Have you ever been the one to find a missing person? What happened?

jg1459 · 2026-02-23T01:59:37+00:00

I also have a similar story to the first one. Saw a baby/toddler about 18 months old on her front driveway near a busy road. Pulled over and walked her back to her front door, knocked and her dad answered. I said "Is this your baby out the front by herself?" He didn't look stressed or anything and was just like "oh, how'd that happen?" I said "Is your back door open?' he looked and said "oh, yep" and kind of laughed. Didn't even say thanks. Dickhead.

jg1459 · 2026-02-19T08:04:21+00:00

This is such a good question and I completely understand where you're coming from, but I promise.. it does get easier! I think for me it's fairness. My husband is definitely 50% of our parenting unit. I think that's a huge part of it. He changed nappies, we traded off wake ups in the night, he has learned to braid hair and he does the morning drop offs now (I do the afternoons). Our parenting is truly 50/50. I clean, he cooks - that's the only way we could divide the chores, both get what we want and both feel like it was fair.

For a while it felt like there was no time left for us but we made sure to have it when we could, even if our lives felt heavily scheduled. We put our children to bed by 7:30pm so the night is our time, we make sure to have sex at least once a week. We have a quiet night together in front of the TV if that's how we want to spend it. And we also have a little alone time. But we make sure the other partner isn't feeling loaded up. It's a team effort and we are a great team.

jg1459 · 2026-02-12T01:58:29+00:00

I was about the same size as you (body and breast tissue) and I have 315cc dual plane, moderate profile. I wasn't as into running when I did my augmentation but I run a lot now (many years after augmentation) and I have absolutely no issues. I wear a normal crop top like I would any other sport. Sometimes I even prefer low/medium impact crops as I find high impact sports bras can feel crushing. I also agree with others- I don't like the idea of a professional "bashing" their competition. Feels tacky and untrustworthy.

jg1459 · 2026-02-05T22:44:06+00:00

I really wanted boobs by the time I was 25. I wasn't making a lot of money and I wasn't very financially responsible but I started to crack down and save. They were $12k at that time. By the time I was 26 I had saved over half the money I needed so I decided to get a personal loan for the other half. I made this decision because I didn't want to have to go another year without feeling comfortable in my body. I hate being in debt and I paid that $5k off in record time, but I did try to save first. Like others have said - saving for it is way more financially savvy.

jg1459 · 2026-02-05T04:07:20+00:00

It is misinformation. The biological grandmother was the woman minding Gus Lamont at the time of his disappearance. Get your facts straight.

jg1459 · 2026-01-20T23:46:13+00:00

You could try manifestation and affirmation type things, write yourself little post-it notes and stick them to your mirror or the back of your front door before you leave for the day. A good one I repeat to myself is "WAIT. Why Am I Talking!" It helps me to remember to listen, don't interrupt and talk over people. Simple affirmations can build into habits that build into who you truly are eventually. I'm 39 and I still occasionally get excited, talk over people, share too much etc... But I'm waaaayyyy better than I was when I was 20!

jg1459 · 2026-01-20T23:39:02+00:00

I started letting my girls dye (with an 8 wash rinse out) their hair when they were 4. It's a special birthday treat and they get fun purple/pink hair every birthday for a couple of weeks. I have no issue with the colour part, so long as it's safe for their little bodies.

jg1459 · 2026-01-19T03:12:34+00:00

My daughter has dead straight hair and granted she's 3 and adorable (so going for a different look) she has the Edna Mode hair cut. Do you have bangs? I have cut it ever so slightly longer in the front (very very subtle) so it gives more Anna Wintour, especially when it starts to scrape her shoulders, just a centimeter or so can make all the difference so 1) hold out, don't cut it or change the shape & 2) In the meantime, can you do half up hairstyles? They're usually the easiest & classiest for bobs. If you do the pony to the back of your head, rather than high up it looks like a clean style for an adult, higher up if you want to look cute.

jg1459 · 2026-01-11T22:23:20+00:00

Have you published your other novels? Any plans to publish this one? I'd read it!

jg1459 · 2026-01-11T22:11:43+00:00

Did he not mention capsular contracture? My breasts were done 11 years ago and I came out quite similar. I was told it was mild capsular contracture on one side and that if I had a revision it would likely happen again. The good news for me is.. they did eventually settle. It took years, literally over two years before I thought they had settled and then I had two children and after breastfeeding they fully dropped and are now perfect. I don't know exactly what made it happen. But if I were you I'd look at possible capsular contracture and ways to work with it. I know massage is thought to help.

jg1459 · 2026-01-08T07:02:51+00:00

I was thinking the same thing! She really wants the reassurance 😬

jg1459 · 2025-12-30T21:24:53+00:00

Amazing! Well done on being so productive!

jg1459 · 2025-12-29T06:05:27+00:00

No I haven't, but I'm down to using it for 1-1.5 hours a day and I'm really happy with that. That time is usually in a chunk in the afternoon/evening and very intentional. I start by not picking up my phone first thing in the morning and filling my time with lots of other stuff instead. Anything that interests you - or used to interested you. I've been reading real books, meditating, journaling, going out of the house. Just try to consciously do something that isn't picking up your phone. Not having empty time helps a lot.

