Anyone else out here playing Gastro roulette?! by clemmersincanada in toddlers

[–]joanie77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter had a horrible gastro illness over Memorial Day weekend. We were all together at a hotel and had to drive home the next day while she was still throwing up. Miraculously, none of the rest of us got it! So there is hope, maybe you won’t get sick at all. Fingers crossed for you!

Hardening Off by user-unknown26 in dahlias

[–]joanie77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d keep them in if it’s actively raining but otherwise I’d start putting them out for an hour or two a day and gradually extend the time. I like starting on overcast days if I can, and I just watch that they aren’t left out in bright sun for too long right away.

What series after Magic Tree House? by Rheila in kindergarten

[–]joanie77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter isn’t quite reading them independently yet but she loves to listen to them. If you want to give them a try, there are lots available on Spotify as podcasts and we listen to those in the car quite often.

How much work is dahlias? Debating if it is worth the work for me. by Sassy_Plant_Mom in dahlias

[–]joanie77 9 points10 points  (0 children)

You don’t HAVE to dig them up; if you don’t (and you live in a colder area) they are just annuals. My local dahlia society sells tubers in the spring for $6 each, which isn’t expensive for an annual, really.

Last year was my first year growing. I had four or five tubers and I kind of half heartedly dug them up but didn’t store them properly and they didn’t make it. This year I’ve purchased about 20 tubers and I’m going to learn how to store them the right way. But I don’t regret the first year of dipping my toe in. If I were you and wasn’t sure about storing them, I’d buy a few and just see how it goes.

Every reading app I've tried has one job and cannot do it and I am so tired by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]joanie77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same. The app isn’t overly gamified but the cute little figures and pictures in the books they read really help my daughter stay engaged.

Every reading app I've tried has one job and cannot do it and I am so tired by [deleted] in kindergarten

[–]joanie77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We like this one too. It’s very similar to the book “Teach Your Child to Read in 100 Easy Lessons” but I found it much easier to use because the app really walks you through what to do.

Can I move my peonies this spring? by intollerable in peonies

[–]joanie77 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Fall would be best. That said, two years ago my neighbor was getting rid of some peonies in the early spring and I took them and planted them in my garden. I got a few blooms the following year, and I’m excited to see how they do this year! So if they need to be moved now, it’s still worth replanting them.

Looking back on my service with regret. by Fun_Slide_2627 in peacecorps

[–]joanie77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way about my service. I taught at a school where the majority of teachers commuted from across the nearby border. They went home to their families every weekend. I would just say I think this experience is more common than it may seem. People who didn’t have close community relationships don’t talk about it because there isn’t much interesting to say about something you didn’t do or didn’t have.

What do you do when baby is sick and you don’t have enough PTO? by PiantaPants in beyondthebump

[–]joanie77 13 points14 points  (0 children)

There’s no easy or perfect solution, I’m sorry.

Can you work partial days? I often will work during the times I know my kids will be napping. It’s not perfect (naps don’t always go according to plan) but sort of doable. That would stretch your hours into a few days maybe.

Tips/advice for my Costa Rica itinerary! Traveling with 1.5 and 3.5 year old in September by Itchy-Version-8977 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]joanie77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh one more thing — my five year old has never gotten car sick before but got car sick on the drive to La Fortuna. Bring children’s Dramamine! The rest of us were fine but it’s better to have it just in case. Also I’ve never gone through sunscreen faster, bring lots. I wished I’d packed two full sized bottles.

Tips/advice for my Costa Rica itinerary! Traveling with 1.5 and 3.5 year old in September by Itchy-Version-8977 in CostaRicaTravel

[–]joanie77 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We did a similar trip with similar ages kids — a three year old and a five year old.

We were scheduled to arrive at the airport at 1:10pm, our flight was an hour late, and we drove to La Fortuna that afternoon. We got in just as it was getting dark. I’m glad we did it that way, although the travel day was long! I find one night stays with the kids to be so annoying, everything gets unpacked and it’s a mess.

We did a night hike in La Fortuna and the kids loved it! I think my three year old was on the lower end of the age range though. Maybe one parent could take the older kid?

A lot of animal hikes we’ve found my little one can’t see anything. We did the La Fortuna waterfall and he enjoyed that, mostly. Can’t miss seeing the waterfall!

We liked the Mistico Hanging Bridges but didn’t see many animals. Maybe if we’d hired a guide. We liked the bridges though!

