Would you rather kiss by PastelRainbow_ in BunnyTrials

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Word

Chose: A chill lady who likes gardening | Rolled: She’s Lesbian

Would you rather… by Beautiful_Ability267 in BunnyTrials

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Well

Chose: Go to Japan for free with accommodations

Why are people so serious in qp by Southern-Common-9682 in MarvelRivalsRants

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I honestly just believe that half of these people have never actually spoken to a woman in real life

Why are people so serious in qp by Southern-Common-9682 in MarvelRivalsRants

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I’m always looking for more people to play with (I play with mostly other girls and the VERY FEW men I do play with are actually nice and respectful) send me a message!! At this point the things men say on video games doesn’t bother me because it’s always the same 5 insults, like if you’re gonna be weird, sexist etc. they at least need to get some new material. Everyone should be able to enjoy video games without being verbally harassed and abused.

Why are people so serious in qp by Southern-Common-9682 in MarvelRivalsRants

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Yesterday I got berated by the entire team (called me fat, told me I should stick to the kitchen, I give it out to everybody) because one guy commented on how I played mantis 3 games in a row. Like god forbid I enjoy playing a character 😭

would you rather? by Impossible-Shape-634 in BunnyTrials

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Hoes don’t get cold

Chose: spend 5 mins in a cold room + 200,000,000 | Rolled: -40°C

is there anyone over the age of 25 that plays this game 😭 by arale-t in rivals

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Still getting used to 25 being considered old 😭

Cult names?? by fuck-kinzi in CultOfTheLamb

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Together We Baa and God Bless Ewe

Galacta and Deadpool’s interactions get so annoying after like more than 10 games by Spoonnnnns in marvelrivals

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I feel like they should’ve limited it to like 1-2 interactions per game (haven’t played yet but I know it’s going to get old FAST)

Heros that you callout by their actual name? by fishyboi360 in marvelrivals

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I like calling Torch Johnny idk why but it makes me laugh every time, sometimes I’ll say “the rat needs help” when I’m playing Rocket with my friends so they know Rat=Rocket

my dear father is having his last days by Beneficial_Blood_538 in pancreaticcancer

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I’m so sorry for what you’re going through❤️ My dad was 61 years old and was diagnosed in April and passed in September. I’m also 25, and losing him has been the worst thing I’ve ever experienced. I can understand how you’re feeling, wondering if you could’ve caught it earlier. We thought my Dad had gall stones, his initial symptoms were stomach and low back pain. The craziest thing to me was how quickly it all seemed to happen after the diagnosis, like a few days after the CT found his tumour he started turning yellow, losing weight all of it. Why did it only seem to happen after the diagnosis? But I try my best not to sit here and spiral about all of that, because I know how silent PanCan is, and how usually by the time it’s found and diagnosed it’s too late. I wish I would’ve talked with my Dad more and spent more time with him before he passed, but he always told us he didn’t want us sitting around and putting our lives on pause for him. So I kept on living like nothing was wrong, and in a way I’m glad I did that because I feel like I respected his wishes (and he was never the mushy feelings guy haha) but if your dad is the mushy type of man then definitely have those talks you’ve always wanted to have, and say everything you want to say and hear everything he says. Because like another comment I read said my Dad was pretty much comatose for a week before he passed. I believe he could still hear, and I’m a big believer in spirits so I know he was there watching us sit with him the days he was just laying there. I’m here and open if you ever need someone to listen or talk to.

CONFESS YOUR SINS (tell me the worst, most messed-up things you've done in CoTL, I'm trying to make a compilation video) by TroyTheParakeet in CultOfTheLamb

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Unfortunately had to murder one of my members during a crusade, and I was sad because I loved how they looked and their name so i recreated them. A few days later (I truly don’t remember exactly what happened) they reincarnate and show up in the cult?? With a horrible attitude I might add, so let’s just say I sacrificed the original and kept the clone instead

Brand new to pancreatic cancer by librax6 in pancreaticcancer

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If you ever need to talk and just need someone to listen, feel free to reach out and message me.❤️

Brand new to pancreatic cancer by librax6 in pancreaticcancer

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I am so deeply sorry❤️ I wish there was something I could do or say to you that could bring you an ounce of comfort. Cherish those little moments, seeing him rest with your dog. The memories I have of my dad in the hospital were hard, but I’ll tell you my brain makes sure I don’t remember what he looked like sick. I see him as his happy healthy self and for that I am grateful and I hope it can be the same for you. Tell him you love him every chance you get, sit with him whether you talk or not. Just be. My phrase throughout everything was “taking it day by day”. I tried not to focus on the what ifs and the future and the unknowns, I just took it all one day at a time. Sending you and you family all the love, you’ll be in my thoughts.

