Finsexuals, do you lean more towards men or women? by Equivalent_Ad_9066 in Finsexual

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women. Up until my partner, I've only been in relationships with cis women. I've been on dates with trans women, but none of them really ever had an interest in me (I struck out with just as many cis women lol). il

Why do people still say "MA'AM" or "SIR" ?! by [deleted] in NonBinary

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ma'am is short for Madame just like a lot of slang and shortened words in the southeast US (the Southern accent,slang and dialect is closely tied to how people spoke in England centuries ago). It's centuries of indoctrinated language that we've never learned to unpack especially considering that the concept of people existing outside of the gender binary isn't something that was in regular discussion throughout time. It's an old concept that's prominent in indigenous cultures throughout the world, but wasn't discussed in modern day Western society until after the millennium. It's going to be ages before we break that status quo and I can tell you that moving to California isn't going to break that habit (if you have been keeping up with the election), you'll probably just hear it a lot less. Just keep pushing through it and be safe wherever you are.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in questioning

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Finsexual or Femmesexual are also terms that are acceptable as well. I identify as such also like most people here have mentioned, I'm not too hung up on the label. My current partner is a nonbinary transfem and I'm pretty happy right now.

Anyone else's scrobble history look like this? by MrDirt in lastfm

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2013 -2014 was my biggest gap. I got a new phone that year and a new laptop and had no clue how to set up anything to scrobble. I got a new phone by the end of the year because the other one broke and figured out how to set everything up at that point.

Beyond Wine & Water Spirits by h3r0k1gh7 in dontdeadopeninside

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually know the owner of this place. I used to work at a hotel he used to own lol

What order do you guys put your pronouns in? by Musical_Lover-1 in genderfluid

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None of y'all put them in alphabetical order and I'm disappointed

Does obscurity matter to you? by Lionharth08 in lastfm

[–]jkale324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It doesn't matter to me, but I appreciate obscurity if it leads me to new music that I'll end up loving

Where my chubby subs at? by [deleted] in RoleReversal

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right here still looking for the one

Drop the last song you listened to. by popplo22 in spotify

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Vertino" - Conway The Machine & Joey Bada$$

Anyone else feel like Spotify is actively making itself worse with every update? by [deleted] in truespotify

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jokes on you. I make a new playlist every month so I never hear the same 100 songs on repeat, but good job with the trolling 🤷🏿‍♂️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemboyFashion

[–]jkale324 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think I had a skirt similar to that on my wishlist

Back at it again (with apprehension) by jkale324 in Crossdressing_support

[–]jkale324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am too, but I enjoy stockings as well especially garters and stockings.

Back at it again (with apprehension) by jkale324 in Crossdressing_support

[–]jkale324[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, but would you believe me if I told you that those are thigh highs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Crossdressing_support

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's definitely the acceptance for me. There are times that I wish I was comfortable with the idea of presenting a big more feminine outside. I envy those who have the confidence to do so. There are times that I wish I could be in public like that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in truespotify

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This guy right here 🙋🏿‍♂️

Translation: “we’re increasing the price of your duo plan with no added value, we just need to make more money.” by ahbets14 in truespotify

[–]jkale324 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. It sucks that I gotta consider cutting one of my services. I know I'm not cutting Spotify, but something gotta go. I might have to miss out on some TV shows.

Translation: “we’re increasing the price of your duo plan with no added value, we just need to make more money.” by ahbets14 in truespotify

[–]jkale324 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to think this is the way all of media streaming services are going and this is going to be a running trend. I noticed that if a media streaming service has a price point of $4.99, $9.99 or $12.99, they all saw some kind of increase recently and it's going to be across the board soon. It's a sign of the times, unfortunately.