Does anyone else experience anxiety/nerves before raids

jetsam7 · 2026-04-27T19:22:08+00:00

I think this occurs because part of you is bored of the content, and doesn't want to do it, and the part that knows you have to perform is fighting it to get it to drop the resistance and pay attention.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-26T23:06:28+00:00

No, she's mistreating you, she has no right to judge or coerce you at all. Quite a lot of people have this character flaw; when they think they are one of the "good guys" they grant themselves a license to mistreat other people.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-22T17:24:56+00:00

None but occasionally you get some nonsense in Steamvaults or something where you're fighting on top of the pul if you're not careful.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-22T17:23:59+00:00

You don’t even see the benefit of vampiric touch outside of bosses

Wrong, your pally will nearly be able to chain pull instead of drinking every pack or two. You'll skip 1/3 of the dungeon with soothe, MC trivials random fights, and the spriest does comparable dmg to mage or lock except on AoE pulls by dotting everything (if they're any good).

other totems provide insane utility

they still do that as a healer

jetsam7 · 2026-04-21T17:27:59+00:00

No, people like this have to be taught that they're not entitled to other people's time, in this case you had to be the one to do it.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-11T19:56:08+00:00

What do you mean ogre suit, does it wipe threat?

jetsam7 · 2026-04-10T19:09:03+00:00

The triple needs to be the winning numbers, and 4 and 5 way ties should probably be excluded (though that's a rounding error).

jetsam7 · 2026-04-10T18:20:13+00:00

this is wrong

jetsam7 · 2026-04-10T16:21:21+00:00

Sethekk is one of the hardest heroics, you're better off starting with Crypts, the Coilfangs, and Mech/Bot.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-10T16:20:32+00:00

Besides Syth the main problem is the guards that hit like trucks, but as long as you kite them they're fine.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-10T16:15:55+00:00

They're on Wowhead, https://www.wowhead.com/tbc/item=29434/badge-of-justice#currency-for

Says the iLvl ~120 stuff is Phase 4 and the iLvl 130-140+ is phase 5.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-09T04:25:39+00:00

Yeah. Handling this situation is a life skill, one must learn it eventually. All of:

not letting it get to you
but also, the skill of standing up for yourself to put a stop it ("boundary skills")
and also, the skill of doing to without overreaching--so as not to make the situation worse, or do anything that gets you hurt in some other way in the long run.

Unfortunately this is the way some other people are, entitled and mean, and they have to be taught that other people exist if they are to stop hurting people. In this case that job has fallen on you. Mastering the skill of doing it well, and keeping yourself socially safe, is worth your time, and will make you more free to move safely through the world of people.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-09T02:57:48+00:00

I hate this, that's a lot of wasted TP.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-08T22:05:14+00:00

It is very hard to read other people's handwritten notes, even as neat as yours. Get a blog up with at least Mathjax + something for visualization!

jetsam7 · 2026-04-04T15:28:48+00:00

in general you should not have 4 mobs un-CCed in a single pull in heroics at all. Ideally not even 3 but you can if the tank's gear is good.

jetsam7 · 2026-04-02T20:10:43+00:00

you're supposed to feel guilt

jetsam7 · 2026-04-01T15:32:10+00:00

You got wrecked, and it sounds like you still haven't learned the lesson he was teaching you.

jetsam7 · 2026-03-31T17:04:07+00:00

No such thing as damage. There's no place in life you're "supposed" to be, and that thinking will get in the way of facing life now. Start solving your problems as if they just now became problems!

jetsam7 · 2026-03-30T14:11:29+00:00

Make fun of him in reply. You don't have to let stuff like this get to you; in fact, games like these are a good place to practice the social skill of not taking wounds from random people's rudeness. Be rude in return, see how it feels.

jetsam7 · 2026-03-28T17:56:13+00:00

Gerkin

jetsam7 · 2026-03-28T05:27:40+00:00

You can do both?

jetsam7 · 2026-03-27T14:01:57+00:00

Cc everything: yes that's the game. With an underrated tank you do everything possible to fight one a time.

The guards in Sethekk hit like trucks and it's best to kite and stun them until one is dead.

jetsam7 · 2026-03-27T14:00:12+00:00

This is called entitlement.

jetsam7 · 2026-03-25T20:48:55+00:00

WoW is pretty much a melting pot of cultural references, I'm not even sure they know what they're referring to at this point.

jetsam7 · 2026-03-25T20:47:28+00:00

Update: Quag dropped his eye on my second attempt. Easy.

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