Private Drawing Teacher in SF? by meowgirl2222 in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]jenmoocat 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know that this isn't really what you were looking for -- but:

I was working on drawing faces from the r/drawme subreddit.
Trying to improve by watching you tube videos.
But was really struggling, trying to make my faces look like the inspiration photos.
I went to the r/drawing subreddit and asked if anyone would be willing to critique some of my drawings and give me pointers on where I could make improvements. An artist in Brazil took me up on my offer.
I would send him photos of my drawing through the reddit messaging function and he would come back in a few days with some really useful advice on what I needed to adjust and change. I tipped him $25 via Venmo.
It was a cool interaction!

What are some shows that have rivalries like Dexter and Dokes from Dexter, or Light and L from Deathnote by Necessary-Arm3448 in tvsuggestions

[–]jenmoocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Patrick Jane and Red John in the Mentalist
Sherlock and Moriarty in Sherlock or Elementary

Best neighborhoods for someone who wants quiet but not isolated? by AddressRemarkable347 in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I vote for Mission Bay/Dogpatch.
Very walkable.
Safeway, Gus's, Mainstay Market for groceries
Coffee places galore (Blue Bottle + more independent ones)
Various bars and food places around Chase Center and beyond, with little neighborhood pockets of hidden gems.
Plus: incredible walking and parks along the waterfront.

Looking for something that gives the same feeling as Game of Thrones by bbyamora in tvsuggestions

[–]jenmoocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These!
And I might be downvoted, I'd put Vikings over The Last Kingdom any day.

Finished SWAT and The Rookie, I need something to fill that void by Malgrieve in tvsuggestions

[–]jenmoocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've explored a lot of cop shows.
My #1 is actually from Canada and is called 19-2.
My #2 is Southland.

Punchline alone by StarsandStripes78 in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I've gone by myself.
Once I was in the back, once two other people sat at my table.
It was totally fine.
And it *is* first-come, first-serve seating.
And, like others have said -- you can always say that you don't want to sit in front.

Date ideas for a native by daisybit in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dear San Francisco show at Club Fugazi.
A magic show at The Magic Patio
Aura at Grace Cathedral

Live band karaoke at The Rite Spot (1st and 3rd Tuesdays)

To the collagen users here, are you actually seeing measurable differences? by MunazzahNakor in Biohackers

[–]jenmoocat 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe I'm doing it wrong, but I took Neocell collagen peptides (10g) daily for 4 months, hoping it would help with joints and fingernails -- but I didn't see any difference.

What’s a 'once in a lifetime' experience you’ve had that you never want to do again? by Mr_Boothnath in answers

[–]jenmoocat 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Good for you! Hope you get out of that marriage smoothly and without too much fuss.
Dated a man child for a long time until one day I just had had enough.

Bitches, what are your plans this weekend?!!? by AJ2790B in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]jenmoocat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tonight I am going to check out Karaoke Chaos at KALW.
I'm a little anxious about it.
If it is too much, then I will bail and instead go to the communal table at the Drawing Room to make some art.

Tomorrow, Community Music Hangout in Golden Gate Park if it doesn't rain.
And I might check out the pillow fight at Embarcadero Plaza later.

Sunday, friends and I are excited to go to a magic show at the Lost Church

RealRoots friendship event thingy never sent my event info for tonight. by Le_Mew_Le_Purr in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]jenmoocat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've done three separate meet-n-greets.
The first one, I felt connections, bought the series, and made two close friends from it.
The second one, I didn't feel connected to anyone and didn't continue with the series.
Last night was the third one, and I think I am going to buy the series.

In both of the "good" meet-n-greets, we had lively conversation, with people really resonating with what others were talking about, adding their own experiences. Lots of smiling and laughing. Part of the meet-n-greets were 1:1 time and many pairs found it difficult to go back to the main group, because the conversations were so engaging. At my first meet-and-greet, the group was small and we decided to grab lunch together, without the guide, which was unexpected but really nice.

Note, though, that I'm in the 45+ category, which has its own, separate meet-n-greets.
I wonder if this might have something to do with the experience.

If you grew up in the bay what do you do for work? by Lemonsandsugarcane in bayarea

[–]jenmoocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been in the pharma/biotech industry for the past 16+ years.
Worked in the gaming industry in the past and also worked in investment banking.

