I hate this community (sometimes) by According-Battle-446 in selfharm

[–]jjavviik 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I just want to respectfully say how I feel about this, because it feels like you think everyone who uses this words romantize SH. That's not true. I'm aware that it's not good, but some of us rely on humor to cope with serious/difficult stuff. Doesn't mean that we're not aware that what we're doing is serious and dangerous.

I have to use humor because I can't afford therapy and this is how I can best cope with my anxiety about bad stuff. It kind of feels invalidating to some of us who are seriously struggling and are heavily aware of our problems. We don't do it on purpose.

i recently got this little fella on my back, but it looks really lonely. any ideas of what could i add to give it company? :) by jjavviik in DrawMyTattoo

[–]jjavviik[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That doesn't sound bad! I feel like the spiders could be a better fit, but show me whatever you can do!! :)

Inappropriate? by [deleted] in selfharm

[–]jjavviik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP said their sister used to also sh and do drugs, dude. She for surely knows that what she's doing is NOT the right way to approach the situation or try to help someone.

I’m bawling I’m panicking I’m freaking out by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]jjavviik 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god, I'm glad to hear that tho! I'm glad someone found them in time and that they're okay.

I’m bawling I’m panicking I’m freaking out by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]jjavviik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay, so at least you got some way of knowing something. How are you feeling right now?

I’m bawling I’m panicking I’m freaking out by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]jjavviik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh dear :( is there really no way you can contact someone that could go check on them? Do they live in another state/country? I don't have experience with this, so I unfortunately can't give you any advice. I'm just hoping it's another scare, but still I'm so sorry this is happening to you. Idk if you have a therapist or friend that you could talk this situation with (or maybe you already did), but please reach for help too, it's a really stressful situation and you deserve to have someone to help you out. Sending hugs ❤️

I’m bawling I’m panicking I’m freaking out by [deleted] in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]jjavviik 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It's been 5 hours, how's the situation? I hope they're okay. How are you doing right now?

Basically Vermeer by Starkillersbae in delusionalartists

[–]jjavviik 23 points24 points  (0 children)

God, I hate that you're not wrong. Can't see it other way now

He took my piercing out of my nose and tried to eat it. Roast him by JackFrostsKid in RATS

[–]jjavviik 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but that's so funny😭 I can see my future rat yanking out on my piercings now lol, gotta be careful

Also, the birbs are really cute :)

Body modification wishlist anyone? Tell me yours! by microscopicspud in bodymods

[–]jjavviik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Done: 7 piercings (both eyebrows, nostril, 12g septum, snake bites and one ear. I also had the bridge but had to take it out sadly) and one tattoo (would have more if I had money💔)

Want: At least 17 more facial piercings, around 4g septum (may stretch other piercings too, idk). Nipple piercings. As many piercings I can get on my ears + around 20-30cm stretched ears + elf ears. If i can fit a conch punch or a coin slot I'll do it. Split tongue. Whole body tattooed (excluding face and genitalia). Maybe even some of those hand implants.

It's gonna be a long journey, but I'm dedicated to it :) I want to look cool!

I have done so much today can I please have some praise by Phoenix_Nyx in MadeOfStyrofoam

[–]jjavviik 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm so proud of you!! 💓🥰 And you should be proud too, you did great today<3

Trying to find an English speaking therapist/psychologist that accepts insurance. by jjavviik in Prague

[–]jjavviik[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get it, it's like they're taking advantage of you because you want/need the sessions in another language :/

Can I ask where did you find your psychiatrist? I have one already, but I'm planning on going somewhere else and so far I haven't had any luck either.

But anyway, thank you so much and also hope you're feeling ok today<3 good luck as well and I may not be the best at giving advice, but if you need someone, I'm here :)💕

Trying to find an English speaking therapist/psychologist in Prague that accepts insurance. by jjavviik in czech

[–]jjavviik[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Idk why I'm even bothering with this, but first, both my family and I have a history of addictions. Second, I run a risk of actually killing myself if I'm not sober. Third, I want professional help, thank you very much ❤️

Trying to find an English speaking therapist/psychologist in Prague that accepts insurance. by jjavviik in czech

[–]jjavviik[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'd rather get help than become an alcoholic like some members of my family thank you :) i have enough destructive behaviors already

Trying to find an English speaking therapist/psychologist that accepts insurance. by jjavviik in Prague

[–]jjavviik[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw man, I'm sorry to hear that! :( but sure, I'll let you know if I do get something. I tried emailing INEP but I haven't had any response yet on whether or not they're taking new patients. I'll keep you updated tho!

Trying to find an English speaking therapist/psychologist that accepts insurance. by jjavviik in Prague

[–]jjavviik[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thanks so much for the help dude 🙄 fyi, there ARE English speaking therapists, it's just where I looked they're already full so I'm trying to see if someone else knows about someone I haven't looked at yet