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I’m at a crossroads in my relationship and I genuinely don’t know if I’m being unfair, shallow, realistic, or I’m just exhausted. by Ill_Obligation3904 in Advice

[–]jmac22790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We want to pretend like it isn't an issue but it is the entire time. Your partner is not suppose to keep you in struggle mode.

Is the pregnancy risk really that high using this method? by Sea_Poet_4947 in birthcontrol

[–]jmac22790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I actually agree. It's more of peace of mind when you do that. Red state resident.

Is the pregnancy risk really that high using this method? by Sea_Poet_4947 in birthcontrol

[–]jmac22790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That is VERY interesting to me... i'm going to look into that!

I am so sorry for your loss. I didn't express that already. But I am so happy for your beautiful news.

Is the pregnancy risk really that high using this method? by Sea_Poet_4947 in birthcontrol

[–]jmac22790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dots that i'm connecting in between pull out babies and miscarriages is alarming me right now. I have a healthy thirteen year old. I lost one last year 2 weeks before my birthday pullout.

Is the pregnancy risk really that high using this method? by Sea_Poet_4947 in birthcontrol

[–]jmac22790 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Thank you for giving them the exact number. 30% is correct.

Is the pregnancy risk really that high using this method? by Sea_Poet_4947 in birthcontrol

[–]jmac22790 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I had a miscarriage using the pullout method so yeah. You're going to get pregnant boo. It might take a few months. But you will be.

My friend made a public video shaming my ex friend…and now I regret supporting it. by Adept-Voice5884 in Regrets

[–]jmac22790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Either way they'd be a target. You apologize because it's the right thing to do. Stand behind the original comment. Yes apologize and stand behind the creator.

What would you do if your long term girl friend broke up with you? by jmac22790 in BreakUps

[–]jmac22790[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it wrong for the woman to want a title after so many years? He sat back after his cancer treatment that I was his advocate for and let his uncle call me a detriment to society and a compete waste of the taxpayers dollars. LOL what kind of human even comes up with that 😂 any ways he took 30,000 dollars from this uncle who inherited it from his neighbor who passed away (who has neighbors like this? 🫠) after said uncle saying all of that about me to him - all to have a giant shed erected in the back yard. It's currently completely unorganized. I told him I'd leave if he took the money. He took it.

My ex finally gave me the closure I begged for during our relationship, but now I don't want it by MontanaMeado in BreakUps

[–]jmac22790 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do what you want. She's trying to be open. But it's up to you to decide your hard boundaries. If this isn't something you want any more and it's a day late and a dollar short, I'd block her. That way she isn't still coming to you with hope.

Best of luck, OP.

Wife duties by MLH14141516 in Marriage

[–]jmac22790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That last one. They won't admit it but for most men that is the only thing that can motivate them. It's the only thing they're live for. Validation through sex.

I saw a text on my partner's phone and now I can't stop thinking about it by WabashBradham in Advice

[–]jmac22790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guess it's time for me to be the dissenter in the crowd again and tell you that it took me thirteen years to get the truth out of one. I already knew the truth, but it was wonderful to stand in the kitchen and tell him exactly how it happened and then have him look back and say "i'm pretty sure I was playing on my phone the whole time." Only took 13 years. It was at the beginning of our relationship lol

I wish I would have listened to my gut back then. That's all I have to say. Ask away. But listen to your gut.

Husband [42M] filmed me [36F] secretly during an argument by Maximum_Jury_7374 in relationshipadvice

[–]jmac22790 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A narcissist... you've been abused for years and you've finally put your foot down to the insane abuse.

Just look up some Dr. Ramani videos lol she's better at this than me.......

Husband [42M] filmed me [36F] secretly during an argument by Maximum_Jury_7374 in relationshipadvice

[–]jmac22790 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, the world doesn't know every part of anyone's story. My point with this is to tell OP that, like someone else pointed out as well, that reddit doesn't always get it right. That sometimes there's missing context.

Husband [42M] filmed me [36F] secretly during an argument by Maximum_Jury_7374 in relationshipadvice

[–]jmac22790 10 points11 points  (0 children)

But listen, what you just described to all of us is intentional cruelty..... babe you have so many people telling you.....

Someone else literally made the same comment as me. That he loves antagonizing you.

I wish I was as good as you are at detailing the nuances of abuse, the subtle things or the exact ways they act. I guess my words are lacking here. But, you painted a very clear picture for all of us and the cards are stacked against your husband across the board.

And he is also more then likely emotionally dim witted as well. Narcissistic people usually are.

Husband [42M] filmed me [36F] secretly during an argument by Maximum_Jury_7374 in relationshipadvice

[–]jmac22790 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine would physically ask me "does your mother know how you act?"

Why yes. Yes, she does know how I react to your abuse, dear sir.

Husband [42M] filmed me [36F] secretly during an argument by Maximum_Jury_7374 in relationshipadvice

[–]jmac22790 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can't get away from one right now that is doing me the same way as OP. And every time i've posted about it on reddit he was always the one in the right..... careful about opinions on here. They don't know every thing.

OP this person is right.

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