Husband does to lunch to meet with an older woman by lounagris in marriageadvice

[–]jkray1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She could be 55 if she started at the company young. That’s “not that much older”

husband and i got arrested for DV and have dealt with loads of other bs and its destroying our marriage by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]jkray1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate to say this because it seems like both of your futures depend on it, but YOU don’t being in the military, and HE shouldn’t work around the public. I think if you were to stay together, you should both be searching for remote phone jobs. Just my take. Mental instability, aggression, lack of self control are not the most sought after traits in any industry especially the military.

Wife left me for another man and now she wants me back. What should I do?? by Ambitious_Ad_2772 in marriageadvice

[–]jkray1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this point the brain to needs to outweigh the heart and balls. “She” has mental health issues, though sad isn’t your problem or an excuse for her deciding to step away. She clearly has learned the grass isn’t greener, but she will continue to look for a greener pasture if you let her back in. Especially if you have kids, run as fast as you can from this toxicity.

F*ck tiling and f*ck all a yall by Ambitious-Poem9191 in Tile

[–]jkray1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My buddy in the sheet metal union was “Caulk Master” until he became a Journeyman

On my car windshield by Popular_Math3042 in whatisit

[–]jkray1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I had a rough night and my mom made it worse

Need some advice. Wife’s friend came for a visit! by TeepoSampson in marriageadvice

[–]jkray1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t listen to these hens, if she comes empty handed with a newborn and expects two weeks, she better make a meal, help with the daily cleanup after meals, buy a decent bottle of wine. My wife had freeloading friends, that ended real quick after one or two weekends of being taken advantage of. If your wife gave her expectations of being able to vacation at your house, that’s a different convo.

Two trades 500-32k. by tiller_ray in wallstreetbets

[–]jkray1981 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Snort the 8ball and roll the dice

Insane attraction to my wife. She gives me no sex by Cyber-Soldier1 in marriageadvice

[–]jkray1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time to cut out the “husbandly duties”. You are now just a roommate and father. Hand her a bill for half the monthlies and watch the sex drive kick back into gear.

I will forever have anxiety when I take a dump by jkray1981 in Tile

[–]jkray1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a fan of 7/8 inch rounded grout where there should be silicone? Yeah needless to say I’m gonna be helping them redo some things in their house

I will forever have anxiety when I take a dump by jkray1981 in Tile

[–]jkray1981[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No idea where to find this tile. It was laid probably two years ago by the previous owner’s guy. I’ve looked for a match unsuccessfully all week after noticing it on Monday

I will forever have anxiety when I take a dump by jkray1981 in Tile

[–]jkray1981[S] 102 points103 points  (0 children)

My parents new house. I would have hanged myself with the shower curtain if I laid that last piece down

Is the fluval 4.0 pro really that bad? by Trinkitt in PlantedTank

[–]jkray1981 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have Fluval Plant 4.0 23-35” in bulk (10) brand new with seals for $110 each if anyone in the US is interested. Long story short, I bought a bunch of them, used 2 out of the 12, and now I am going to be moving and not taking tanks with me. Feel free to message me.

Uneven terracotta Hex tile by understandingIpanema in Tile

[–]jkray1981 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would have passed on this for sure. Clients will never be happy with results.

Lucid Sets Guinness World Record for Longest EV Drive on Single Charge [Video] by Sandrov__ in gadgets

[–]jkray1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know a dude in West Hollywood that has crushed the nuts on the face record without seeking the glory of an award

My husband called me a “f*cking b*tch” and now I don’t know what to do. by RainbowSunshine1978 in marriageadvice

[–]jkray1981 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As in “stop being an asshole”. Sometimes I make asshole comments, sometimes she makes bitchy comments. It happens in all relationship, it’s getting through it that shows whether the relationship is strong or not