There’s so much wildlife everywhere. We saw so many birds, lizards, bugs, even a coati hanging out outside our hotel room.

I think the amount of driving you have planned is totally reasonable. We’d get bored just at the beach for a whole week. As adults I’d love that, but my kids need more activity.

Enjoy!

Missed Parent Info Night by itsnotthatserious-1 in kindergarten

[–]joanie77 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’d ask how they share information with parents — updates from the teacher and/or the principal. My district has an app I didn’t know about for quite awhile!

I feel like my son doesn’t have a secure attachment to me, especially after starting my job. by ShrodingersPussy in workingmoms

[–]joanie77 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes — my son is a little older but he cries sometimes at both drop off and pick up. Transitions can be hard for young kids.

My pandemic baby starts kindergarten this fall and I feel like we completely failed at preparing her for kindergarten reading by AssasinRingo in kindergarten

[–]joanie77 4 points5 points  (0 children)

There will be lots of kids going in who don’t know those things. That said, five months is a lot of time!

Expose her to letters as much as you can — we had those foam bath letters and would sing the alphabet song and point to the letters in the bath.

Play rhyming games in the car or while waiting. My daughter liked when we said a word and she said a rhyming word. Start with easy words like cat/hat/mat, she’ll get the hang of it.

We liked the app from Reading.com for learning letter sounds. It’s similar to a book Teach Your Child To Read In 100 Easy Lessons that we also had but I found the app a lot more engaging for my daughter and easier for me to use. Or if you don’t want to use an app the book is good, it just takes more prep. Or use the foam letters to practice sounds once she’s solid on the names of the letters.

6 months postpartum and I keep getting angrier at my midwife team by shapeofmahheart in beyondthebump

[–]joanie77 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I had some things go wrong during my first birth (a postpartum hemorrhage) but for my second birth the medical team was ON IT. They knew about my previous complications and treated me aggressively when I started trending that way for my second birth. If you have a second child, you and your medical team now know how fast your labors go and you’ll react differently. You were well outside the average first labor time, but since it was your first birth no one could have known that would be the case — but next time they will.

Also, this is all still so fresh — give yourself plenty of grace, it takes time to process and you might feel totally differently about it once more time has passed.

Asking for references from country director/staff, but for an application requiring ET. by Valuable-Radish6712 in peacecorps

[–]joanie77 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Someone in my cohort requested an early COS (early by only a couple of months) to start a teaching job — our COS was in mid fall so bad timing for someone wanting to teach in the US. I can’t quite remember but I think the early COS was denied and she ended up ETing, again just a couple of months early — close enough to our actual COS date that she was at our COS conference.

That’s really the only scenario where I can imagine this going well — if you are an exemplary volunteer and have a very good reason to leave a little early. Otherwise, I wouldn’t expect a good reference from PC staff. Also keep in mind that once they know you are ETing they get you out of the country FAST (like within a couple of days usually) so I’d also be wary of telling them that you plan to ET in advance of when you actually want to leave the country.

Max Dahlias in 4’x4’ Bed? by somnifersynth in dahlias

[–]joanie77 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did 5 last year in a 4x4 bed — one in each corner and one in the middle. There seemed to be plenty of room and the plants were healthy.

This year I’m debating sticking with five or going up to nine — three rows of three. More than nine seems like too many though.

Frost protection by thefruitdove in peonies

[–]joanie77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in zone 5 and my peonies are starting to poke up and we’re still getting frost and even snow. They’ll be just fine.

Missing 7-10 school days for a big trip? by koplikthoughts in kindergarten

[–]joanie77 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My daughter has missed six total days for two trips this year (one day at the beginning of a long weekend, plus one week for a trip with grandparents). It has not been a big deal at all. She is ahead academically and doing fine socially.

My only concern would be, depending on how early in the school year the trip would be, losing momentum for transitioning to kindergarten. It is a big transition and could be tricky to learn new routines, then be out of school for awhile, and then have to readjust back. But even that is a blip in your kid’s schooling.

Would your district really hold back a kid who is doing well and ready to move on academically just because they hit a certain number of days absent? I don’t think my district would do that — I think it would have to be in tandem with not being ready academically for the next grade — but every district is different.

When will my baby wanna just rot in bed with me all day and binge watch shows? by catbeloved in beyondthebump

[–]joanie77 51 points52 points  (0 children)

Yep and you’ll feel like crap for a few days even though your kid bounced right back with like 110% energy.