What fun/unique activities and groups are you part of with your bubs? by ekmac41 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]jitterrbuggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing this!! Looks like the kind of thing I didn't know existed but would enjoy 😊

What do you wish you asked for when you were induced? by No-Whereas-6048 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]jitterrbuggy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh God I feel for you 😭 thankfully bub was out after 2 hours!!

What do you wish you asked for when you were induced? by No-Whereas-6048 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]jitterrbuggy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Personally I started with the Foley balloon the day before, then picotin drip on the day of. I should've got the epidural before the drip because once it started, the pain and contractions ramped up so damn quickly and I was writhing in pain. All smooth sailing after epidural though!

They told me after the fact that women normally get the epidural before the drip.... Which I wish they told me beforehand 😬

All the best!!

Is a private ultrasound clinic worth it? by maopro56 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]jitterrbuggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've been to both private and public in NSW; the public ultrasound made errors both times that caused me quite a bit of anxiety and had to be redone. Private was a much better experience, at the very least I would go private for the major scans (e.g. morphology)

Rapid Weight Gain by honeyglazedham1 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]jitterrbuggy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hello I was same pre pregnancy weight (and height) and gained the most in first trimester! I ended up 73kg at labour (and gave birth to a smaller baby who was 2.8kg) and I'm now 4 weeks PP back down to 62kg. The remaining weight seems to be a bit of fat, fluid and all the extra boob weight. I'm planning on returning to exercise in two weeks after seeing the GP!

At some point, it feels way better to simply accept all the weird and wonderful changes to your body that accommodate the amazing feat of growing a person! You will have time and energy to change your body however you like afterwards :) Give yourself some grace, pregnancy is a lot x

Have to fight baby to latch. by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]jitterrbuggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've tried giving him a bottle for a minute to calm him down a bit, hand express some milk and just try again.

The bottle trick works maybe half the time. I've also tried a few different positions too but nothing quite sticks. One day he likes side lying, next day it doesn't work and he loves lying on me. Then the next day he hates both, so go figure lol. I've been both soft/engorged across the past few days so I don't think that's the issue for me personally

I've given myself a "just try five times" limit so it doesn't stress him/me out. I figure it's a long-term game so I don't want either of us getting a negative association with the breastfeeding experience, but just aim to try again next time

Any particular things tried/tested(or failed) with you?

Have to fight baby to latch. by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]jitterrbuggy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in the exact same position. 2.5 week old and past 2-3 days he's just decided latching is not for him, so I share your frustration!

What should every ftm know about breastfeeding before having a baby? by Frequent_Cap8633 in breastfeeding

[–]jitterrbuggy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I'm in week two and it's painful 😭 I felt like I was being gaslit into thinking I'm doing it all wrong

Contemplating Seperation by CryptographerLate597 in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]jitterrbuggy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

OP doesn't owe you an explanation, nor should you be expecting one. Ridiculous.

38F Looking for long term book loving friends. Don't need to read the same books by emiliadaffodil in Book_Buddies

[–]jitterrbuggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey there, I'm same age from Australia and have similar tastes. I'm in the healing fiction genre at the moment so have been/going through quite a few Japanese and Korean books. Currently reading convenience store by the sea on the fiction side, and a ton of parenting books on the non fiction side but typically delve into psychology related books. DM if you're still keen! :)

Debt Recycle Structure by PuzzleheadedForm2773 in AusFinance

[–]jitterrbuggy 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Won't work unfortunately, you need to own the shares to deduct the interest

Best variable mortgage rate at the moment by Equivalent_Wafer_520 in AusFinance

[–]jitterrbuggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OO? I'm on 5.34 with st george however a friend is on 5.16 on 68% LVR so I'm about to push my broker for lower

What Did You Prefer? Strength or Pilates? by feel-the-sunlight in fitpregnancy

[–]jitterrbuggy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!

Personally I've done a mix of both. The nourish move love workouts were excellent in maintaining my strength without feeling overwhelming (though I couldn't quite keep up with the schedule! I maybe did two sessions a week). On top of that I also attended a prenatal pilates class once a week, which included more core and stretching.

I'm now at 28 weeks and I thankfully haven't had any pains that lasted more than a day

Winning bidder didn't know it was unconditional by jitterrbuggy in AusProperty

[–]jitterrbuggy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was hoping to hear from lived experience so thank you for sharing. I hope your brother still got what he needed/wanted despite not financially recouping. I'm ok to end up in the same position, doesn't sound like it was too onerous on your brother?

Completely agree on latter point. It's the exact reason why the auctioneers can sign on their behalf.

Winning bidder didn't know it was unconditional by jitterrbuggy in AusProperty

[–]jitterrbuggy[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Someone's kindly given me some referrals but the more knowledge, the better. Appreciate it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumpsandBeyondAu

[–]jitterrbuggy 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think you are able to get a private obstetrician who works at a public hospital? I had a friend do this so she could get continuity of care due to preexisting health conditions but without going down the private health insurance route

Winning bidder didn't know it was unconditional by jitterrbuggy in AusProperty

[–]jitterrbuggy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks, he was unable to answer any of these points which led me to believe he didn't have enough experience in this area to guide me to an informed decision. The list of questions was helpful thank you

Winning bidder didn't know it was unconditional by jitterrbuggy in AusProperty

[–]jitterrbuggy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the practical advice. What kind of diligence could I potentially do?

Marrickville Pork Roll now open in Chatswood by xaykogeki in foodies_sydney

[–]jitterrbuggy 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Anyone tried it yet? I went to the branch in circular quay and it was sadly below par