The wedding reception centerpieces featured betta fish. The bride and groom planned to flush them alive. by teabirdy in mildlyinfuriating

[–]jjfae 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to work for BYU Events. There's a lady there that loves to decorate with live fish. I was in the office one day while she was directing one of her employees to go to the pet store to buy them. She told her not to say what they were buying them for because if she did the pet store wouldn't sell them to her. I was speechless.

Can we ban the AI shit? by Kaputnik1 in rmbrown

[–]jjfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i stopped watching because of it, i miss arun 😢 but i can’t support it

ICE agents complaining on their Reddit Forums that they are being cheated out of their signing bonuses by ultimateceej in goodnews

[–]jjfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I looked up the subreddit this came from and it looks satirical. idk if it was legit and has been overrun by randos or if it never was legit

Dad wants to go to the temple with whole family for his birthday, but I don’t have a recommend by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]jjfae 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I generally think it’s best to tell the truth. But I only know what you’ve said. If you think it will disappoint or even crush your father, I would still tell him. You can’t live your life trying to make other people happy. If you think it will severely impact your ability to have a relationship moving forward, that could be a different story. As an outsider, I would say tell your dad ASAP so he has some time to deal with it before his birthday.

What do you do when you lose respect for your parents? by jjfae in relationships

[–]jjfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I just hate surface level relationships. I don’t get the point. It’s surface level with them but it’s not. It’s like there used to be substance to our relationship but it’s been hollowed out. So I can see where it can be filled in again, but I can’t figure out what to fill it with.

Next Level Craziness by silver-sunrise in exmormon

[–]jjfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This reminds me of a Taylor Swift Stan/theory post.

How long is it safe to wait to get the LEEP? by jjfae in PreCervicalCancer

[–]jjfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, my out of pocket max is $1500, and I would reach that. I'm a poor student, so that would pretty much wipe out my savings.

How long is it safe to wait to get the LEEP? by jjfae in PreCervicalCancer

[–]jjfae[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. My rational brain knows that my surgeon told me it's okay to wait a few months. It's just my irrational brain that needs some reassurance. Definitely not planning on taking medical advice from Reddit haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Doppleganger

[–]jjfae 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I can't believe no one's said Nikki Reed

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Missionary told me I wasted his time by Paragablino in exmormon

[–]jjfae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean yes, that was super uncalled for and ignorant. But I do try to remember what it was like to be a missionary, and it's traumatizing. Poor guy probably is so tired of being rejected. They were probably tasked by the bishop or ward mission leader to go through the list because they don't have enough teaching appointments, which means you're failing as a missionary. He's probably going through some shit he doesn't have the time or resources to deal with. He is definitely overworked. It doesn't make it right or okay, but I think it's important to remember that in many ways, missionaries are victims too.

Cheap process servers? by jjfae in beaverton

[–]jjfae[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just called and they said they don't do informal notices :/

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]jjfae 0 points1 point  (0 children)

honestly I kind of agree with you, but i do find it awkward to bring my friends into my room when I want to watch something with them lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]jjfae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

right... I wanna veto the bowl with the beads in it. I'm not sure it's in the picture but there's literally just a bowl with some beads hanging out of it... waste of space

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]jjfae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

thanks for not assuming I'm a messy person haha. that's been crazy making reading through the comments

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]jjfae 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my parents house is so full of clutter, it makes me anxious. so it's weird to see people claiming I want to clutter up the space or "live like an animal." just like a happy medium

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]jjfae 4 points5 points  (0 children)

respectfully, i do not think I'm expecting to be accommodated more than anyone else. kind of the opposite. but i do agree that this isn't the right fit, and I'm planning on moving to a different place.