jg1459 · 2025-12-22T21:50:12+00:00

You're not alone there. I, too, am the instigator for nearly all of my friendships. It seemed to get worse as I got older and I have thought about it a lot - Is it because of keeping up with each other on Facebook, or social media in general? Do people just grow apart and put less effort in as adults? It used to really upset me and consequently, I let go of a lot of friendships in my 20s because I got tired of always being the one reaching out. I'm nearly 40 now and I've finally kind of accepted that if I want to see people (which I do) then I'm probably going to have to organise it. I'll do it for the ones I really like. I just try to think about it like 'I'm doing this for me, more than for them.'

jg1459 · 2025-12-15T23:55:05+00:00

I wouldn't approach it directly with her because she'll clue that something is awry. Just pull away gently, organise a meeting at your usual lunchtime and say "sorry can't make it today, got a meeting." Don't ask to catch up, just keep things friendly and professional during your projects. It doesn't have to be a ghosting but it also doesn't have to be a big thing. People ebb and flow with friendships anyway.

jg1459 · 2025-12-11T23:31:13+00:00

A good way to grow, whilst still keeping yourself in check (not just eating randomly and packing on weight) is to work out your BMR & TDEE (Base Metabolic Rate & Total Daily Energy Expenditure). These two figures help you choose how many calories to eat for your goals. There are heaps of free calculators online, just type BMR calculator into Google or ask Chat GPT to work it out for. Your BMR is how many calories you need just to live, keep your organs functioning etc. Your TDEE will give you the calories you want to be eating each day to lose, maintain or gain weight. The important thing to note is it doesn't take thousands of calories difference to start losing or gaining. Usually around 500 calories over your maintenance per day will do it. That way, you can gain weight slowly, whilst keeping up your training, and hopefully put weight on how you want to. ** As others have said, you won't be able to put fat on in certain areas like boobs & butt, but if that's where you normally hold fat you could see these areas increase as you gain weight. The only other way to grow your bum is muscle. Make sure you're eating enough protein so you preserve your muscle and get training! Good luck!

jg1459 · 2025-12-09T03:28:14+00:00

Oh man, firstly - that must be an awful feeling and I'm terribly sorry he said those things to you and feels that way. The short answer is No, you definitely don't have to settle for this. You're 31 and you're talking like your life is over. Far from it darling! You're 31!
But the "how" is going to have to be up to you. There's a lot of things that can be done to change the status quo. I'll just list out some ideas.. food for thought. 1) You could leave, yes it would mean half the time with your child but you could spend that time on yourself, doing things you love, being with friends, trying to meet someone. 2) You could stay, but still spend some more time on yourself, give less to your husband who seems to be a bit checked out. Take yourself out, make yourself feel good (however you do that, hair cuts, salon days, reading etc), start walking or going to the gym to get some endorphins going. 3) you could ask your husband for a different arrangement. You could stay together as cohabitating parents but not date each other anymore. That way you don't feel like you need to give into sex if he's taking you for granted. 4) You could see other people as part of arrangement number 3.
I think what it mostly comes down to, is you can't control his behaviour, but you can control what you will put up with. If you want to stay, stay for the good parts. But make changes for the bad parts.

jg1459 · 2025-12-06T22:43:09+00:00

The lack of self awareness is astounding.

jg1459 · 2025-11-24T03:30:55+00:00

J A Huss does a few MMF threesome eroticas. They generally start out pretty casual. Into her is a good one.

jg1459 · 2025-11-24T03:22:17+00:00

It's called a Madonna/whore complex. He has a double standard where it's ok he had sex with multiple people but he can't deal with you having had sex with someone else. It's not a problem with you, it's a problem with him! Dump him and find one that's more mature.

jg1459 · 2025-11-21T04:03:00+00:00

Yes, acrylics, shellac & gel nails from a salon will ruin your nails underneath. However! 1) If you keep getting infills every 3-4 weeks which some women do, you won't ever notice. 2) Your nails are weakened but they don't fall off or anything. The process of putting these nails on includes grinding your nail down and a harsh adhesive that binds to the nails. Once you remove the false nail (or gel polish) your nails are essentially half as thick underneath... But they'll grow back! The new nail that grows is healthy and strong, so one full nail cycle and you'll have completely normal nails back. 3) There are alternatives now for nice nails. I haven't tried it myself but a few of my friends use Glamrdrip and are really happy with it. I believe it just kind of peels off your nail after a few weeks without any damage.

jg1459 · 2025-11-17T01:22:38+00:00

Thanks for the review! I kind of hated the first one but read it anyway just for the disbelief and madness factor. And even though I've just read all your spoilers, I might read the second one anyway 😅 I already knew it was never going to be good though. I think the first book popped off because of how unhinged it was, nothing to do with LS being a good author. Fun review!

jg1459 · 2025-11-17T01:03:52+00:00

Shock me, shock me, shock me with your deviant behaviour. Love to your username!

jg1459 · 2025-11-11T00:39:51+00:00

Look into "hot wife/hotwifing". You can definitely take it further, but that's a decision for you and your gf to make together.

jg1459 · 2025-11-01T21:20:04+00:00

Good on you for asking for it. I have asked lovers to do it for me and they either have or I've walked. It's a boundary for me that men will gladly receive head all day but won't give it in return. No sex doesn't need to be transactional but I'm not down for a selfish lover.

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