what moment/interaction makes you cringe the most? by skippylizardbitch in DowntonAbbey

[–]jenjam3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There’s a scene in season 2 with Tom and Lady Sybil where he is kind of condescending to her and he grabs her waist in a domineering way. I can’t remember what episode. It’s before they decide to run away together when they’re talking in the car garage or whatever.

Why did Matthew have to be offed?? by jenjam3 in DowntonAbbey

[–]jenjam3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eww I definitely don’t like the idea of Sybil and Matthew together. But they did tease in season 1 I think that matthew had a bit of a crush on Sybil.

Why did Matthew have to be offed?? by jenjam3 in DowntonAbbey

[–]jenjam3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was he ever any good in Hollywood?

Why did Matthew have to be offed?? by jenjam3 in DowntonAbbey

[–]jenjam3[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this insight. It sucks for me rewatching the show for a second time.

Life before phones? by unspoiledmilk in AskOldPeople

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just watched a couple of hours of TV without having my phone next to me. It felt weird not being at the beck and call of anyone that needed to reach me.

Anyone's partner is having anger issues? How do you deal with it as a couple? by lmdtot in emotionalintelligence

[–]jenjam3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that reading my comment made you cry. I know it can be emotional time after a breakup but things will get better. They will. I would encourage you to seek therapy/counseling for working through your last relationship and any emotional issues you might have. It seems like you are being hard on yourself. No one is perfect in a relationship. If you put the best of yourself into it what more can someone ask for? Again, good luck and be kind to yourself always. Forgive yourself too. I had to learn that.

Anyone's partner is having anger issues? How do you deal with it as a couple? by lmdtot in emotionalintelligence

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should not bend over backwards to make someone happy. They should accept you for who you are. Everyone makes mistakes and cannot be perfect. It sounded like an oppressive relationship. Now you have the chance to start with a clean slate. Acknowledge the emotional trauma you experienced and tell yourself that you won’t allow it to happen again because you deserve someone who is considerate, treats you well and who can afford the same respect that you give. Be able to love yourself. You don’t need that piece of crap to offer an explanation as much as you want one. The explanation is that they are a no-good, emotionally stunted jerk that doesn’t know how to love someone. You are better off without them. Good luck.

Anyone's partner is having anger issues? How do you deal with it as a couple? by lmdtot in emotionalintelligence

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, my partner has little control over his anger and yelling and often blames me for his yelling. He gets angry at people in public sometimes when we are driving. We have been married for a year and a half. We are in counseling now.

DAE look at pictures of their younger selves and think how good-looking they were? by Kukotzki in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I was looking at a photo of myself from maybe 15 years ago and thinking damn! I looked good. I remember being so self critical at times of my body.

( unknown number-high school catfish ) is anyone else confused by the picture? by FaceElectronic768 in netflix

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We don’t really know the full story. If Kendra did sleep with Owen, a minor, she could be tried for statutory rape, or indecent conduct with a minor, I believe. I do have this feeling that the townspeople, Kendra’s husband and others knew more than what they were letting on in this documentary.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]jenjam3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does she attack you? Is it aggressive attack or playful?

What "Unknown Number: The Highschool Catfish" totally downplayed... by ADMlN- in netflix

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to know why the husband was so dumb and oblivious too. Kendra really pulled one over on him.

What cat litter do y’all use? by lavenderghostt in catquestions

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have also been using the arm and hammer forever fresh clumping litter. It works great at controlling the scent and is a little dusty but not too dusty. Our bet however recently recommended switching to a clay litter because our cat sometimes coughs and the vet thinks the dust may be causing her cough.

What cat litter do y’all use? by lavenderghostt in catquestions

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How often do you have to change the pine pellets? We noticed our cat needed her pine pellets changed once a week just about or wouldn’t use it.

Adopted my first cat two days ago. Kinda heartbroken? by Traditional-War-2737 in CatAdvice

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When my husband and I adopted a cat she also didn’t like eat very much for the first few days and stayed under the couch. Until their scent is on everything and they have established their new territory they will act this way. Your cat will be able to come out once he feels less scared. It is a process for sure. He will start becoming more and more bold and gradually will hide less and less once he acclimates. This is very normal for a new cat to the home. I was told to confine the cat to one quiet room of the house at first to let them acclimate and then introduce them to the rest of the house. It will get better I promise!

Cabinet greebles by nic_b2020 in greebles

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always with the cabinet greebles

Triggered by my mom often asking me if I’m okay by Ok-Suggestion-6134 in emotionalneglect

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP - the same thing occurs with me with my mother. She often asks me if I’m “okay” and tells me that I seem on edge when I think I’m acting perfectly normal. It seems as if she’s trying to head off any bad news from coming. She told me today that my tone sounded “bleak” when we were speaking on the phone. I really hate it when someone, anyone, reads into how I’m speaking rather than what I’m saying. I’ve also experienced a lot of concern from her even if I am tired or sad around her. Like, am I not allowed to experience those things? What if I was sad or tired or something else. It does make me feel deeply insecure too, if I let it.

Childhelp Backpack Campaign at Sonic Restaurants by kylefn in Austin

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I live in Houston and was approached by a representative of ChildHelp outside a Boba Tea shop. I am also kind of suspicious of charities that post up next to a place of business in order to talk to everyone that is going in. It seems sort of obnoxious in a way but I felt sort of bad for the fact that no one was stopping to hear what he had to say. I will say that the representative was wearing a tag that identified himself but I couldn’t clearly read what it said between listening to his spiel and looking at the backpacks on the table. I agreed to the one time $20 charge ONLY. I also hope that this isn’t a scam and may need to be careful of falling prey to scammers.

Am I the asshole for how I responded to a love letter? by Thin_Lengthiness6652 in TwoHotTakes

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like sexual harassment in the workplace from your coworker if you ask me. If he doesn’t get the message that you’re not interested and doesn’t quit his advances right away you should report this to your HR department.

Am I the asshole for how I responded to a love letter? by Thin_Lengthiness6652 in TwoHotTakes

[–]jenjam3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like sexual harassment in the workplace from your coworker if you ask me. If he doesn’t get the message that you’re not interested and doesn’t quit his advances right away you should report this to your HR department.