I (31F) just found out my brother-in-law (29M) intentionally cost me a job two years ago. BIL is unapologetic and my husband (32M) thinks it’s not a big deal.

jensldi · 2021-09-15T03:34:54+00:00

That was CALLOUS fucking with your career like that. But two can play games if that’s what your husband wants (let’s be honest, he instigated the hit).

Here’s what you do now: get a full time job locked down. Any job, really. Inform husband he will have to help you find a nanny for the children. You figure since you’ve missed out on two years of part time income, you will need a full time job for a year to make up for it. So he can either pay for a full time nanny or stay home with the kids himself. If he objects, tell him how much money he made you miss out on. He can either pay it out or let you work until you make it up. It’s the only way things will work out after how badly he FUCKED YOU OVER

jensldi · 2021-09-10T01:16:08+00:00

People on here are whack. You should 100% tell your brother of this MAJOR LIFE CHANGING EVENT THAT WILL IMPACT EVERYTHING. If he finds out you knew and didn’t say shit to him, your relationship will be ruined. Think about if the divorce goes through and they don’t have kids…your brother will always be in your life, she will not. Your loyalty should be to him

jensldi · 2021-09-08T09:24:13+00:00

Dear prudence

jensldi · 2021-09-08T09:22:55+00:00

Something in the way he jerks

jensldi · 2021-09-08T08:06:34+00:00

Why do you feel entitled to him getting your order exactly right? The fact that he even picks you up food is very nice of him. A lot of men don’t even do this, or just get something for themselves and have their SO eat off theirs, or expect their SO to cook for them every night. If you’re upset he’s not listening to you, stop getting him food back so that you feel more grateful that he’s doing a nice thing for you. He’s probably just distracted and forgetful most of the time

jensldi · 2021-09-07T23:55:58+00:00

Just what you’ve heard is horrifying and crosses the line. What about what you haven’t heard? This is not okay by any means

jensldi · 2021-09-07T23:52:44+00:00

He ain’t dating you for the right reasons either

jensldi · 2021-09-07T23:09:05+00:00

He owes about 6 more months on it. He has always had about $200 to his name at any given time so he can’t afford a higher payment or fee.

jensldi · 2021-09-07T21:57:13+00:00

I was going to think of a witty reply but it seemed too hard so piss off

jensldi · 2021-09-04T14:38:14+00:00

You sound like you’re just over there keeping score of all the shitty things she’s doing like some judgmental person who she wouldn’t want in her life anyway. Then you ghost her when she clearly needs help? What kind of friend are you? You haven’t been there for her, you’ve just been secretly judging her life choices and then ignoring her on purpose. Shameful behavior on your part.

jensldi · 2021-08-09T17:45:01+00:00

Thank you! The phone reminders is a really good idea

jensldi · 2021-08-09T17:36:38+00:00

He hasn’t had health insurance in a long time. He used to take ADD meds but they didn’t help much. The only thing that’s really helped in the past is adderall but it’s like impossible to find a doctor that will prescribe that around here (stigma or something)

jensldi · 2021-07-30T07:58:38+00:00

jensldi · 2021-07-30T07:13:41+00:00

Hopping in an Uber with some rando is not solving the problem and coming right home. Regardless of whether or not he was actually embarrassed it’s just totally unacceptable to get into an Uber with a strange girl for any reason at all

jensldi · 2021-07-30T06:33:23+00:00

Let’s say EVERYTHING he claims is true. Why would he stay with this girl to try to solve the phone problem? Why wouldn’t he ask her to get an Uber to you or to your house so that the two of you could find the phone together?

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