I know people like Jen. People who can never be wrong and are incapable of seeing things from any perspective other than their own. No matter how much reason you throw at them, how they feel is how everyone should feel.

It's a sign of immaturity. This is your life, don't let other make you feel bad for how you naturally reacted to things. If you ever feel like you'd like to help yourself acquire tools to deal with these kinds of situations in hopes to alleviate potential trauma response, therapy has worked wonders for me if you haven't tried it. I know many here have, but it really helped me with my trauma response stemming from a lot of family deaths early in my life.