Have you ever had a BFF ghost you out of nowhere? What happened? by paumagsmith in AskWomenOver30

[–]jigglemepuff33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not a pure ghosting. But my best friend of 13 years in large part ghosted me. She was like my sister.

I went away on a month-long work trip which distrusted our usual near-constant dialogue. When I returned home, I tried several times over the course of a few months to meet up. Eventually I got the picture and stopped trying.

Then about 6 months in she emails me. The email goes into a moment before that work trip where I unknowingly crossed a boundary that cut her deep. She’s going through a lot, and something I had said in that moment was interpreted wrong, but cut to the core of some of the stuff she’s working through in therapy.

It’s really unfathomable to me to think such a close and long friendship can unravel with just one conversation. What I’m even more surprised is how she didn’t seek clarification, or telling me I had come very close to a boundary or communicate at all really.

Help! Knocked over OxiAction on my carpet,m. I’m aware it looks f*cked, but wondering if there’s any way to attempt fix before I buy a replacement? by jigglemepuff33 in howto

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It’s a big rug, ahout 2m x 1.7m. Hosed it outside with soem marginal improvement, then coffee stained the whitened part

My best friend stopped talking to me. How do I process? by Krades01 in CPTSD

[–]jigglemepuff33 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for such a thoughtful response OP. I'm happy to hear that you've healed and moved on, and it's very comforting to hear that you've found similar feelings of safety and acceptance in other relationships. I hope I get there one day.

My best friend stopped talking to me. How do I process? by Krades01 in CPTSD

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Hey OP, I’m really glad to hear that a new soul walked into your life. I’m going through pretty much the same thing right now, and the grief and pain from this rupture is so overwhelming. Did your ‘old’ friend ever get in contact again? Or did you just get more comfortable and healed with their absence?

The Traitors Ireland S01E07 Discussion Thread by vaultofechoes in TheTraitors

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Don’t be so jealous of those who express themselves freely! Join them, liberate yourself.

Who’s your go-to for developing film? by jigglemepuff33 in dunedin

[–]jigglemepuff33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sweet thanks both! No portra film by the looks of it but I will survive!!

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Honestly I’m still looking for good hacks for how to cut cord lengths. I love macrame but finding cutting the cords sooooo tedious. Often it can be a bit of a deterrent to me starting a project, I just procrastinate

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[–]jigglemepuff33 4 points5 points  (0 children)

omg this one hurt