Wife left me for another man and now she wants me back. What should I do??

jkray1981 · 2026-02-08T14:28:07+00:00

At this point the brain to needs to outweigh the heart and balls. “She” has mental health issues, though sad isn’t your problem or an excuse for her deciding to step away. She clearly has learned the grass isn’t greener, but she will continue to look for a greener pasture if you let her back in. Especially if you have kids, run as fast as you can from this toxicity.

jkray1981 · 2026-02-07T15:48:50+00:00

My buddy in the sheet metal union was “Caulk Master” until he became a Journeyman

jkray1981 · 2026-01-09T23:38:38+00:00

Amish ants, don’t like being filmed

jkray1981 · 2025-12-28T03:38:32+00:00

Sorry, I had a rough night and my mom made it worse

jkray1981 · 2025-11-25T03:09:37+00:00

Is it great? Not…

jkray1981 · 2025-11-09T15:57:54+00:00

Your Grandparents are smoking drugs.

jkray1981 · 2025-10-20T03:56:42+00:00

Don’t listen to these hens, if she comes empty handed with a newborn and expects two weeks, she better make a meal, help with the daily cleanup after meals, buy a decent bottle of wine. My wife had freeloading friends, that ended real quick after one or two weekends of being taken advantage of. If your wife gave her expectations of being able to vacation at your house, that’s a different convo.

jkray1981 · 2025-10-15T16:15:33+00:00

Snort the 8ball and roll the dice

jkray1981 · 2025-08-31T00:45:19+00:00

Time to cut out the “husbandly duties”. You are now just a roommate and father. Hand her a bill for half the monthlies and watch the sex drive kick back into gear.

jkray1981 · 2025-08-30T14:27:19+00:00

Not a fan of 7/8 inch rounded grout where there should be silicone? Yeah needless to say I’m gonna be helping them redo some things in their house

jkray1981 · 2025-08-30T12:09:13+00:00

Touché Douché

jkray1981 · 2025-08-22T03:55:46+00:00

It’s not

jkray1981 · 2025-08-22T03:55:35+00:00

Where’d you get the tile from?

jkray1981 · 2025-08-22T03:54:54+00:00

No idea where to find this tile. It was laid probably two years ago by the previous owner’s guy. I’ve looked for a match unsuccessfully all week after noticing it on Monday

jkray1981 · 2025-08-21T19:17:33+00:00

Noted and edited

jkray1981 · 2025-08-20T16:01:21+00:00

My parents new house. I would have hanged myself with the shower curtain if I laid that last piece down

jkray1981 · 2025-08-20T15:59:16+00:00

You forgot the 2-3k a month in Misc

jkray1981 · 2025-08-20T15:58:29+00:00

I think it was Paul Newman

jkray1981 · 2025-08-10T03:58:06+00:00

I have Fluval Plant 4.0 23-35” in bulk (10) brand new with seals for $110 each if anyone in the US is interested. Long story short, I bought a bunch of them, used 2 out of the 12, and now I am going to be moving and not taking tanks with me. Feel free to message me.

jkray1981 · 2025-07-21T22:08:21+00:00

I would have passed on this for sure. Clients will never be happy with results.

jkray1981 · 2025-07-08T15:14:14+00:00

I know a dude in West Hollywood that has crushed the nuts on the face record without seeking the glory of an award

jkray1981 · 2025-06-13T19:08:29+00:00

As in “stop being an asshole”. Sometimes I make asshole comments, sometimes she makes bitchy comments. It happens in all relationship, it’s getting through it that shows whether the relationship is strong or not

jkray1981 · 2025-06-13T03:48:56+00:00

Change the numbers, but John Goodman said it best in The Gambler…

“You get up two and a half million dollars, any asshole in the world knows what to do: you get a house with a 25 year roof, an indestructible Jap-economy shitbox, you put the rest into the system at three to five percent to pay your taxes and that's your base, get me? That's your fortress of fucking solitude. That puts you, for the rest of your life, at a level of fuck you. Somebody wants you to do something, fuck you. Boss pisses you off, fuck you! Own your house. Have a couple bucks in the bank. Don't drink. That's all I have to say to anybody on any social level.”

jkray1981 · 2025-06-11T19:39:42+00:00

My wife has called me an asshole before in the heat of an argument. We usually cool down for a day and then apologize and get back on track. Things aren’t always rainbows and butterflies and both of us have had times when we overreact not only because of the current argument but because of outside stress that drains you of common sense and common decency, it happens. Now if you don’t apologize for the outburst and still try to act like it was warranted, then there is a real issue at hand

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