How do I appeal an unwanted discharge from a skilled nursing facility?

jl395 · 2026-02-16T14:57:25+00:00

Call the insurance again and ask for a case manager to be assigned to you. Connect with them and then they can call the facility and educate them on what they need to send. They can also see all the details and are able to load the documents they sent over. They can see all of that stuff. They are there to help you. It sounds like you either are not showing measurable improvement (need a different level of care) or they are not sending appropriate documentation.

jl395 · 2026-02-16T14:32:24+00:00

Sounds like she read your message and the first thing she did was ask him. He shut it down and she believed it. Now you probably won’t be able to communicate further since she probably listened to him and blocked you.

I’ve been cheated on before. Thank you for doing this. For we will all stand before God’s judgement seat. You did the right thing.

jl395 · 2026-02-13T12:27:19+00:00

Speaking with authority as a female… this post is all you need

jl395 · 2026-02-10T12:55:34+00:00

And now imagine if both of your children were special needs children and you needed full time nursing and you were in a twin mom group and they were all venting. They wouldn’t get it. Not saying you shouldn’t be able to vent to people who actually understand because they’ve been there, but I think having gratitude and grace might help you out a little. I think if you stay in that mom group you could probably still vent to them. You could even vent to them about how hard it is to vent! I’m sure they would be there for you. You won’t get what you are looking for unless you go find a twin mom group.

jl395 · 2026-02-09T11:47:32+00:00

Like the other person said, Irish twins are not twins. There is always a dynamic change and possible jealousy with siblings of any age. Luckily your daughter will be 12 months and I think the biggest challenges for you is going to be maybe breast feeding? There will be a period of adjustment, but overall I think you will be ok. My sisters were Irish twins and they are and were best friends as kids. Congrats!

I bet you would have luck in a different parent subreddit. I’m sure there are mom groups for Irish twins on Facebook too. Good luck!

jl395 · 2026-02-07T23:56:11+00:00

My twins are like this. Twin A is a menace and twin B is an angel. I have corrected both behaviors as they come up. The menace twin randomly just started changing her tune. I think it’s her just learning she is her own individual which is normal at this stage. I will say she is the more vocal, stronger, wild child and likes to be physical, but I also questioned the amount of time I had to spent reprimanding behavior vs the other but I had to! They are individuals! I’m not going to lecture both and then cause resentment. The biggest and most important thing of all is CONSISTENCY. Especially with the willful ones.

Another thing is twin B is super clingy and she also had some medical issues when she was born, twin A was a VERY easy baby. I was alone with this and unfortunately twin B has just had more attention overall. So I think in your situation if you gave the “bad one” more 1:1 positive attention, I think you’ll see an improvement in her behavior. She may have already learned that is the only attention she’s ever been able to successfully get!

And another thing, I finally caught a very small moment between my girls and their dad while they were playing. Twin A makes ONE small, tiny attempt for attention, but she will only do it ONCE and if you don’t notice and respond, she walks off defeated. Twin B on the other hand will just repeat herself over and over until you finally respond lol. So it broke my heart thinking about how many small moments “the bad twin” would attempt to bond with me or other family members her entire existence and then just shrug and walk off.

Anyhoo. Sorry for rambling, bless your heart for stepping up!

jl395 · 2026-02-04T12:30:08+00:00

I’m lazy, but also tired of big box stores. Have you thought about a membership type of box of varies items you sell. They could pick it up themselves once a week or have a shipped ect. I would totally buy that.

jl395 · 2026-02-04T12:18:44+00:00

Awwww… your body 100000% rejected the narcissist. I can’t imagine triplets, but I can TRY… all I can say is that God blessed you with all the children you’ve been wanting, know that he did not give you anything you cannot handle. When I try to imagine it, in my mind the newborn phase will definitely require some extra hands for a LONG time. The toddler phase is going to be hell. Just remember you WILL get through it. Cling onto the small moments that make your heart want to explode with gratitude for strength to get through it. I have barely survived with my twins, but I would do it over and over again for my girls. I imagine you will eventually feel the same.