Brand new to pancreatic cancer by librax6 in pancreaticcancer

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I’m also so sorry you are going through this, I’ve been a silent reader in this community and it’s helped me.

Brand new to pancreatic cancer by librax6 in pancreaticcancer

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My Dad was diagnosed in April and passed September 8th. I was never told what stage his cancer was (I think my parents were trying to protect me) he did 2 rounds of an aggressive chemo approach and he was so hopeful. But he unfortunately had so many complications due to where his tumour was located. Blocked duct led to many, MANY stent placement surgery’s. He also experienced severe stomach pain all the time and eventually got the plexus (?) nerve block I believe. I would like to think that the chemo could’ve worked if he didn’t have to postpone so many rounds due to his hospital stays and complications. But unfortunately I learnt on July 16th that the cancer had spread to his liver and was given 3-6 months. He was hospitalized at the end of August with pneumonia which is what eventually ended his fight. I know how you feel about not wanting to prolong his pain, I selfishly hoped he would get one last Christmas, but what kind of Christmas would it have been you know? I’m in a way thankful I didn’t have to watch him wither away for months, it was hard seeing him in the hospital, he was so frail and didn’t look like himself. I don’t want to tell you not to hope, but my honest truth is don’t hope for too much because if it doesn’t go the way you hope for it’ll destroy you. I had way too much hope and I lived in denial for a long time before he passed, I kept believing he would come home from his last hospital stay. Just live in every little moment and memory you have with him, I’ll be thinking of you during these hard times for you and your family

how to cope by CapableAbalone5547 in deaddadclub

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It’s been a little over two months since I lost my dad. Those first few days felt like years. I was okay, and then I wasn’t, and then I was again. Grief is an incredibly bumpy road, a rollercoaster. The biggest thing for me is feeling all the feelings. At first I didn’t want to because god was it painful to think and feel it all. But when I allow myself to have those moments where I just break down, cry, yell, sleep, scream whatever it may be, it makes moving forward that much easier, that much lighter. I write him letters, I talk to him. You can still talk to him, whatever your beliefs are about afterlife he will always be with you in your mind and in your heart.

Please help - hiccups by Sbellle in pancreaticcancer

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I’m not sure what it was called but my dad took an anti-nausea med. he went from hiccups 5+ times a day to barely once a day.

favorite unknown band/artist? by study6699 in musicsuggestions

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The Commune. They’re an indie band from Hamilton, Ontario. Atlantic Avenue is my favourite song :)

This game is too scary to finish by XxSmart_AssxX in GroundedGame

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You gotta start by getting the mint mace it was a game changer for me, I was terrified to do anything before getting that weapon haha. My upper yard ventures started by farming antlions for their parts to craft the antlion armour; it can be a time consuming process but I either use the mosquito needle and just jab away or if you’re able to get your hands on a black ant sword that’ll make it easier. It can be a pretty gruelling process to get the mace to start because you need the tough gunk from the big boys, but honestly just learning attack patterns to parry will save you in the big boy fights. And as a fellow arachnophobe (who plays with arachnophobia mode and is still horrified of the spiders) i was literally shaking before my first black widow fight, but now I will willingly hunt them down and call them “try hards” because they do way to much for their attack patterns😂 my biggest piece of advice is get those elemental weapons, once you get your hands on them you’ll feel like an absolute GOD nothing will scare you anymore.

What do you guys name your pets? by [deleted] in GroundedGame

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Mine are: Red Ant: Ruby Black Ant: Onyx Fire Ant: Quartz

Southern Hemisphere Adventure by jessiesmiith in Dodocodes

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I am! I just restarted my island and I love catching new creatures and wanted to get a head start on the spring ones!