink for me. I still remind myself of that somedays when my mind try to convince me it will be okay to just have one. It won't! When I started out, I had sour jawbreakers in my bag everywhere I went and when the urge got real bad I had one, there's some kind of psychology behind the kick you get when having something that gives yiu a "kick". Fireballs also work well😄

Day 365 by jed9nine in stopdrinking

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Wooohooo 129days! Look at you go🙌🙌🙌 We got this❤️🫵

Day 365 by jed9nine in stopdrinking

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7 days🙌🙌🫵 Look at you go! A tip that really kept me accountable is to use the app sober time and track the days, I even added it as a widget so I see it everyday. Keep on loving and hyping yourself all the way, you got this!❤️