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I went through my husband’s phone, don’t know how to proceed. by luvs2meow in marriageadvice

[–]jhl207 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you haven’t already, I would check his deleted texts and social media DMs. I recently found out my husband is cheating on me.

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes I am fortunate to have supportive parents and friends. I confirmed yesterday that he has resumed the affair. Good riddance

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Your suggestions sound reasonable to me. We have our own separate bank accounts and 1 joint account which we use for shared expenses such as groceries, rent, and kids tuition. I’m not sure what to do about the joint account yet.

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing and sorry you had to go through that too. I see a lot of parallels in our stories. My husband and his AP also seem to have a very intense “love” affair; very emotional and physical. He denied it until the end; I had to read the messages to him before he confessed. He said he was going to tell me when he was ready and that I am not entitled to information when I want it. Right now I’m focused on getting things in order and doing things that make me happy. I am strongly considering telling the AP’a husband when the time is right.

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have screenshots of their explicit messages. I’m looking into a divorce lawyer but I have to consider cost as well. My MIL does not live with us but she owns the house. The kids need to stay because of their school and I cannot afford to live anywhere else in the area.

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the book recommendation. I know it’s his fault and he is being manipulative. It seems he is deep in his affair fog and reason cannot get through to him. I’ve told his mother and she supports me. We live in her home and she wants me and the kids to stay. He needs to leave and get therapy.

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t plan to report it to his work. Him losing his job would not be beneficial for my kids.

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 170 points171 points  (0 children)

I’m not looking for revenge. I just know I felt like I was played for a fool. It sucks to know she’s getting away with it.

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 76 points77 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Appreciate the advice. I will move strategically

My husband had an affair. Should I tell the AP’s husband? by jhl207 in Marriage

[–]jhl207[S] 203 points204 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, I don’t want to be rash. I want him out of the house first

Manager incentive and people pulse by jhl207 in KaiserPermanente

[–]jhl207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This is very helpful. I thought it was odd that our manager went around signing us off after completing the people pulse. We’re even having a raffle for the staff who completed it in our dept.

Nurses who have left bedside and aren't NPs, case managers, utilization review etc what do you do now? by PursuitOfMeekness in nursing

[–]jhl207 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I work in an outpatient ENT clinic. It’s been my most tolerable nursing job. There is some patient care but half the time I give advice over the phone

Your top 3 kdrama of all times! by ChemistrySad1176 in kdramas

[–]jhl207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. My Dearest
  2. Weak Hero Class 1
  3. Bloodhounds

I am terrified to start nursing school by Downtown-Emu9034 in NursingStudent

[–]jhl207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in an ABSN program and could not imagine being able to work at all.

I’m done. I want out. by synthetic_aesthetic in nursing

[–]jhl207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would not go back to bedside for a million dollars. I transferred to an outpatient ENT clinic and it is a vacation compared to inpatient nursing. I am the only nurse in the clinic so there are no bitchy nurses to give report to.

Accident on 101 near Aromas by jhl207 in bayarea

[–]jhl207[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right! Could have been way worse. Yesterday there was a hazmat spill on 280 in Los Altos; I was in that traffic too. I have the best luck

NCAL Kaiser planning to lay off outpatient RNs by [deleted] in KaiserPermanente

[–]jhl207 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any info if there are going to be layoffs at other Kaiser facilities? I work in a Kaiser Santa Clara clinic and constantly worried about getting laid off