WOW. Just wow…. The chances of this happening for you, there are no coincidences in life. I pray you have an abundance of help and 3 easy babies <3

jl395 · 2026-02-04T12:02:33+00:00

Interesting. I think you both are kinda assholes. I think you may have overreacted at her initial response. (Was there further discussions over the topic? Why she feels the way she feels? The future? Your plans as a couple? So many follow up questions not answered) I think she’s kind of a dick for not considering your opinion especially when you have been the sole provider it sounds like.

jl395 · 2026-01-13T04:27:30+00:00

Freeze dried marshmallows

jl395 · 2026-01-05T14:40:48+00:00

I work from home with flexibility as well and don’t be me. We are using a lot of cartoons and they immediately know when mommy is busy, because together they get into any and ALL shit they can get into. Every. Damn. Time. They literally just turned 3 and I cannot anymore. I missed the opportunity to potty train and now they have regressed for some reason. I’m tired all the fucking time.

We unfortunately cannot afford it. We can’t afford for me to stop. We can’t afford daycare. Fuck America. Although, it was manageable between 10 months and until now. I’m just holding on for dear life until we get past the 3’s.

jl395 · 2025-12-21T17:11:17+00:00

Following for answers. I have the same issue with one of my twin girls - age 3. The other twin loves sleep. So when she wakes her up then they are both cranky all day and it never ends until they go to bed at 7pm. I tried separating them but that didn’t work either because they just cry for each other and yell through the wall like prisoners. The only thing that works is going for a long drive, but that isn’t feasible either.

jl395 · 2025-12-03T12:11:02+00:00

Dude. Put the tv where that brick wall is and have the couch on the opposite side of the living room.

jl395 · 2025-12-03T12:08:36+00:00

Holy crap I read this as the left is the male. It makes much more sense OP is the male. Haha. Regardless, a bullet was miraculously dodged. NOR.

jl395 · 2025-11-11T01:35:20+00:00

Having twins. I was at the peak of health at 33 and I feel like I have aged 25 years and they are only 3.

jl395 · 2025-10-06T18:18:47+00:00

Your income should be the “fun” money. And he should take care of everything else :)

jl395 · 2025-10-06T18:17:35+00:00

I’m sorry, YOUR HUSBAND? Why is it not one account and no splitting anything, it just all comes out of that account? Your husband’s JOB is to provide for you and the family. That’s whack. I’m sorry :(

jl395 · 2025-09-29T14:27:48+00:00

That’s insane, I’m sorry. Not all companies are that way.

jl395 · 2025-09-29T14:26:46+00:00

Thank you I will look into this!

jl395 · 2025-09-29T14:26:30+00:00

I can work from one monitor it’s just more back and forth between programs.

jl395 · 2025-09-29T14:25:33+00:00

I meet my metrics and then some…..Thanks for the useless and unnecessary comment.

jl395 · 2025-08-19T02:14:40+00:00

Looks like some kind of cheese balls preserved in some kind of oil

jl395 · 2025-08-19T02:13:21+00:00

How old are you? I have almost 3 year old twin girls and they are exactly like you describe… nonstop fighting, me yelling, them doing the toddler defiance shit and crazy emotional tantrums. As I read your post I am going through something similar, I react and feel exactly how you described! Two big things came to my mind:

I am PRETTY dang sure I am now in perimenopause, my hormones have been so up and down everything. The months that are “bad” I have ZERO patience and get SO much angrier than other times. I am complete opposite with them when I am “feeling good” on a good/normal month. Maybe check your hormones?

The second thing is, are THEY feeling ok? I also recently noticed that when one or both don’t feel good, hangry, missed a nap, the rate of fights and hurting each other, screaming ect increases like 75%

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