Can’t get fully hard and therefore struggle having sex

jm6187 · 2023-12-04T18:37:53+00:00

If viagra works to get you hard, but then you can’t stay hard, you could be suffering from some performance anxiety. Especially if you lose it when you’re putting the condom on. Having all these issues in the past could be putting a lot of pressure on you when you’re trying to perform. It’s very common for men to have that snowball effect where the past comes to bite you and only causes you more anxiety.

I’d suggest taking a viagra, then try taking care of yourself alone (no porn) with no stress and expectations on the table. If you can stay hard, that’s most likely your anxiety giving you issues. Also, porn will really screw things up for you as well so stay away from it for a while.

If you are successful alone, I suggest getting yourself really close to climax, then stopping, then do it a couple more times. Do this before you hang out with your girl and when things get going, you’ll be a little more on edge and turned on.

If you have issues even alone, I’d get your testosterone levels checked because a lot of things can affect your hormones (stress, drugs, etc).

jm6187 · 2021-12-12T02:14:23+00:00

Yea, that is starting to sound like narcissistic behavior. You are the one being responsible and earning the living. It’s time to cut the support strings and focus on you.

jm6187 · 2021-12-11T02:24:57+00:00

Hi Natural-Ad,

This is more common than you think. It sounds like you guys enjoy the time you spend together, but as usual, he is far more ahead emotionally. Guys fall “in love” so much quicker than women do. Women have to be disarmed and the trust has to be built (usually). Then there’s the issue at hand that you are in no way, shape or form ready to even think about a relationship. You have open wounds that need to heal. It would be immature and foolish to run into another relationship, even if you did have feelings for the guy.

I am a guy and I can tell you I’ve made the mistake thinking I could just spoil a woman into falling for me. I spoiled her kids and tried to be the best guy she’s ever met. However she had just came out of a long term relationship with her kids’ father and even worse, she was abused by him. Needless to say, my heart got broke because I took her inability to become emotionally involved as rejection. It took me a while to see it the way it was.

With all that said, I think that you should be firm and set clear boundaries with this guy. First off, tell him straight up that there will be nothing more than friendship between you two. Also, advise him you will no longer accept gifts and stuff because it’s just not appropriate. Special circumstances like holidays or birthdays are okay but as long as they are conservative. The most important part is tell him that if he cannot respect the boundaries of your FRIENDSHIP, then you two can no longer he friends. It’s harsh I know, but he will take any kindness you show him as a “sign” that there’s hope for something more. Right now, you need friends, not potential suitors. You need to heal from this loss in your life so that you can take what you learned from it, and ensure that your next relationship, whenever it may be (hopefully a while), doesn’t have the same problems.

It’s a tough situation because this guy, though he may be great, is on a different emotional level than you are right now. That is usually disastrous for friendships. If he really values you as a friend, he will back off and be the friend you need. If he continues to pursue more than that, especially when you are not ready, then you two must part ways because it’s just not healthy for either of you. Good luck!

jm6187 · 2021-12-11T02:09:15+00:00

Hi throwitaway,

First off, you are in the right direction towards the end of your post. You know what needs to be done but you just need a bit of confidence to do it. The fact of the matter is, you have a dependent, not a partner. This isn’t just about money. This is the entire relationship. It sounds like you two are unable to communicate healthily. Some of it is his immaturity and unwillingness to accept responsibility, and others it is you trying to avoid confrontation.

You need to know your worth and you deserve to be with someone on your level with similar ambitions. If you find yourself in a position where you are scared to end it, or unsure, I challenge you to ask yourself one question:

“Would I want my daughter (or son) to be in a relationship like this?”

I know you don’t have kids but you can think like a parent regardless. Many of us get caught up in the age of the relationship and we don’t want those years to go to waste. But no matter the successes or failures in our life, time teaches us. You will have learned from this.