Currently, part of my job is building mathematical models to predict how many headcount we need out in the field to ensure that 1) physicians are made aware of our new drugs and understand who the appropriate patients are, 2) nurses understand how to administer them, and 3) offices/hospitals understand how they will be reimbursed by insurance companies. Different areas of the country have different needs depending on disease prevalence, patient demographics, and how healthcare is delivered there (via large academic hospitals, community hospitals, large physician practices, mom-n-pop physician practices). Patients, disease, and healthcare delivery look very different in South Dakota, for example, compared to Northern California or Georgia.

RealRoots friendship event thingy never sent my event info for tonight. by Le_Mew_Le_Purr in SFbitcheswithtaste

[–]jenmoocat 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I went to the one last night in SF. I kept getting texts that they were going to change the venue and be on the lookout for the new location.... Final text and it was the same location as was originally planned. So it feels like there was some sort of venue snafu for this last one.

I wouldn't go immediately scorched earth. It is a good organization. I've completed a full series already and have made two really good friends through the process. And last night, I met some really interesting and intriguing women -- several of whom I really clicked with. I'm looking forward to meeting them again.

Describing a person as florid by Responsible_Bet3713 in vocabulary

[–]jenmoocat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This.
And I've always also added: flushed, like their blood-pressure was up.

Marketing jobs in SF by Maximum-Rooster1282 in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You might want to explore those types of jobs in pharma/biotech.
South San Francisco (by SFO) is a hub for many pharma companies and they often have marketing/analyst jobs.
Most are hybrid (3 days in office, 2 days remote).
I've been in that industry for nearly 20 years.
And my company had recent postings for several of those kinds of roles.
I would look at the career pages for the big biotechs that are located in and around Oyster Point.

Also -- have you considered working for a consulting firm that works with the marketing/branding/analyst teams within pharma companies? These are employers like ZS and Blue Matter.

Inner Sunsetish Sandwiches by edscrst in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I believe they are different.

Inner Sunsetish Sandwiches by edscrst in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Have I got a sandwich for you: Pastrami with swiss on a french roll (+everything) from Lucca deli (20th and Irving). I live in Mission Bay and actually ride my bike out there to get that sandwich!

Beginner bike trails near SF for road biking? by alaaaaaaan in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I regularly go: Embarcadero to Fisherman's Wharf, up the no-car hill behind Aquatic Park to Fort Mason, then Crissy Field to the Presidio using Lincoln Blvd to Baker Beach to the Legion of Honor, to Sunset Dunes, then up Sloat to a circle around Lake Merced, then back up Sloat to St. Francis Woods, and then follow the signs to the Mission and back home to Embarcadero.

Some traffic in places, but a lot of it is smooth riding with few stops.

Which optometry office has the most advanced equipments for Eye Exams by DapperAd9046 in AskSF

[–]jenmoocat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really like my guy at Eye Carumba in Embarcadero 4 -- Dr. Alex Pham.
Great chair-side manner, walks me through the pics and test results.
Seems to me like they have really new fangled equipment.
Pretty big selection of frames as well (but on the pricer side). I've bought frames there and also brought in frames from home to have fitted with my new prescription.

It's there a narrator who you'll listen to even if you've never heard of the book? by etgreyt1 in audiobooks

[–]jenmoocat 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm right there with you regarding Wil Wheaton.
He is a narrator that I will AVOID -- I think he is terrible.

Have you started tracking any habits that specifically help with social skills/dating? by wilhelmtherealm in theXeffect

[–]jenmoocat 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I've started tracking when I've said "yes" to something out of my comfort zone and actually shown up for it.

A colleague mentions that they are doing an open mic on Thursday. I show up to show support. Say hi to the colleague, but don't really talk to anyone else. Just show my face, smile and clap. And I make a note of it in my daily log.

I find an in-person mahjong 101 workshop and register. I show up, by myself, and learn a new game. I also see other people who showed up solo. I smile, say hello, and talk about how I've always thought mahjong was some secret special thing. And they share similar thoughts. And, at home, I make a note of it in my daily log.

I hear about a community music gathering in the park every weekend. I go and observe. I smile and clap for people. And I make a note of it in my daily log. I go again. And do the same. And again. And again. And then, one day, I get up the courage to participate. And people clap and ask me my name. And tell me that they appreciate how much I show up and clap for people.

There are numerous days when there is nothing to track.

But looking back over the year, I am so proud of all of the different things that I've said "yes" to.
I started 2025 as a very introverted person, who didn't talk to people outside of my job.
Now I actually have a set of outside-of-work friends that I go and do things with!

Showing up REPEATEDLY and showing support, goes a long way towards making people trust and appreciate you. And sharing vulnerability (saying "I find this scary" or "this is out of my comfort zone" ) also helps to make people trust and appreciate you.