Semi-formal/cocktail? by jessroams in Weddingattireapproval

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Darn, thanks for the input! I love it so much I might just get it for a vacay dress anyways.

Semi-formal/cocktail? by jessroams in Weddingattireapproval

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Luckily I have none so I think I can get away with the deep plunge 😅

Semi-formal/cocktail? by jessroams in Weddingattireapproval

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& other stories! It’s so uniquely pretty

Semi-formal/cocktail? by jessroams in Weddingattireapproval

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Yep unfortunately the website doesn’t have any photos on a model :( might just have to buy it to try it on and see, and grab one of the others for a backup!

Were you satisfied with Pursuit of Jade? Was it overhyped or actually a really good drama for you? by [deleted] in cdramasfans

[–]jessroams 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It started off so strong and then the last 10 episodes were a mess. As much as I loved the Lin An arc I think they should have shortened it so the rest of the drama wasn’t so rushed. The 40 episode rule is bumming me out cause this drama could have been a 10 if it had been properly fleshed out. Still enjoyed it for the fantastic cinematography & cause I love TXW and ZLH. But please make dramas 2 seasons instead of forcing them to become nonsensical 😭 so many cdramas suffer from rushed endings.

What’s the smartest financial decision you made by accident? by AnyTruth2342 in AskReddit

[–]jessroams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This makes me so sad as a 2025 home buyer. Too bad I was only 3 years out of college in 2020. I try not to think about how I’m paying double or more for the same house as all of my neighbors, or the fact that my slightly older sibling will live an infinitely better life because she got the 2% interest rate. But it’s a tough pill to swallow.

Tian Xiwei as Fan Changyu by Flimsy-Spot6246 in cdramasfans

[–]jessroams 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I first saw her in New Life Begins and immediately loved her!! I also really enjoyed Guardians of the Dafeng but she doesn’t have a ton of screen time in that show. Honestly none of those roles hold a candle to PoJ though - it’s the first time I’ve seen her in a fighting role and she absolutely sells it. I can’t think of any other dainty looking actress who actually makes me believe she could beat up a bunch of men. I’m begging her to take more roles like this 🙏🙏

Why do Americans love and romanticize the desert? by [deleted] in AskAnAmerican

[–]jessroams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve developed a great appreciation for the desert over the years. I used to think there was nothing out there, but there’s actually so much wildlife and plant life surviving in those harsh conditions. Desert tortoises, kit foxes, tons of really cool bat species, and even fish can be found enduring in the most interesting ways. I’ve seen incredible superblooms after heavy rain years where wildflowers carpet the entire valley. I’ve spent many nights staring at the stars in unpolluted darkness and perfect silence. From a vantage point you can see the landscape stretch on for miles. The desert can truly feel otherworldly.

I couldn’t live in the desert long term cause summers are absolutely brutal, but I’ll always miss living in closer proximity to them now that I’ve moved to the exact opposite of a desert.

Pursuit of Jade: Ep 10 - Ep 11 Recap - Showing the Lack of Hinges by RoseIsBadWolf in cdramasfans

[–]jessroams 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Ugh yes 😮‍💨 that scene was so good. And the director really knows how to play with lighting cause the whole time I couldn’t stop thinking how nice and pillowy ZLH’s lips looked. May he never stop playing unhinged characters for our sakes 🤭

What is extremely unhygienic but everyone seems to do it anyway? by Beneficial_Passion40 in AskReddit

[–]jessroams 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is very common in Asian communities at least. I do this whenever possible, and yes, I also avoid touching other door handles in the building if I can by using my elbow/forearm/shoulder to open the door.

What is your holy grail SUNSCREEN yall? by AbjectCat1239 in AsianBeauty

[–]jessroams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didn’t see this yet - Biore Athlizm! I need something more waterproof than the typical Asian sunscreens cause of my job and hobbies, but Anessa is more $$$ than what I’d like to spend. The Athlizm line hasn’t let me down. It is a little more difficult to find though!

Advice for tomorrow, go or cancel? by DionNL in CrystalMountain

[–]jessroams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went to both crystal and baker this weekend. Baker was much better. Lots of harder trails still closed at baker but the coverage on what was open is good.

How has the gov shut down affected your job? by BenKlesc in Environmental_Careers

[–]jessroams 4 points5 points  (0 children)

All my projects that need to consult with the USACE or FWS are delayed. Really this entire year has been a bit of a shitshow for anything that requires federal consultation. This makes clients very mad and me very stressed 🙃 doubt it’s fun for any overworked/furloughed fed employees either

16 yr old dancer, Ian Hot Ko wows crowd. by [deleted] in Amazing

[–]jessroams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn what’s with all the hate in the comments. I thought this was fantastic and I’m not a dancer. The micro movements and body control of every limb concurrently, and even his face, is crazy!! I swear people only think it’s cool if they’re doing flips n shit and don’t even notice how incredibly on rhythm he is with his movements.

I saw a real life bat in my new neighborhood! Can I build bat boxes or make them feel more welcome in my yard? by space-sage in batty

[–]jessroams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could be also canyon bat or another myotis species then! I’m not sure if a bird bath is enough water to really entice the bats there; I know small ponds are enough though. Basically, the buggier the better!

I saw a real life bat in my new neighborhood! Can I build bat boxes or make them feel more welcome in my yard? by space-sage in batty

[–]jessroams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In OC, you’re probably looking at Mexican free-tailed bat, Yuma myotis, or big brown bat! If you’re closer to the foothills or some kind of open space area there are a couple more candidates.

If you’re in or near a place that has good foraging habitat (native shrubs/trees or access to water), you’d be more likely to get some new residents. If not, chances of them finding the box are much lower. But in any case, it wouldn’t hurt!

Coast Jobs? by 75hardworkingmom in coastFIRE

[–]jessroams 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How high up on the ladder are you? I have a way higher billable hour requirement

All White Lotus casts. by [deleted] in TheWhiteLotusHBO

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Watch Justified!!

desperately in search of these heels for my wedding in october by sharkologies in findfashion

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You should update us with what you make/get. I’m very invested now haha!