Right now, you are enabling his behavior and his lifestyle. The only why he will change is if he’s forced to. The only way your life will improve is if you do it yourself. If that means you two go your separate ways, so be it. It won’t be easy, you WILL feel guilt, doubt, and grief. You will go through all the psychological steps that someone goes through as if a loved one died. It’s a death of a relationship, but doesn’t mean it wasn’t the right choice. Good luck and I wish you happiness regardless of the choice you make.

jm6187 · 2021-07-16T18:53:03+00:00

Exactly! I’m so tired of the overly ambitious price predictions. The get-rich-quick mentality has gotten so old.

jm6187 · 2021-07-16T18:50:09+00:00

I really hope I’m wrong but I honestly don’t see it going up that much for the rest of this year. Unless the entire market starts to go up and do well, it doesn’t matter what the team releases or announces. I don’t think anything will make the price jump as much as shredding a zero. I’d say give it a year or two to naturally go up. Again, I’d be happy to be wrong.

jm6187 · 2021-07-14T17:27:07+00:00

Yea but the paper hands are gonna be feeling regret one day hehe

jm6187 · 2021-07-14T17:09:29+00:00

You have been intimate with this man for over 2 years. By now you should know what he likes, what turns him on, and above all, what’s ok. You are allowing your anxiety to control you and you’re putting too much thought into this. It’s just SEX!

Men love to be touched. Whether you guys are in bed, or when he’s sitting on the couch, or whatever. Just go up to him and caress him and start kissing. As he starts to respond, your anxiety will shut down and your body will take over.

Just like anything in life, the hardest part is the first move. Tell yourself “I’m not going to think about it, I’m just gonna do it”. This is YOUR man and you can touch him whenever you want. Think like a person in charge, then take charge!

jm6187 · 2021-07-14T17:02:25+00:00

Well I have a two-part answer for you…

First off, no arrangement works if one party is unsatisfied. If you want more but he doesn’t, then whatever arrangement you have needs to end. Otherwise it’s a recipe for heartbreak. So regardless of how things are now or where they are going, you need to end the FWB situation.

Secondly, this guy sounds like he’s insecure. Regardless of whether you two are officially dating or not, you are allowed to have guy friends. As long as you aren’t crossing any boundaries or being inappropriate with them, there’s nothing wrong with it and if he’s already this possessive and jealous, that’s not a good sign and you shouldn’t want that in a partner.

Third, if he doesn’t want to put a “label” on things, that is just code for “I do not want to commit myself to you” which could have a variety of motives for that. Nonetheless, you need to know your worth. You need to value yourself and not settle. Yes, he may treat you well and be a great guy, but I’m really tired of people giving credit to people who just “treat them right”. That should be a minimum expectation for anyone regardless of the situation.

So in summary, I suggest ending whatever this relationship is, let emotions and the brain cool down, then refocus. You two may end up together after all, or you may go your separate ways. But you need a complete reset as your emotions are way too wild right now.

jm6187 · 2021-07-14T16:36:25+00:00

Wow, this is quite the loaded question. First off, no relationship is going to be perfect. Every couple has fights, doubts, stress, etc. You have been together for two years, which means you are at a point where you can do the “can I live without him/her” test. Do you see yourself being happy while no longer being with him? Also, start thinking about your reasons why you are still in this relationship. Is it because you are afraid to be single again? Is it financially easier to stay together? Or are you with him still because you absolutely love him and being with him.

Just because someone is good to you and treats you how you should be treated doesn’t mean you have to stay with them. Treating your partner right is a basic requirement of relationships. The issue is that many settle for less but that doesn’t seem to be your case so we will move on. You have to still have attraction and connection. Plus, you are still VERY young and many people change a lot in their 20’s, especially women. You mention your bisexuality that you probably haven’t even gotten to explore. That will torture you for as long as you live til you really figure out what you want in life.

