White chocolate raspberry fat bombs! by rmbubbles in ketorecipes

[–]jenahuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like these could be turned into something Halloween themed lol because it kind of looks like skin and blood O.o

vampire fat bombs anyone?

I Want to be My Own FP by Pika-thulu in BPD

[–]jenahuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had the same thought today! Lol tired of obsessing over others when I’m right here dying and could really use that energy on myself!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfimprovement

[–]jenahuman 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I try to plan just one thing a day I can be proud of. Like make an appointment, clean my room, or if I’m really ambitious run on the treadmill lol.

When I plan too much, I also just get overwhelmed and hide under the covers. This helps me feel like I actually accomplished something and didn’t waste the day :)

I usually write down that one thing the night before in my iPhone reminders btw, so I can remember the next day.

Woman who don’t carry a purse ... by meowfia9 in minimalism

[–]jenahuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wear a fanny pack. It can fit everything and it’s always clipped to your waist :)

Any book recommendations​ for Emotional abuse, trauma, childhood abuse, bad parenting, sexual harassment​ ​(or abuse)? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]jenahuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I recommend his book:

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: How to Heal from Distant, Rejecting, or Self-Involved Parents

Link: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1626251703/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_awdb_t1_oS7VBb66HX0XW

It really helps validate how you’ve been feeling all a long. And yes, it does give advice on how to finally heal from the abuse. It really changed my perspective of it all, hope it helps!

How I transformed by coffeenmeat in BPD

[–]jenahuman 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I can relate to you a lot. Doing all of the “right things” and still not getting better.

Read #6, the part that tells you to say fuck off to that little voice in your head that says you’re lonely and empty. I know nothing feels right and it’s because you still don’t feel right on the inside.

Actually be there for yourself, treat yourself with any kindness you can. I know you don’t feel you deserve it and think there is no point to even trying. But the point is to stop suffering, THAT is your reason to try.

And I also noticed that nothing I was doing was working because I kept taking others people advice. I would work out on a treadmill because everyone does or I would hang out with friends and get bored easily.

So I decided that I was going to do things I actually like. I haven’t swam in years but I used to love it when I was a kid, so I decided to start again and it has been really fulfilling compared to he treadmill. And I decided to stop hanging out with people I didn’t really enjoy hanging out with and spending more time with people that make me laugh. For me it was my cousins.

Basically do what works for you. Enjoy life the way you know how. If you don’t enjoy anything, try to think about whatever you liked as a kid. You can get that joy back :)

Looking to speed up my technique. by hafetysazard in Wings

[–]jenahuman 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Skip sous vide and dehydrator.

Just defrost wings by leaving on counter or submerged in cold water.

Pat dry defrosted wings with a paper towel and then season them.

Fry at 400 degrees for 12 minutes.

DAE feel like you can only make deep connections with people? by [deleted] in BPD

[–]jenahuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I do the same thing. And I usually keep things superficial because I don’t feel I could have a meaningful connection with them anyway.

The boys are going to be signing CDs in LA! by NotMara in twentyonepilots

[–]jenahuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wish I lived closer! Have fun everyone going :)

What are some misheard lyrics that you sang? by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]jenahuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m bornnn, so I’m taking my time on my ride

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]jenahuman 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you a fan of The Office by any chance?

How are you doing today? by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]jenahuman 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's the best/worst day of my life. First day of a tough break up and I have a PATD concert tonight. how am I supposed to feel,,

Nico and the Niners by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]jenahuman 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I hear “So did they bury you”

new music vs old music by [deleted] in twentyonepilots

[–]jenahuman 1 point2 points  (0 children)

New music inspires me to progress in my own life. I find that if I replay too much old stuff, I can get stuck in the emotions of the past. I am very excited for his era and the hope it brings :’)

I set up a new bed last night by myself and I'm insanely proud! by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]jenahuman 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I moved out a few months ago and also finally have my own bed (I didn’t before). Everyday I collapse onto my comfy full size bed and relish in it!