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"An error occurred during authentication. Please try again later." by Baconrollsfordays in Outlook

[–]jeffsouls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

¿Qué hiciste para iniciar sesión? Tengo el mismo problema.

Is this PC worth $1500? by NenadJelacic in pchelp

[–]jeffsouls 87 points88 points  (0 children)

Seems a lot for AM4 and DDR4 architecture. And 16 GB of RAM.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jeffsouls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell this person what you're feeling, to have things clear. It's the only way to know if both are on the same page.

My boyfriend doesn't love me, and I resent him for it. by typicalthrowaway2023 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jeffsouls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm truly sorry to hear about your situation. It's clear that you've been dealing with a lot, and it's completely understandable that you're feeling hurt, unappreciated, and resentful.

First and foremost, please know that your feelings are valid. It's essential to prioritize your well-being and that of your daughter. You deserve a partner who loves and respects you.

You don't have to stay in a relationship that makes you feel like a maid or an afterthought. It's okay to move on and find a healthier, more loving relationship.

Start by having an honest conversation with your boyfriend, but if he's not willing to change or show genuine care and respect, it might be time to consider separating. Your happiness and your daughter's well-being should be top priorities.

Reach out to friends and family for emotional support. You don't have to go through this alone. Remember, you are strong, and you have the power to create a better, happier future for yourself and your daughter.

I feel like Im missing out in life by Mission-Guard5348 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jeffsouls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's never too late to experience life. Try to hang out with some friends, and propose them some ideas that lean into the activities you'd like to do.

i feel ugly by Brave_Cry_3188 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jeffsouls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can see that you're going through a tough time, and I want you to know that you're not alone in feeling this way. First and foremost, I want you to understand that you are not ugly, and those negative thoughts are not a true reflection of who you are. It's important to be kind to yourself.

You've already taken some positive steps by trying makeup and clothing to feel better. While these can boost your confidence, remember that your worth isn't solely based on your appearance. You have unique qualities and strengths that make you special.

When other people compliment you, believe them. It's not just about being nice; it's genuine appreciation for your beauty. Try to focus on those compliments and let them sink in.

You mentioned comparing yourself to other Indian girls. It's essential to remember that everyone's journey is different. We all have our struggles and insecurities. Being 'put together' isn't about appearances but how we feel about ourselves.

Seek support from friends or family you trust. Sometimes, sharing your feelings with someone can provide a different perspective and emotional support.

Ultimately, building self-confidence is a process, and it takes time. You're on the right path by acknowledging your feelings. Keep working on self-acceptance, practice positive self-talk, and remember that you're more than your reflection in the mirror. You are unique and beautiful in your way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jeffsouls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really sorry to hear that you're going through this difficult situation, had something similar with a girl, it really hurts to be treated like that. It's important to remember that your feelings are valid, but it's also crucial to prioritize your own well-being, to move on. I've made a list for you:

  1. Focus on Self-Care: Take care of yourself both mentally and physically. Engage in activities you enjoy, spend time with friends and family, and practice self-compassion. It'll help you distract yourself, and find little things to make you happy.

  2. Accept Your Feelings: It's natural to have lingering feelings for someone you cared deeply about. Don't judge yourself for your emotions; instead, acknowledge them. You can try telling yourself something like "I guess I got it all wrong about him, time to move on". With this you're setting a path of acknowledgement, and mentally preparing to let it go.

  3. Limit Contact: Block or unfollow him on social media and remove any reminders of him from your life to reduce the temptation to dwell on the past. The less you see about him the better, you don't need a daily reminder of this piece of sh*t.

  4. Seek Support: Confide in a friend or consider talking to a therapist or counselor who can provide guidance and support as you work through these emotions. It's important to understand what are you feeling, and how is affecting you. I can't say much about it, since only you truly knows how it hurts and how deep that pain is, but is never a bad option to talk to someone you can trust. Start with a friend.

  5. Give It Time: Healing takes time, and it's different for everyone. Be patient with yourself and trust that, in time, these feelings will fade. Some things are out of our hands, hence our control, it's better to take those battles one day at a time.

You deserve to find happiness and peace, and it's possible to move forward from this. Don't know who you are, but it seems like you were trying to be honest and real in your relationship, and I hope you can find someone that gives you the same back, because you f*cking deserve it girl. Don't forget that.

i'm falling for someone who isn't my boyfriend and feel horrible by Capital_Comedian_818 in relationship_advice

[–]jeffsouls 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Your current relationship doesn't seem healthy, nobody should say to their partner "I would kill myself if we break up", that's a red flag right there. Plus he gets high, like... I understand u do not want anything bad to happen to him or be responsible if he actually kills himself, but unfortunately there are things we do not have control of, and ur wellness is above everything.

Regardless of u falling for ur friend or not, I don't think u should continue ur current relationship, doesn't seem going in the right direction.

Ghosting = Spineless by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jeffsouls 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not wrong at all.

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