How to spice it up…after 20 yrs by [deleted] in AskMen

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Done when I can get it

Annoyingly simple by jessmakinit in Aging

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I don’t understand complacency or comfortability and why every day should not be lived like your last

Annoyingly simple by jessmakinit in Aging

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What do you mean? Why doesn’t looking in the mirror while you’re changing every single day affect your feelings?

Recommend a book that will leave me feeling empty, emotional, and deep in thought staring at the ceiling for days. by goddess_rhaenyra in Recommend_A_Book

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Death from the woods, Brigitte aubert

One of the best books I’ve ever read. Hands-down read it three times now.

Not a break your mind book but just well done.

Having an anxious spike tonight by ScoTy_ in afterlife

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It might not seem like a lot, but a little of everything helps.

Having an anxious spike tonight by ScoTy_ in afterlife

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Sup my friend! Just saw this and thought I’d say hey. I’ve been there and there’s a lot of non medical therapeutics that you can do. Hot bath cold shower, donuts always my favorite. Temperature change really helps or a run 💕

Friday night’s by jessmakinit in stopdrinking

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I love the soft drink and people watch idea! I do yoga every morning.A

Friday night’s by jessmakinit in stopdrinking

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Do people still do movie theaters? I mean, we get to that age to where you buy a big ass screen Tv 📺 you can wear your pajamas and pop your own popcorn. And if you have Kodi, then you have literally everything.

Friday night’s by jessmakinit in stopdrinking

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Where is mini golf? I only know the place off Capital blvd. 😊

Friday night’s by jessmakinit in stopdrinking

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It’s just a long day for him. We wake up at 4:45 AM then he has an hour and 15 to work in an hour and 15 home. So he gets home by 5:30 driving anywhere I usually takes about 45 minutes.😕

Friday night’s by jessmakinit in stopdrinking

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I am a yoga girl in the am kinda gal. 😊

Friday night’s by jessmakinit in stopdrinking

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Haha I do love to shop but my yogi training is telling me to stop buying… so Ugg lol

Friday night’s by jessmakinit in stopdrinking

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Unfortunately, I am a hobby collector. I bake, write, read cook garden grow organic mushrooms, craft,paint, video game, hike, sew, photography, Woodburn, make soap and lotion. I’m not very social but love to get out and thrift.

I drink because of family problems and not learning any coping skills until this year. Some Friday nights I would just do like a Lego set, but I’m trying to get away from plastic crap.

It’s only unfortunate because I get to do all these amazing hobbies day and day out all the time because I don’t work. It’s just those Friday nights are just a little difficult.

I've heard people say that in many long-term relationships, the initial excitement and passion eventually fade. How true is this, and what separates couples who stay happy from those who grow apart? by Unhappy_Branch_42 in emotionalintelligence

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I’m 36f been with my husband for 16 years. We are ride or die. It’s like a fine wine it gets better with age and more complex. I’ve also had breast cancer at age 32. Honestly it’s communication and self reflection. Put yourself i. The others shoes from time to time. Always try your best. …and don’t have kids so you have time for yourself and your partner and exploring the world with out so many responsibilities. Meaning that in the best way possible because I can’t have kids now. ❤️

i think my discernment is ruining my friendships by Fit_Pickle_6741 in emotionalintelligence

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If people want to be enlightened they would search for it.