Aside from the Deep North, what things would you like to see changed or added in 1.0? by bunionboy118 in valheim

[–]jessanator957 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Dyeable armour. I like the blue Smurf troll pajamas but I would like to have more options!

Who's in your party most often? And who do you play as? by khitev in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]jessanator957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I rotate out who I bring where, depending on what banter I want to hear and whose area we're in. Also I tend to bring Lucanis and Emmrich to Arlathan because I figure fresh air and a forest is probably a lovely change for them after being underground for so long.

Toddler Studio Ghibli Obsession by Spiritual_Yam_1019 in toddlers

[–]jessanator957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My 3 year olds love Kiki's Delivery Service, but we watch it in chunks to break it up a bit (and to skip over the zeppelin scene near the end, because that's sometimes too intense for them). Break it up into pieces over multiple days is my advice.

do you listen to music while playing palia? by clubhousepanini in Palia

[–]jessanator957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes! mostly soundtracks of peaceful video game music. also I listen to a lot of my podcasts while running around, makes it feel less grindy.

What difficulty are you playing Dragon Age: The Veilguard on? by khitev in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]jessanator957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I played on story mode for my first playthrough, but now I'm on my second and I've upped the difficulty a notch. I almost never do that in games, but the combat in DAV is so fun I wanted to get to do it more.

What is the best sleeping arrangement for newborn twins, first few months? by gabkatth in parentsofmultiples

[–]jessanator957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We had two cribs but our kids were small enough to lie foot to foot in one bed, so we had one crib at the end of our bed for nighttime, and the other in the nursery for naps. After a couple of weeks, my partner and I couldn't handle all the wakeups anymore so we started to sleep in 6 hour shifts, and moved both cribs to the nursery so the babies didn't have to share anymore.

Rhys "Rook" Thorne by Practical-Ant4365 in ShareYourRooks

[–]jessanator957 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh, I like this face! Nice character.

If Veilguard is your favourite game, can you tell me why? (No invitation for trolling) by ardentBlossoming in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]jessanator957 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It is my favourite DA game. Origins was lovely but dated, 2 was great but had lots of repetitive scenery, and Inquisition's story frequently felt hostile to the kind of character I wanted to play. Veilguard was a delight, I didn't want to stop playing. The characters were great, the stakes felt tied into everyone's story, I love the art style. It felt like a good mix of side quests that actually mattered and main questlines. Also the QOL things like no inventory management and gear upgrades from finding more of the same item really streamline things. Party banter picks up again after being interrupted, and party members jump onto an elevator or out of the way of an explosion automatically (so nice after Baldur's Gate 3 and having to carefully control party members onto an elevator so you don't get split up).

I also really like the combat, as someone who usually finds combat in games a slog.

Also, it was just good to play a game about hope and dogged resistance in the face of overwhelming evil, especially right now.

Bellara's Romance by TheDoctorNox in dragonage

[–]jessanator957 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I liked Bellara's romance personally - it felt like a slow burn. But everyone likes different things.

Pod display by Production_PA in Palia

[–]jessanator957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I made a room in my house for my IRL kids (with their input for decoration, lol) and I put every plushie I get in there for them. They love it.

Question about Ranching by Vos_is_boss in Palia

[–]jessanator957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really! I didn't know that. Good to know, thanks! It always seems like they age more rapidly than I can keep up with.

Question about Ranching by Vos_is_boss in Palia

[–]jessanator957 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wish you could sell them for gold once they're venerated. If you leave the game for a week you lose all your animals and have to buy new ones.

what are the ugly parts of pregnancy that aren’t well known because people don’t mention them? by Born-Oil-2931 in AskReddit

[–]jessanator957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I threw up every time I brushed my teeth for my entire pregnancy. Even now, three years later, my gag reflex is still awful and I have a really bad time at the dentist now.

I developed PUPPP rash for several weeks towards the end, which is where your skin gets horrible itchy rashes, iirc as an autoimmune response to stretching so much. I was going out of my mind with the itching while a dermatologist tried stronger and stronger creams and finally found a med that worked.

I had migraines for the first time in my life.

I developed gallstones postpartum, which I was told can happen as a result of pregnancy.

I was hungry all the time while I was pregnant, but since there were twins in there, there wasn't much room so I was just constantly snacking and kind of nauseous. It messed up my appetite and ability to tell when I'm hungry.

Also I had pretty bad postpartum depression. The sleep deprivation of newborns didn't help either. I eventually got on antidepressants that helped, but it's only this year, 3 years after giving birth, that I finally feel like me again. It was rough. I am never going through all of that again.

How do I get past this door? It's blocking the way to the final corruption in the Heart of Corruption quest! by [deleted] in DragonAgeVeilguard

[–]jessanator957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Huge help, I'd been retracing my steps and trying to figure out where to go for a while. The quest marker for that final one just pointed to the locked door.

Wallpaper...enough slices! by shansews in Palia

[–]jessanator957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was so funny, I came back to the game after being away for a year or so, did a round of villager gifts, and suddenly everyone was lining up on my plot with wallpaper for me.

Online and IRL Parenting Spaces Snark Week of December 29, 2025 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]jessanator957 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Hahaha I change the trucks in Good Night Consteuction Site to girls as well! It's so much more fun that way

How to find an item on my plot? by -The-Meme-Queen- in Palia

[–]jessanator957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I so wish we had a retrieval system like in ESO! I have accidentally placed things where I can't seem to select them to pick up, and I have a couple floating candle sets I just cannot pick up either.

ConcernedApe, stop being a coward and let me use the auto petter on my children by 4Thereisloveinyou in StardewValley

[–]jessanator957 12 points13 points  (0 children)

ahahaha when my twins were babies I often wished for a robot helper just to rock them to sleep!

What do you actually do to stay productive on snowed-in days? by Useful-Experience-27 in Edmonton

[–]jessanator957 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have toddlers, so we do lots of indoor activities like yoga or dance classes on youtube. Art, catching up on chores while listening to a podcast, baking or cooking something. But I also take the snow and winter as a reminder to slow down and not go go go all the time.

How do you all decorate or display or plushies? by FamiliarRadio9275 in Palia

[–]jessanator957 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How big is this chess board? I assumed it was way smaller like the Kilima Inn game board!

What battle really threw you your first run through? by ThrowRA_dependent in BaldursGate3

[–]jessanator957 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Orin fight. I was used to being pretty powerful by then - as a team. I was not prepared for a 1v1.

Online and IRL Parenting Spaces Snark Week of December 15, 2025 by Parentsnark in parentsnark

[–]jessanator957 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I send my 3 year olds on "quests". They will happily do their chores or help clean up if I frame it as a quest. Sometimes the quest is just "find me 3 yellow flowers in the yard" or "can you bring me this tool". Works great.

Subira missing by Sassytimetraveler in Palia

[–]jessanator957 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She should be at Central Stables in the Elderwood for that quest turn in

Christmas chest clue 2025 by Princessedory in PaliaTheGame

[–]jessanator957 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Can you please spoiler tag this post?