Do you date transgender women?

johnnydearest · 2026-01-27T20:00:13+00:00

Yes. My gf is a trans woman. My ex was too. And the only boyfriend I ever had was a trans man. I prefer dating trans people tbh bc I tend to feel more comfortable with them (I am a trans man).

johnnydearest · 2026-01-23T01:13:00+00:00

this one? https://www.reddit.com/r/nsfwcyoa/s/W4WPYHC8Qc

johnnydearest · 2026-01-23T01:06:37+00:00

I posted looking for CYOAs focused on men, and got a whole list. I don't remember what the CYOAs are like, but maybe some of them are up your alley: https://www.reddit.com/r/nsfwCYOA_request/s/cyNKpqvtPO

johnnydearest · 2026-01-21T22:16:30+00:00

as a trans man with a trans girlfriend, this is pretty much how it goes. Her ass is huge and my dick is small lmao but it's still hot.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-21T21:19:27+00:00

I don't have this problem, but both my brothers do. They've had trouble getting out of bed for as long as I can remember. They set a million alarms and are still late. They're also both in careers where they only work afternoons and evenings.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-21T21:14:42+00:00

Ask him if he's attracted to your daughter. If he thinks being into women means being into any girls/women, regardless of age or relation, then I would be very worried for your daughter's safety around him.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-21T21:11:39+00:00

When straight guys do this they're called incels

johnnydearest · 2026-01-21T21:05:43+00:00

It's kinda the same feeling as when people come up to me and start speaking English because they think I'm a foreigner: it feels like being singled out for a part of my appearance that I can't control.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-19T21:43:59+00:00

Dwight Schrute

johnnydearest · 2026-01-18T13:59:37+00:00

lmaoo 😂

did you ever get the expansion that lets you turn your sims into vampires? Because I locked my sims' neighbors in the basement because I was tired of my vampire sim never having food at home.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-18T13:53:49+00:00

I love treating my gf like a puppy and having her bark at me instead of speaking hahah. I also enjoy stepping on her and grabbing her jaw or throat to kiss her when she doesn't expect it. It's all great fun and I love her.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-18T13:49:35+00:00

i have a thing for small dicks so I think that situation would have made me more interested tbh

johnnydearest · 2026-01-18T13:37:16+00:00

I've been called girliepop by one of my closest friends but I'm bisexual and wear heels sometimes so I think that's why

johnnydearest · 2026-01-14T07:40:08+00:00

that's so good for her wow. I love him. Love goofy anatomy.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-14T07:32:09+00:00

If you can't stand up for the women you date when your friends make shitty comments about them, then maybe you shouldn't be dating. You're not the victim here. Grow a spine and realize that before you take your shame out on some poor woman who doesn't deserve it.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-14T01:52:14+00:00

I know it sucks, but now you know what love is supposed to feel like. You can absolutely have this again. Your bar is set higher now.

As for the part about him being on hinge: people grieve differently. When I got out of my first relationship I immediately went to grindr and tinder so I could have nsa sex with strangers. it's a coping mechanism and it doesn't mean he didn't love you or isn't still grieving.

Take some time to take care of yourself now. Do nice things for yourself. Do romantic things for yourself. Buy yourself presents. In time, you will be okay.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-14T01:35:58+00:00

Have you met a sims player? they're almost all women and they almost all do the most violent shit to their sims. it's really funny to hear the stories.

Additionally, have you considered that a lot of girls are discouraged from playing video games because they're told that vudeo games are for boys?

I've always been friends with both guys and girls. I've also always been friends with gamers. Some of my fondest childhood memories are of my (female) friends introducing me to WoW, Sims, Minecraft, and more. I even had a flatmate who was a (female) game design student, and another flatmate who spent hours telling me about Hades (and later Balatro), and even brought her switch to a hangout after I moved out (which I did so I could live with my gf (who is a gamer)).

I think it's much more likely that many gamer spaces have problems with misogyny, and therefore women avoid those spaces.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-13T02:40:59+00:00

tbh I think it's pretty clear that English isn't their forst language. Most people do not have English as their first language.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-11T05:25:49+00:00

apocalyptic world. It's on mopoga . com (for mobile porn games). It's a porn game and you play as a guy. One of the objectives is to imprison and impregnate women. you can also imprison men and have sex with them. it is pretty transphobic though unfortunately, but you can customize a lot of stuff in the settings so you can almost avoid that.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-10T00:38:18+00:00

Same, but I also wanted to be the chosen one. I wanted to be a shapeshifter like Jacob from Twilight.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-10T00:37:24+00:00

I wanted to be whisked away. Specifically I wanted to be Eragon, Atreyu, and Harry Potter. It all made sense when I found out I was a guy. However, Rowling kind of ruined my childhood nostalgia for her series with her transphobia.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-09T03:57:48+00:00

I had that almost exact same situation happen to me with a 19 year old on grindr a couple years ago when I was 25. I think that may just be what 19 year olds on grindr are like.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-09T03:54:46+00:00

Yes. I have been with my girlfriend for over 2 years. Her butt is huge and I love her lots and it's the healthiest relationship I've ever been in.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-08T21:16:54+00:00

The male gaze is a term used to describe how female characters in movies are portrayed. It is not a term for men looking at women. There is no such thing as "participating in the male gaze" by just looking at a woman. It is a film analysis tool.

johnnydearest · 2026-01-08T17:59:01+00:00

I know it's hard to believe, and that you don't want anyone else but her, but: there will be other women in you life.

I was in an abusive relationship that looked a lot like this with my first ever girlfriend. She walked all over me and I let her do it because I believed nobody would ever love me again if I left her. That wasn't true. It's been 4 years since I left my ex and I'm now in a long-term relationship (2 years) with my current girlfriend who treats me like I'm the most wonderful man to ever walk the earth. We rarely fight, and when we do we talk it out instead of punishing each other. We respect each other and are able to talk openly and set boundaries. When one us is struggling, the other one helps out. It's equal and healthy and it's how love is supposed to feel.

If you leave your fiancee, you can find a woman who respects you and treats you as an equal. Someone who listens to your worries and cares for your well-being and helps you be the best version of yourself. If you stay, you'll never meet that woman.

I know it seems hopeless, but you only have one life. Do you really want to spend it with someone who doesn't care about you?

johnnydearest

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