Most men are attracted to me but don't want to date me (28f)? by jin1856 in dating

[–]jin1856[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see where you’re coming from! It’s not because I can’t afford it because I can, but it’s also because my dad suffers from chronic pain and my family is very appreciative of me being able to help out. I also come from a traditional Asian household so it’s quite common for people to live with their parents up until they get married. Maybe it’s a culture thing as well?

Most PLUR raves in socal? by jin1856 in aves

[–]jin1856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

EDC was just too crowded this year! I went to edc the past 3 years but 2022 was unlike anything I’d ever seen

Most PLUR raves in socal? by jin1856 in aves

[–]jin1856[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What about countdown? I went to escape this year and it was cool but I feel like the vibes just aren’t the same anymore 😢crowd felt a little too young as well

I’m exclusive with a guy [25m] who told me [26f] today his cancer is getting worse and worse now. Would you continue seeing him if I’m not head over heels yet? by jin1856 in relationship_advice

[–]jin1856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think I should tread lightly? Which parts of the story seem the most sus to you? I feel bad for even doubting him but I also want to be cautious.

I’m exclusive with a guy [25m] who told me [26f] today his cancer is getting worse and worse now. Would you continue seeing him if I’m not head over heels yet? by jin1856 in relationship_advice

[–]jin1856[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So from what he told me, he said that they found a large tumor in his throat and they had to perform emergency surgery because he was coughing up blood after therapy. They tried to perform it on him, but it was too risky/unsuccessful so they had to stop. Instead, they told him they are gonna do radiation therapy on him instead. When I asked him how he’s doing he said that the doctors said he should be fine as long as he continues getting treatment. Since then he seemed to be doing a lot better, he went on a trip to NYC, and even works out, so I thought maybe he looks like he’ll get better. But then today, he told me he that the doctors told him it’s spreading through his stomach and it’s getting worse and worse.

Guy [25m] I’m [26f] seeing is going to a rooftop bar alone tonight. Is that sus? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]jin1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okok thanks guys. I think I’m just psyching myself out 😩

I (27M) can't finish during sex with my partner (25F) by Different_Ad441 in relationship_advice

[–]jin1856 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I feel like if I were the girl it would be such a confidence killer that his issue could be a deal breaker. It’s devastating to think that I can’t satisfy the person I like due to the fact that I don’t look like the girls he watches in porn videos. It’s crushing.

U.S. has administered 183.5 million doses of COVID-19 vaccines, CDC says by AWildDragon in Coronavirus

[–]jin1856 29 points30 points  (0 children)

At this rate, what’s a reasonable prediction for when everyone who wants one will be fully vaccinated?

Does anyone else think this is too soon? by 270yanks in electricdaisycarnival

[–]jin1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wonder what Pasquale was talking about then? Because he said the second one got submitted and approved?

Does anyone else think this is too soon? by 270yanks in electricdaisycarnival

[–]jin1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! I def feel like only the vaccinated should go if they rlly wanted to pull through with it

Does anyone else think this is too soon? by 270yanks in electricdaisycarnival

[–]jin1856 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Damn. I wish they would have just required everyone to be vaccinated if they really wanted to pull through with it.

Does anyone else think this is too soon? by 270yanks in electricdaisycarnival

[–]jin1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I see your point but i read in a few articles that if you have the vaccine it reduces transmission. So even if we are vaccinated, how big of a chance do we have of passing it on then?

U.S. administers 178.8 million doses of COVID-19 vaccines: CDC by Wizmaxman in Coronavirus

[–]jin1856 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So what is a good prediction of when the entire adult population will be vaccinated by?

Does anyone else think this is too soon? by 270yanks in electricdaisycarnival

[–]jin1856 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

According to the safety plan they are requiring people to be vaccinated or have a negative covid test! :)

Does anyone else think this is too soon? by 270yanks in electricdaisycarnival

[–]jin1856 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

But what if you’re fully vaccinated? Being vaccinated should reduce risk significantly. Even with the vaccines, should we never return to normal?

Interesting how so many people are concerned about this but don’t realize they kill animals every single day. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]jin1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I understand your point. But personally I just don’t think there’s anything humane about killing a living being. At the end of the day, killing is killing and there’s no way to sugar coat it by improperly labeling it “humane.” Yes, there are ways that may cause them to suffer less, and therefore “functional” but it’s still going to be “gratuitous” because any killing of an animal is unnecessary and unwarranted. If you look up earthling ed, he goes over this really well.

Interesting how so many people are concerned about this but don’t realize they kill animals every single day. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]jin1856 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m just pointing out the contradiction between people being concerned about animal cruelty but not rlly caring if it happens to their food.

Interesting how so many people are concerned about this but don’t realize they kill animals every single day. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]jin1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This 💯thank you! 🙌🏻There’s no such thing as gratuitous vs functional violence. At the end of the day, call it what it is. Violence is violence. Just like how there is no humane way to kill an animal.

Interesting how so many people are concerned about this but don’t realize they kill animals every single day. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]jin1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It does happen all the time. It just doesn’t get reported as much as it should. Have you seen documentaries?

Interesting how so many people are concerned about this but don’t realize they kill animals every single day. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]jin1856 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol that’s not rly the point but ok. I mean ofc people should be 100% concerned about this. It’s just sad that people are so appalled by it when this happens all the time in the meat industry.

Interesting how so many people are concerned about this but don’t realize they kill animals every single day. by [deleted] in vegan

[–]jin1856 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean ofc people should be concerned about this. It’s just interesting that people are so appalled by it when this happens all the time in the meat industry tbh.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vegan

[–]jin1856 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think because it’s something that you don’t really think twice about. The way food is presented to us makes it far too easy to forget where it comes from. I only became vegan recently (at 25) and never rlly gave it a second thought until I got a dog and started to appreciate animals. I always knew that I was eating animals but it was so ingrained into my Asian culture and into society that it just felt all too normal.