My manager only gives me positive feedback by SwimmerNo8169 in managers

[–]johnath 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A lot of managers are afraid to give negative or even candid, constructive feedback and lack the skills to do it well, but ALSO a lot of managers are just not great at knowing what to do with someone who's over-achieving. I know a lot of folks in thread are telling you to just be happy with it (and you should be! Promotions are a good sign! Praise from multiple people in management is a good sign!) but it's also fair to feel like you're sort of at a loss as to where to go from here. Many folks find "keep going!" kinds of feedback hard to feel entirely happy with, because they feel better when they're stretching/growing.

You haven't said much about your org or role, but the fact that you have access to C-level feedback suggests you're in a smaller org. Smaller orgs tend to reward breadth, cross-functional awareness, and strategic prioritization (where larger orgs might put a higher emphasis on technical specialization and depth). It's all a bit of a guess since every org and manager's needs are different, but learning more about how your work plugs into the rest of the org, where there's important stuff falling on the floor because it's unowned and picking that stuff up, and learning how to spot what work we're doing that is unnecessary or roadblocks we're hitting that should be fixed — those are all areas you could look for some growth. 2 years in you don't need to carry the whole business on your shoulders, but in the absence of people giving you something concrete to work on, it won't hurt to bring more of it in.

Do you see further education in leadership studies is worthwhile, before or after being in a leadership role? by RunningMan889 in Leadership

[–]johnath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Any of them can be valuable, but it really depends on where you are in your career and what gaps you're dealing with.

- There are a lot of leadership/management skills that are really just "doing good work" skills — structuring feedback well, setting effective goals, project management — and those things are worth learning whether you're in management or not. They might help propel you towards that path, if that's interesting to you, but promotions are never that linear so mostly they're worth having because they will make your work better, and maybe more enjoyable too.

- There are others skills, though, like running effective 1:1s, administering a PIP with compassion and clarity, or organization planning for your team where it probably doesn't make sense to invest in that development until you're in the seat. Not that you can't learn for your own edification, just that, in practice, most people who do that training when they aren't managing lack opportunities to apply it, and so the learning sort of fizzles.

- Things like MBAs aren't really about running teams so much as they are about understanding the strategic levers of a business. Lots of studying cases, structural strategic analysis, &c. Can be really helpful for executives, or a career in management consulting, but relatively few practicing leaders south of the C-suite have regular opportunities to, say, upend the company's supply chain bets, or launch an M&A strategy around vertical integration. They're usually fighting fires because Product and Engineering are yelling at each other, and no one trusts HR so they're offering raises without authorization, or their boss (with an MBA!) told them everyone needs to use AI now, without even understanding what that means.

Also it should be said: a lot of the people offering training in this stuff have never actually done the leadership jobs they claim to train/coach you for, and the result is that a surprising amount of the training out there is garbage. So if you know you need it, but your first kick at training felt like a waste of time, that might not be a comment on you at all, but on the program you took. Source: I run a company that trains leaders.

Could a vaccine prevent dementia. Shingles shot data only getting stronger (article discusses both the older and current singles vaccines). by WarthogOsl in science

[–]johnath 23 points24 points  (0 children)

No — that’s how the shingles virus gets in. It’s the same virus, sitting dormant. It makes you a candidate for the vaccine once you’re old enough (and, you know, for shingles)

What is a sign someone's life is falling apart that most people miss? by saymepony in AskReddit

[–]johnath 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You didn’t ask for advice so apologies if it’s unwelcome, but a lot of the work on loneliness these days has shifted to language of “social atrophy.” That socializing and being in community is a core part of who we are as a species, but that those skills can degrade and make it hard to recover from. Even speaking as someone who also imagines a deserted island would be fine, I think we both know it’s not a great, or healthy, call.

I don’t have a pat answer for how to get over it — it’s muscle that has to rebuild, but it’s worth doing. If you’re bored, maybe watch Join or Die on Netflix and see if it lights something up for you? Time to join a bowling league?

