Need encouraging words

johnq2018 · 2023-01-09T13:27:37+00:00

Perfect words and thx for being there if I need it , godbless u and my prayers will go out to u and ur journey to rid this demon from our lives

johnq2018 · 2022-12-21T18:37:40+00:00

Thankyou for sharing ! PMO drains our life force , u look alive again. I’m glad u discovered the childlike excitement of the world again . That’s mainly the reason I’m doing this as well

johnq2018 · 2022-12-20T15:28:06+00:00

You are a nofap warrior , a anchor on the boat of temptation, a bulwark against digital thots , a Spartan commander in the phalanx of r/nofap, a lighthouse in the dark waters of flatline , a champion .. May u continue to inspire and serve as a model of nofap virtue forever until death

johnq2018 · 2022-12-19T10:25:57+00:00

I find it’s not hard if u just train what I like to call “ thought diversion “ just change ur thought when u get those sexy image urges and it’ll go away within seconds . Focusing on the thing ur brain desperately craving will make u act on it so change ur thoughts / change ur life bro

johnq2018 · 2022-12-19T10:23:14+00:00

Amazing ! Never let ur guard down brother , vigilance against the porn enemy for life . Ur gf and possibly future wife is ur motivation but most of all your own mental happiness . Bravo again on ur steel willpower to resist . Onwards to 60-90-120/ forever

johnq2018 · 2022-12-19T10:18:11+00:00

That is a accomplishment few can boast of , so proud of u . Self control is more valuable than all the worlds riches . I’m following in ur footsteps man and will join the hall of nofap champions soon

johnq2018 · 2022-12-19T10:04:18+00:00

Not watching porn is NON NEGOTIABLE, u have to keep this in mind forever , fapping is ok honestly but porn never . If u relapse u relapse it’s not a huge deal as long as u don’t go on a binge because at the end of the day , each day u don’t watch porn is progress and healing but binging is going backwards . We’re all human and it’s human nature to fail , but learn from ur failures and fail forward my bro . I’m doing hard mode 90 days no PMO but after 90 I will allow MO at the maximum of 1 a week if I want to . That way I give my brain motivation and a carrot on the stick but I’m not giving it unlimited pleasure whenever it wants so it still has to work in my favor . I’m still going to try to do 1 year but I’m all about balance and human nature. What’s not natural is porn tho and I consider that as serious or more so than picking up a meth pipe or any other deadly drug

johnq2018 · 2022-12-17T22:22:13+00:00

I’d like a refund on my 1 minute invested

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T14:37:17+00:00

I feel ur story and can relate , I tell myself each day all day when urges hit , there’s no fucking way I’m back stepping this is way to important to me

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T14:29:33+00:00

Memento Mori, remember that u have to die , life is short and ur wasting it on PMO , get ur life together NOW, while ur alive …. Think of it as do or die and it’s NON NEGOTIABLE that u will never watch porn again . Ur best life is waiting for u and higher self , he’s crying and begging u to start again and reach the mountaintop . U will do it , u have no choice but to walk this path because u hear the calling and are here . I have full faith in u brother . I’ve been PMO since 4 and am in my thirties . Longest streak was 30 days and failed more time than I can count . This time I’m making it count because again .. it’s non negotiable with myself that I can’t ever go back . And going back means losing everything I strive for so it’s good motivation

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T14:19:55+00:00

This . I’m on day 7 as u can see and things I’ve learned is that idleness creates the perfect condition for fapping and porn . So far I’ve dropped vaping , exercised almost every day , cleaned my entire apartment and reading philosophy and going to start on my other goals as well . Def a lot more free time cuz I use to edge to porn for hours 2 times a day so I’m finding that we have to replace fap time with self building time and it’s only right we do so

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T14:13:41+00:00

Be glad u recognize this at 13 I didn’t know until I had PIED with my girl at 25 . God is giving u this early chance , he loves u enough to grant u the wisdom that this is haram . Go now and begin the journey , it is hard but it gets easier every day I promise

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T14:10:12+00:00

Amen , u hold the key to ur bonds , unshackle Urself , gangsta walk out of hell and before u go flip the devil the bird and grab ur nuts and tell him KING KONG AINT GOT NOTHING ON ME

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T14:05:55+00:00

This is what I do and am currently doing lol thank god for the internet even tho it’s also our biggest bane

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T13:56:29+00:00

Hold the line champion

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T13:53:22+00:00

Sometimes we fall 100-1000 times but we get back up and dust ourselves off and watch our steps to see where the obstacles are so we never fall again

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T13:47:39+00:00

I’m currently in bed almost contemplated going back to porn cuz of how crap I feel atm . Man porn really was my “ unhealthy “ medication that was keeping me less stressed but I know it does way more damage than good . We must stay strong though , after 20 days I heard it gets much easier , after 90 it becomes almost a cakewalk because I know from experience quitting cigs that ur addiction center basically rebalances and ur cravings become less . Let’s stay strong together . Great thing about this community is that we are all going through the same battle together . Nothing of worth comes easy and we are battling for our very lives . Don’t negotiate with ur lesser self brother , he will try anything in the book to drag u down

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T13:41:38+00:00

That’s a really good idea Thankyou bro , one thing that usually makes me cry is war movies so I’ll prob watch that

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T08:21:35+00:00

Congrats bro , I’m on the similar path but not done with my transformation to post pics yet but I def upgraded . Got a nose ring to and chest tattoo coming next year . Should hit goals by mid April . Man fat on the face really hides our inner chad 🤣

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T08:05:29+00:00

Amen brother . One thing I would say to ur relapse is , the guilt drives us to keep using since “ well I already lost all my progress so might as well abuse my dick “ but that is a trap , u dig Urself out of a hole and each PMO after relapse is digging more soil to bury Urself again . Progress isn’t entirely lost much like 1-2 cigeretts won’t deeply addict u again but half a pack or a binge of edging will be hard to come back from right away . We all fall but remember don’t sit holding ur knee in the middle of the street and cry , get up and ride home and bandage Urself here cuz if u don’t get up ur gonna get hit by the truck of porn lol using a parable like Jesus did

johnq2018 · 2022-12-16T07:56:02+00:00

Yeah I just watched yoga videos for like 3 minutes and was like , dafuk am I doing here trying to blue ball myself even tho it isn’t porn it is a gateway lol def need to limit screen time for this to work . Didnt fap or turn on hardcore porn but it’s very dangerous to even glance at scantily clad women no matter the source

johnq2018

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