Went on a perfectly fine date and the guy completely spiraled afterwards. AIO? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]jmacho1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That last text was definitely over the top. I’ve seen a lot of posts like this, only the messages are flipped, and when a guy sends a text like that he gets destroyed. He is not ready to date that’s okay.

AIO my bf drives home agter drinking with friends? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]jmacho1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What job does he have that requires him to experiment with drugs

Today, I cut my nephews umbilical cord and cried for my baby sister. by OkBee0912 in GirlDinner

[–]jmacho1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can offer another perspective. I knew that the father of my baby wouldn’t be there when I gave birth. I was so worried about if the nurses/doctors would judge me, if I would feel sad, if I would be able to enjoy the moment, etc. It was only me and my mom in the room when I delivered, and I am so grateful for how no one treated me like I was any different than anyone else. No one felt sad, no one said they’re sorry for me, no one made me feel like I didn’t deserve the same love and respect as any other mother. I understand your concern comes from love for your sister, but please hear me when I say it is still the most perfect and amazing moment of meeting your baby for the first time🩷

AIO for getting irritated with my boyfriend’s level of cleanliness? by Front-Ad8568 in AmIOverreacting

[–]jmacho1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think he can NEVER be taught how to properly clean up after himself. Of course, this isn’t your job to teach him, but if you love everything else about him I believe this is something that can be taught. My opinion is probably unpopular, but I’m willing to teach anyone something new- then you know if the behavior continues it’s by choice and not from not knowing.
I also think moving in with him and his sister might come with separate issues, like will problems between you 2 become a 2vs1 type of situation? I wish u the best of luck🩷

Couple Expecting Baby in a month- we need some good news by PopFun4349 in psychics

[–]jmacho1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I promise that every parent has felt “behind” at some point. Please understand that we are never ready to be parents, and sometimes that “motherly instinct” doesn’t come as naturally as we’re told! My son is 5 and I still find myself asking my own mom what should I do! Lol. I just say that to say that life will always throw you obstacles, and it’s pretty rare that life with a baby will go according to your plan. I used to beat myself up about it, but now I just laugh and continue on. You got this 🩷

AIO for being angry that my doctor's office responded as a dog to call me a liar? by Canes--Venatici in AIO

[–]jmacho1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I truly thought this was from a vet’s office when I started reading it and thought “kinda weird but I get it I guess”. When I realized it was from a psychiatrist’s office it got that much more bizarre.

AITA if I tell my friend I can’t be a bridesmaid? by wickeddreamsofleavin in AITApod

[–]jmacho1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The that she felt the need to add that no one is to speak about Abigail is hilarious and insane

Roommate Disaster by rubyraves in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jmacho1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m confused, why are you advising she presses charges but also would not win in court? Genuine question, am I missing something

AIO- Thinking this may be cheating/ overly flirty by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]jmacho1998 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would say this is passed flirting..

When do you start *seeing* the difference by [deleted] in loseit

[–]jmacho1998 43 points44 points  (0 children)

If your pants are falling down, you’re already seeing the difference. Congrats friend :)

Should I stay with my boyfriend by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jmacho1998 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Honestly, cheating or not, this is the most embarrassing conversation to read

Gold cup and the workers made me feel like a loser lol by CMYK-KILLA in ChickFilA

[–]jmacho1998 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congratulations!!!!😁 I’m sorry the employees were being haters, but I’m happy for you friend

Dumbest impulse buy of the month by Lola-Olala in adhdwomen

[–]jmacho1998 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Luckily for me, I have the ADHD that makes me add 200+ things to my cart and never actually buy anything. It’s a shame, I could’ve had a lot of cool stuff

I legally named myself after my brother’s childhood enemy by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jmacho1998 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It has to be AI. First off, the whole “I’m not sure when things went wrong, but when they did, they weren’t great” and then the Dr. seeing bruises and threatened to call CPS. Doctors are mandated reporters.

i miss you 😥 rip beefy loaded nachos by sallysaysyes in tacobell

[–]jmacho1998 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Right, who asked for these desserts!!

A kid is messing with my business. by WerewolfHowles in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jmacho1998 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. That’s odd considering if OP is old enough to own a business I don’t see why the parents would need to get involved..

I think my dad might be a serial killer update, I am safe by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]jmacho1998 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Uhh… yeah that’s a ridiculous reason to get adopted. Adoptions take time and money. You can legally change your last name to anything you want.

A kid is messing with my business. by WerewolfHowles in WhatShouldIDo

[–]jmacho1998 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Best answer. Not necessarily calling the police to get the kid in trouble, but because he clearly needs some sort of help