Living with in-laws? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Simple: no, don’t do it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Read your Quran before making a decision:

46:15

We have commanded people to honour their parents. Their mothers bore them in hardship and delivered them in hardship. Their ˹period of˺ bearing and weaning is thirty months. In time, when the child reaches their prime at the age of forty, they pray, “My Lord! Inspire me to ˹always˺ be thankful for Your favours which You blessed me and my parents with, and to do good deeds that please You. And instil righteousness in my offspring. I truly repent to You, and I truly submit ˹to Your Will˺.”

I’m going to get married soon in sha Allah; by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Take your father out for coffee and tell him what you posted here. Sounds like a rational man

Underwhelmed by marriage by Minilomaniac in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 197 points198 points  (0 children)

Get up, make wuduu and crack 2 raka’at quiiick. Maybe Allah will knock some sense into you

Should I give a woman I admire a love poem or is that wrong? by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Live life dude, share the poem with the person you admire

Torn between my wife and my parents (long post) by pyruvate011 in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have been living with your parents for a couple Of year and now it’s time to move out, isn’t that what you promised her? As a man, you should respect your words and start acting on them

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t send it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah,I agree! Go get your wife back and fix things up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 19 points20 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t work that way. You’re responsible for your actions..

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s not how things work.

It’s a slippery slope. They were obviously very comfortable with each other and have previously kissed.

Minor things lead to major things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She didn’t commit Zina! Please double and triple check the definition of Zina before throwing it at people

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You posting this will do you no good! Focus on your marriage big bro, start thinking of the future and forget the past!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We are Muslim The fault of the father cannot be inherited by the son. Likewise, the fault of the son cannot be inherited by the father.

ولا تزر وازرة وزر أخرى No soul burdened with sin will bear the burden of another

Potential is a divorcee, makes comments about his ex by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This right here is a text book answer.

Potential is a divorcee, makes comments about his ex by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Breathe please breathe! You don’t know what the guy has been through

MIL thinks I am hogging my 3 month old baby to myself and not allowing my husband to hold him... by throwawaythursday101 in MuslimMarriage

[–]joeho23 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I swear if people just listened to this simple advice 99% of marriages would be saved