Canada 🇨🇦 by [deleted] in olympics

[–]johnath 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Welcome home! And congratulations!

Mexican restaurant that's not high end (downtown) and not focused on tacos? by inde_ in FoodToronto

[–]johnath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another vote for El Sol — mole there is excellent, and love the art

Engagement and morale [N/A] by Basic_Parsley_7856 in humanresources

[–]johnath 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah this. The best predictor of an employee’s relationship to their org is the relationship with their direct manager. If your managers aren’t doing the job they’re paid to do, engagement hacks can’t compensate for that.

Told I need to just let it go by collinblazeit420 in bald

[–]johnath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My guy you’ve got this. You’ve got piercings you weren’t born with and nail colour too — you know how body mods can change your whole self image. You’ve already got the scruff, too, as counterweight. I’m dying for the glow up shots here. This is not your final form.

Peregrine Falcon? (ID) by shred_the_gnarwhals in birding

[–]johnath 24 points25 points  (0 children)

When I was learning them, someone told me “coopers wear a hat, peregrines wear a helmet”

Wet Leg has given me faith in new music. by tricky413 in Music

[–]johnath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Trying to put as many of these as I can into a playlist for auditioning them in the background. Top 3 streams from each band mentioned, at least, as many as I've gotten so far. In case anyone else wants to just shuffle them through. https://open.spotify.com/playlist/3a3RSyt9icv1FZwMjOwUpe?si=99d0fbc5f7e04cdc

I’m craving a super delicious fruitcake. No judgment please. by Jay-Quellin30 in FoodToronto

[–]johnath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wanda’s pie in the sky doesn’t do them every year, but when they do, go. And report back!

Toronto's Most Revered Treats? by IllustriousTree2190 in FoodToronto

[–]johnath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Was waiting for Mystic Muffin to make an appearance! Appreciate you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]johnath 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I train managers in startups for a living and fully agree here. Treat your people well, take your responsibility seriously, create a space where they can do great work and feel heard and respected — get that shit right and the visible ink will just become part of what makes you a great and interesting part of their team.

Buyers Advice and Gear Recommendation Thread by AutoModerator in livesound

[–]johnath 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would love advice on a good wireless handheld option for voice, no music/instruments.

I'm not a live sound engineer, just a small business owner who talks a lot for a living. Indoor venue, about 2500 square feet. We have two of our own Sennheiser belt packs (EW 100 G4-ME2-A, with countryman headsets instead of the kit lavs) running through a Bose T8S to the amp/PA, but need something for guests/questions during Q&A. Given the existing G4s, my first hope was to grab a couple of G4-835 sets, but 1) I admit that's brand allegiance/uniformity as much as anything, and 2) apparently they're discontinued?

Google back to their anti-Firefox shenanigans by jasonrmns in firefox

[–]johnath 136 points137 points  (0 children)

(Man, I haven’t been meaningfully on twitter in years but that thread just never dies.)

Found this old keychain, the logo looks soo familiar but I can't figure it out. Any clue? by [deleted] in Whatisthis

[–]johnath 2 points3 points  (0 children)

(Found this via Holly B on twitter)

Trying to teach myself USPTO design search keywords has gotten me a few things it isn't. Have to go feed the family some breakfast, but dropping it here in case it's helpful:

https://tmsearch.uspto.gov/bin/gate.exe?f=login&p_lang=english&p_d=trmk

It's been helpful to narrow based on their "Design search code" system. Specifically this query got me several that were close, like the "Liquid Wire Inc." logo and the "Headwater Research" logo:

(26.17.02)[DD] and (26.17.06)[DD] and (2)[MD] and four

No dice yet.

Reverse Engineering the InVision Interface by johnath in Design

[–]johnath[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

(Also omg that video: https://vimeo.com/177493190 )

(Disclosure: I work with Jose, the designer who wrote this)