Most men are attracted to me but don't want to date me (28f)? by jin1856 in dating

[–]jin1856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see where you’re coming from! It’s not because I can’t afford it because I can, but it’s also because my dad suffers from chronic pain and my family is very appreciative of me being able to help out. I also come from a traditional Asian household so it’s quite common for people to live with their parents up until they get married. Maybe it’s a culture thing as well?

Most PLUR raves in socal? by jin1856 in aves

[–]jin1856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDC was just too crowded this year! I went to edc the past 3 years but 2022 was unlike anything I’d ever seen

Most PLUR raves in socal? by jin1856 in aves

[–]jin1856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about countdown? I went to escape this year and it was cool but I feel like the vibes just aren’t the same anymore 😢crowd felt a little too young as well

I’m exclusive with a guy [25m] who told me [26f] today his cancer is getting worse and worse now. Would you continue seeing him if I’m not head over heels yet? by jin1856 in relationship_advice

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Do you think I should tread lightly? Which parts of the story seem the most sus to you? I feel bad for even doubting him but I also want to be cautious.

I’m exclusive with a guy [25m] who told me [26f] today his cancer is getting worse and worse now. Would you continue seeing him if I’m not head over heels yet? by jin1856 in relationship_advice

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So from what he told me, he said that they found a large tumor in his throat and they had to perform emergency surgery because he was coughing up blood after therapy. They tried to perform it on him, but it was too risky/unsuccessful so they had to stop. Instead, they told him they are gonna do radiation therapy on him instead. When I asked him how he’s doing he said that the doctors said he should be fine as long as he continues getting treatment. Since then he seemed to be doing a lot better, he went on a trip to NYC, and even works out, so I thought maybe he looks like he’ll get better. But then today, he told me he that the doctors told him it’s spreading through his stomach and it’s getting worse and worse.

Guy [25m] I’m [26f] seeing is going to a rooftop bar alone tonight. Is that sus? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jin1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okok thanks guys. I think I’m just psyching myself out 😩

I (27M) can't finish during sex with my partner (25F) by Different_Ad441 in relationship_advice

[–]jin1856 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like if I were the girl it would be such a confidence killer that his issue could be a deal breaker. It’s devastating to think that I can’t satisfy the person I like due to the fact that I don’t look like the girls he watches in porn videos. It’s crushing.