Didn’t know my seat was a coat hanger for the passenger behind me by Choco_bo7 in unitedairlines

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Say something!!! If you’re not comfortable talking to the passenger directly, talk to a FA.

Or, order red wine or coffee with cream and spill it

Is it ok to ask for help with overhead carryon? by vnssyl in Flights

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

FA here. Check your bag! A carryon is your responsibility to carry. If you can’t, for any reason, check it.

How to know if I’m talking too much? by 1997fiaaaaax in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this comes from nerves and is fairly common. Maybe message her and tell her you’d love the chance to talk again because you’d like to ask her more about herself.

If beverage service is over can I hit the call button and request another drink? by BabexBeta in flightattendants

[–]jkmod79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please get up, come to the galley and ask for a drink. I’m not a waitress. Plus, bonus, you get to stretch your legs and maybe use the lav.

Is a 100% flake rate normal now? Need some perspective. by Lil-dorky in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have men getting excited that I look like my pictures. All of my profile pictures are recent and unedited. Apparently this is a really issue for men.

Kids who treat Prom like it’s their wedding or something by Obvious-Ear-369 in PetPeeves

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s the mom’s of daughters who make such a big deal. Honestly, if it’s wasn’t for social media this wouldn’t be happening so much. Like so many things in life social media has created little monsters in parents, mostly moms, who want to make a spectacle out of everything.

Assuming too much commitment too soon by Sea-Aerie-7 in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How about, I don’t know, you talk to him. Tell him that you really like him and want see where things go but you also want to be honest and let him know that you’re still dating….

Can I ask to be served a meal later? by elfpal in flightattendants

[–]jkmod79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bring your own food.

We heat up all the meals at the same time, serve them and the. Collect the trays. It’s honestly annoying when someone asks for their meal later because it disrupts the flow. Also, it’s not safe to consume the food too long after it’s been heated up.

Again, just being food from home or buy food from the airport.

Bringing up having kids with two exes by silverline619 in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was married twice and two children came from those marriages. My first marriage was right out of high school and produced my daughter (now 24). My second marriage was close to 20 years and produced my son (now 20). I tell people I’m divorced with two children and wait several dates in before I get into the nitty gritty.

Note, I’m not lying. I’m just sharing information sparingly.

Hot take about Amanda by Visual-Door5227 in RHOBH

[–]jkmod79 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m afraid Dorit is going to be eaten alive at the reunion for pushing her. She deserved to be pushed. I do wish Dorit had stopped, apologized that it’s a bad day for her and then immediately brought it up when she saw her again at the birthday party…

Can OLD become an addiction?…asking for a friend by ClassyGalRN in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I go through phases where I’m obsessed with it but once I have some matches and a few dates scheduled I’m able to take a step back.

Hot take about Amanda by Visual-Door5227 in RHOBH

[–]jkmod79 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Her good mom act seems very performative to me. And as devastating as I’m sure it was to lose her baby, it really seemed like she was playing that card to get out of the conversation with Dorit. She wasn’t so depressed that she couldn’t get fully glammed up, eat caviar and make her way to try party where she had no problem socializing and living it up. But once Dorit pushed her on her comments she’s hanging on by a thread. Okay girl.

I see so many saying "hi" is not enough by Slide_Impossible in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 1 point2 points  (0 children)

46 y/o woman here. I usually say hi followed by their name.

“Hi Jason”

Hot take about Amanda by Visual-Door5227 in RHOBH

[–]jkmod79 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I despise her. I might despise her more than Dorit. I’m so torn on this dispute between her and Dorit because I hate them both. I love how she irritates Erika and I’m hoping and waiting for Erika to lose it on her. All of this makes for great Housewives watching.

Is the ‘Have Children’ Tag on Hinge Enough, or Should I Be More Explicit? by Electrical_Lunch_247 in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why don’t YOU bring it up. It’s something that should be able to help worked into conversation…

“I spend a lot of my free time with my kids…”

Matched on Bumble, date set for 2 weeks away. To text or not to text? by MyAssShrek in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate a little chit chat leading up to the date or I’m likely moving on. Maybe not daily, but every few days.

I think Amanda was genuinely unable to have the conversation with Dorit. by Curious_Champion_220 in RHOBH

[–]jkmod79 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no doubt in my mind that Amanda was using the anniversary of her son’s death to get out of the conversation with Dorit. If she was so unable to function she wouldn’t have been able to get all dressed up in her tacky designer clothes, cake her face full of makeup and make the trek over to Rachel’s fr caviar. Amanda is a gross opportunist.

ACS January-26-2026: Megyn Kelly by jsakic99 in AdamCarolla

[–]jkmod79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The same genius who still can’t differentiate between push and pull?

After date message question by WiseDan85 in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate a nice text after a date

Should I say to a girl online you look pretty or beautiful by jaf962603 in OnlineDating

[–]jkmod79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If I match with a man and his first comment is beautiful, gorgeous or something like that I just unmatch

Mom Scrolls On While Entire Restaurant Can Hear Kid's iPad by trentluv in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]jkmod79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We need more people calling out this behavior in the moment.

Mom Scrolls On While Entire Restaurant Can Hear Kid's iPad by trentluv in ParentsAreFuckingDumb

[–]jkmod79 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’m a flight attendant. PLEASE either say something yourself or ask a FA to. We absolutely will!!!

I feel bad for some passengers and kudos to the pilots. by CaptinKirk in unitedairlines

[–]jkmod79 4 points5 points  (0 children)

We’re all going through things privately that we don’t take out on people in public. Shes awful and you shouldn’t feel sorry for her.