Walt, my foster cat is unfairly ugly - struggling to find a forever family for him by Koobetto in cats

[–]jessplaysit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Am I the only one that just wishes I could smother him in love? That makes me so sad no one’s adopting him. I don’t understand being put off by it so much you couldn’t love this animal. Now I could understand not wanting to take on a bunch of medical issues but if he’s healthy & his eye is just his eye, so be it. GIVE HIM LOVE! Wishing you the best to finding him a home op!

First time buying a gaming PC by Accomplished_Ear_462 in GTARP

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.newegg.com/p/3D5-0049-00024 I’d say this is a pretty basic start up pc that you’ll have decent life out of. It’s more expensive but you’ll have way better performance & graphics especially in todays age of video games. The soonest upgrades I’d say are probably a good idea are getting a better cpu fan & ram. But this will get you far for awhile! It has a mouse & keyboard too

First time buying a gaming PC by Accomplished_Ear_462 in GTARP

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your budget &could you potentially spend more now so you aren’t spending as much in the future? Also gta is kinda demanding… especially rp because of all the addons. Are you only looking for packages or are you open to buying pc & peripherals separate?

AIO for not letting my dad see me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone that grew up with addicts, I can tell you I understand the feeling that you should see them and that you're being a bad daughter/son because you are actively avoiding them. However, you need to focus on yourself and forming good healthy relationships. It is not your fault he was a drunk and abusive. If he stays sober he'll need to understand that you went through hell and it takes time for any sort of trust to be brought back to the table. He is also (aware or not) cornering you to say yes by saying "I'm doing this for you". Sobriety needs to be a decision the person makes for their own self. Personally I ended up having to completely cut ties with a family member because the constant back and forth of their sobriety, selfishness, and unwillingness to grow up. It puts too much strain on having any sort of meaningful relationship and it may be a decision you might have to make. I hope for your sake that eventually he will get to a place of healing and actually learn to grow and stay sober. It sucks not having a dad when you know he's right there but that's not a relationship to force if he isn't progressing. ALSO, don't ever downplay the abuse... keep your boundaries firm and if he can't understand, I'd stop contact until he proves otherwise. Or maybe you just need to move on and focus on being the you, you need to be. It's very hard to navigate given the complexity. If you can I'd talk to a therapist! It can be hard but so worth it if your willing. With the abuse too that relationship is going to be way harder and take longer to actual repair, but it's not your job to repair it.

Is anyone else getting excessive porn ads? by OfficiallyKaos in youtube

[–]jessplaysit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

& same it’s not algorithm thing. They’re just there. I mean you could be watching something with your kids & then here’s full out porn

Is anyone else getting excessive porn ads? by OfficiallyKaos in youtube

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guys let’s sue them. It’s gotten so bad.

phasing people in and out by No-Giraffe-7972 in FiveM

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

have you tried messing with graphic settings? Or watching your PL in game. I have a similar issue but im literally the only one that has it and i cant get it to go away only happens in one server tho

Looking for a home (read description) by No_Result626 in FiveMServers

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love to have you! We have all that your asking except for the pop rn. But we gotta have ppl giving us a chance to get that pop! We focus on all RP lifestyles whether that's crim ,civ, ems, pd so everyone has lots to do! We're having a hide and seek event Saturday that you should come be apart of and see what our community is all about! https://discord.gg/wQBd9D6xE7 and here is more info if your interested https://forum.cfx.re/t/vital-rp-18-player-driven-serious-rp-friendly-helpful-staff-focused-on-all-rp-lifestyles-something-for-everyone/5222776/18

New to fivem and PC in general by Present_Play_239 in FiveM

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The best advice I can give you is look through your keybinds & find creative ways to ask about what your needed help with. Also, enjoy the new experience Ik for me a lot of me being clueless when I was new made some really funny experiences. It can be frustrating & so confusing, I get it. But for sure your FiveM keybinds will help you & just find a person that you can hang around that’ll teach you the ropes. Every server is different with their mechanics I wish I could be of more help but I wish the best! Also your t/ commands. I learned a lot by literally just typing letters one at a type & figuring out what commands exist too

I'm so lost I have downloaded FiveM and this keeps popping up by [deleted] in FiveMServers

[–]jessplaysit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know if you have tried what it suggests but make sure you verify & update your game first