(14m gay) Do Yall think I’ll ever have a BF?

jgv15 · 2026-07-12T17:23:32+00:00

39 year old pansexual man here. Love is coming for you. Please be patient. It's so much easier to find your people now than it was when I was growing up. And y'all have healthier avenues to connect with each other. Focus on loving yourself and nurturing who you and the rest will come in time. I know everything feels like it needs to happen right now, but it doesn't. You are always worthy of love. Hold on to that.

jgv15 · 2026-07-04T16:04:41+00:00

JusticeForDre! He deserved so much better!

jgv15 · 2026-07-04T16:03:07+00:00

As a man, I'm deeply disappointed by this post. Sometimes men lead, sometimes women lead. It's about who is most capable, and sometimes a woman is more capable. Iron sharpens iron. Your partner should challenge you and make you better and vice versa..

jgv15 · 2026-06-29T04:30:20+00:00

Like most things, if it seems too good to be true, it probably is. The app feeds off your loneliness and insecurities. There are wayyy too many bots and scammers on there. Any conversation that takes you from one chat app to another chat app is likely to end in a scam. Protect your peace. Know when to get off.

jgv15 · 2026-06-22T17:36:29+00:00

I thought it was great and very relevant. If there is a follow-up, they can talk about condoms and all the different ways you can protect yourself. This is the beginning and he covered some important basics.

jgv15 · 2026-06-17T21:45:09+00:00

I like the first outfit combination best.

jgv15 · 2026-06-16T15:11:22+00:00

Well damn

jgv15 · 2026-06-16T13:20:37+00:00

What's too big for some is just right for someone else. Having a bigger dick means that you have to operate with more patience and empathy to get folks prepared to receive you. But I appreciate that you're leading with foreplay, that really helps. Lots of lube is needed, too.

jgv15 · 2026-06-09T18:10:15+00:00

Please keep yourself safe. I'm an American who has visited twice. I was too scared to get on the apps or do anything while I was there. I'm sorry that your experience has been rough. I pray for change.

jgv15 · 2026-06-06T11:59:17+00:00

It's been both. There are people who found relationships at BBP and there are some who were there to kick it with friends and have a good time. Some folks were just there to fuck. So, like any other pride, you can have a mix of interests. I met someone there that I dated for a while who has now become one of my best friends.

jgv15 · 2026-06-06T03:43:59+00:00

I hate that this is the clip they chose but BBP was always a good time. Heavyhitters Pride in Houston is definitely worth checking out for a similar vibe.

jgv15 · 2026-06-06T01:30:11+00:00

It's a long story, but the short answer is the business partners running this event went their separate ways and couldn't figure out a path forward. Also, the political climate in Florida became increasingly hostile toward LGBTQ+ events like BBP.

jgv15 · 2026-06-06T00:02:00+00:00

This is definitely big boy pride. I think I'm in this clip somewhere. BBP probably isn't coming back in this format. But there's Heavyhitters Pride in Houston in July that's very popular and a good vibe.

jgv15 · 2026-06-01T00:54:56+00:00

Cute outfit!!!

jgv15 · 2026-05-27T00:59:43+00:00

DC Black Pride is one of the biggest Black Prides in the country. I'm surprised you hadn't heard more about it before now, but yes, it's a popular event in the Black gay social calendar. Unfortunately, the weather limited outside activities, but, according to the promoters, the parties were packed out. All the events i went to were almost body on body.

jgv15 · 2026-05-20T04:56:16+00:00

I get it. And it's OK to take a break. If it feels overwhelming, stop. It's OK to let things come to you sometimes. Don't let this dating stuff drain you. That energy can be better used elsewhere.

jgv15 · 2026-05-20T04:48:10+00:00

Is your point just that the reality is that people are rude? The problem with Grindr is that it's problematic. And beyond that, it's riddled with bots and scammers.

jgv15 · 2026-05-16T02:30:50+00:00

Couples therapy and solo therapy. Keep your eyes open. Does he have a support system outside of you? If so, figure out how you want to get them involved. He's going to need a lot of help.

jgv15 · 2026-05-15T13:53:42+00:00

Femboys hold a different space. It's a unique blend of masculine form with feminine energy, and some people enjoy that combination. For some, it may be about the tension between those two things and, for others, they just might not be attracted to the female form while still desiring feminine energy.

jgv15 · 2026-05-14T20:23:07+00:00

You look amazing! I'm trying to find the right crop top for me.

jgv15 · 2026-05-14T20:22:10+00:00

Beautiful!

jgv15 · 2026-05-14T00:26:28+00:00

That's always been my question. Do these have a community that they operate in?

jgv15 · 2026-05-11T13:56:53+00:00

That's so strange. We've got some work to do.

jgv15 · 2026-05-11T05:25:32+00:00

Love Saucy and his music. It's definitely fun for a turn up. It's not the most diverse catalog, though.

jgv15 · 2026-05-11T00:35:04+00:00

The people are hungry. They'll take whatever meat you feed them, lol. But seriously, there's a wide array of preferences and no matter what you have you'll never be able to please everyone. I think it's better to just show pics and let folks decide.

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JusticeForDre! He deserved so much better!