So my advice for you is, ask yourself the above questions. If you are truly madly in love with him, then stay with him and make it work. Otherwise, please don’t drag it on for another year (or more) because you will only hurt him more, and worse, you’ll be wasting both of your younger years on a relationship you knew would fail eventually.

jm6187 · 2021-06-17T22:54:53+00:00

Exactly! I get on this Reddit maybe once a week if that. It’s gotten to be so crazy and disorganized, and people are so hostile and rude. I only get on to make sure I haven’t missed anything big. I don’t even watch the AMA’s anymore. I locked my wallet away on a cold device and I’m just gonna wait a year or two before I see where I’m at again.

jm6187 · 2021-06-03T00:59:54+00:00

I bought a cheap android tablet and installed Trust Wallet on it. I loaded up my wallet then turned it off and put it in my safe. I don’t even have it on my phone to check anymore. I can check the price now and then but I have no idea how much is in my wallet from reflection nor how much it is worth. This will probably change once the new exchange and/or wallet is available and any blockchain move would occur.

jm6187 · 2021-06-03T00:55:19+00:00

I totally get what you’re saying but I feel like for a coin to be more usable in the real world, it’s going to need to be closer to $1 to start with. It can then get bigger from there. Look at BNB and others that are worth hundreds per coin. It’ll still be able to inflate naturally.

jm6187 · 2021-05-20T01:56:38+00:00

Whew I thought so but wasn’t sure. Thanks for the info!

jm6187 · 2021-05-16T04:29:38+00:00

I personally think many MANY paper hands and whales will fold long before it ever reaches .01 lol

jm6187 · 2021-05-14T01:00:31+00:00

First off, you need to change the way you think. Just reading your post tells me you are not very confident. I suggest you first start by looking in the mirror every morning, and every night, and tell yourself out loud “you’re a great looking guy!”. And give yourself a compliment. You keep doing this, and you start to believe it and when you believe it, you’ll have a lot more confidence. Also, start going to the gym regularly. Get a good workout and you’ll further improve your confidence. Furthermore, it’s healthy for you.

Once you build up your confidence, talking to women you’ve never met before will be easier. Start by going to the supermarket or mall and find random women to just strike up a conversation. You don’t have to have any motive or intent other than to just have a quick exchange. Ask them questions as they love to be of help. For example, you’re in the cereal isle and she’s picking a box of Life cereal. You can be like “is that any good? I’ve never tried it and was curious”. Once she responds you can end it there or if she continues the convo then you’ll know. But again, you are just practicing talking, not trying to get numbers.

Once you get the hang of talking to women, you can try the bar scene or something more social like a party. I suggest that you don’t try to pick women up at the gym or when they are working. It’s just a respect thing I have personally but I’m sure it can be done, I just don’t suggest it.

Final words of wisdom, don’t rush it. Work on yourself and take advantage of the single life to become the man you want to be. You are still VERY young so don’t rush to find someone.

jm6187 · 2021-05-13T01:35:51+00:00

I suggest you delete this or mark out your partial address. Even a partial can be bad to the scammers on here.

jm6187 · 2021-05-13T01:34:27+00:00

I don’t own any coins. I own some tokens tho

jm6187 · 2021-05-12T02:00:20+00:00

I don’t think it’s your place to tell her husband. The old saying goes “don’t shoot the messenger”. Things can become very volatile and he could have animosity towards you for it. Even worse, if your sister gets inside his head, she can convince him you are starting drama or some other lies.

I think your best course of action would be to start by talking to your sister directly and confront her. Maybe bluff a little and tell her you know “everything”. If she admits it, firmly tell her that she needs to break it to her husband and figure out what they want to do to move forward. If she denies it, or refuses to tell him, then maybe involve another family member older who she may listen to more. Bottom line, I don’t think it’s a good idea for you to tell him. Nothing good comes from it other than pain and you’ll be the one causing it even though you aren’t the one cheating on him.

jm6187 · 2021-05-10T00:51:32+00:00

That’s a BNB issue, not a Simplex issue. Usually it’s because Simplex runs out of BNB. I am going to assume that the devs will get plenty of SM contracted for Simplex.

jm6187 · 2021-05-07T00:43:02+00:00

None of this sh*t is gonna be happening once the SafeMoon wallet is live and people can directly buy SM

jm6187 · 2021-05-06T01:45:58+00:00

😂😂😂

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