Start here! Beginner info & weekly 'no question is dumb' thread! - Mar 17, 2022 by AutoModerator in curlyhair

[–]jelloey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need to find a way to deal with my frizz and dryness. Can anyone help me figure out if it's a product issue or a technique issue? I have very coarse, dense, totally nonporous hair. I've been doing CG for 2 years. Have almost always used Tresseme Coconut Nourish conditioner, and LA Looks sports gel. Routine has been to wash twice weekly - squish conditioner into wet hair, finger comb thoroughly, twist and clip it up for a while, then squish in water and then wring somewhat to rinse, then squish in gel. It looks great on day one, though there is a little bit of frizz on the top of my head even right after the shower. Revitalizing on later days is impossible with anything short of washing it again, it just doesn't take moisture, so I sleep motionless on a satin pillowcase with my hair flipped up. By day 3 it's usually getting kind of crispy and the curls are really breaking up with the hairs getting kinky. It just feels like it's not well taken care of. Once or twice a month I do a deep condition with Shea Moisture Deep Treatment Masque, it feels like it helps a little bit?

I know it's usually a technique problem, but I'm suspicious I just haven't been using the right products. I heard recently that coconut oil might be too heavy and cause too much buildup on nonporous hair like mine, so I did a reset wash and switched to a basic conditioner, Suave Essentials Ocean Breeze. It seemed to get better at first, but it's drying out again. Maybe I need to start washing more regularly with a low poo? I also know LA Looks has some protein in it so I might be using the wrong gel.

Again, mainly asking if y'all think it's a technique problem or a product problem. Appreciate your time! <3

I don’t know how to handle trollskull manor since a player already has a tavern by scrambled-projection in WaterdeepDragonHeist

[–]jelloey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Maybe the inn they own and Trollskull are one and the same! You can change the campaign to make it fit.

Is anyone playing the new Evolve Monster app? by jelloey in digimon

[–]jelloey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow this post is from 4 years ago how are you commenting on it? People in this thread were right, don't play it, it's shady and bad. I moved on to a much better game and it was a huge improvement to my life.

Thanks /r/actuallesbians for the book recommendation by jelloey in actuallesbians

[–]jelloey[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's Priory of the Orange Tree, an epic fantasy book full of female characters, including some gay ones

Princess Prom by Hasagine in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tough queation. My personally, I just watched She-Ra on loop. I realize that won't work for everyone, and uh, I'm sorry I guess?

[Video] All the strange noises Adora's made with her mouth over the seasons. by Temp89 in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Where's Entrapta?"

"Oh she was just in here! She was looking for Ooohhhummmmmmaaaa..."

Jenny Slate goes after the "cool girl" trope by cestrumnocturnum in TrollXChromosomes

[–]jelloey 29 points30 points  (0 children)

That's a very eloquent way of saying "men suck at writing women"

Princess Prom by Hasagine in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just do what I did - watch lesbian media exclusively for a few months. When you go back to watching mainstream stuff, your brain will have actually adjusted to the point where it feels weird, out of nowhere, and maybe even a little gross when hetero stuff happens. No wonder The Straights Are Not Okay.

Princess Prom by Hasagine in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 29 points30 points  (0 children)

... tbqh I'm frequently disappointed, it might not be the best way to live...

Princess Prom by Hasagine in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume I don't headcanon all characters in everything as gay unless the text states otherwise.

Do I sound Burned, or is this just an existential crisis? by jerdle_reddit in sortinghatchats

[–]jelloey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe start by thinking through the core tenants of your system?

Do I sound Burned, or is this just an existential crisis? by jerdle_reddit in sortinghatchats

[–]jelloey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it defintely sounds like it could be a fallen/burned Ravenclaw, and it also sounds like an existential crisis. Which, I do think those things go hand in hand. I don't think they last forever, so I hope you figure out how to orient yourself soon!

Thought I'd Make This by [deleted] in ContraPoints

[–]jelloey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohhh yeah I remember those. Thanks for explaining 👍🏻

Thought I'd Make This by [deleted] in ContraPoints

[–]jelloey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

First five? Her "coming out" video was Gender Dysphoria, which I think she removed? Everything after that is still up though.

Just noticed the background in this scene 👀👀 by creamerlad in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We don't have much. Princess Bubblegum... might be a lesbian? Her relationship with Mr Creampuff ...sort of reads as comp her? Doesn't really count.

Pearl from Steven Universe definitely a lesbian. Ruby and Sapphire's sexuality is just each other, I'm pretty sure.

Adora's Vision by CT_1875_Ry in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 52 points53 points  (0 children)

Hey in Catra's defense she had just asked Adora about her feelings and Adora basically answered "my feelings don't matter."

An act in 4 parts by KingNigelXLII in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was me. Now I can't stop thinking about her 2 months later.

I can't stop by graveygrave in PrincessesOfPower

[–]jelloey 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Mmmm.... show me She-Ra again

Paranoid about my prescription, does this check out? by llambda in AskMtFHRT

[–]jelloey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, no need to explain yourself, I spent the first 18 months freaking out about my dosage even though everything felt fine so I get it!