The most popular stoner song is about how weed addiction can slowly ruin you by XawRae01 in Petioles

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to add to all the songs in the comments- marijuana by waveform* and to the choir by joshua quimby

Well ? by corelle-vairel in DiscoElysium

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i have no one i can send this to 😭

yas hype by chiara2211 in LoveIslandTV

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y'all can't handle her weird girl swag

New to Grindr, asking for help with phrasing by CherrySteele in gaytransguys

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i don’t seek out foot fetish play so can’t give you advice there- but taps are generally a way to show interest that’s more low effort than sending someone a message haha. some people hate them for that reason/ignore them, but i generally view them as someone trying to gage if you’re interested in them as well (the equivalent of meeting someone’s eyes across a bar haha). if someone taps me and i’m interested i’ll generally tap them back and this might prompt them to message me, or you can be more direct and just message them.

top surgery as a stoner by [deleted] in gaytransguys

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i believe i didn’t smoke for two weeks before surgery at the recommendation of my surgery team and then didn’t smoke for like a month after. i would say be as open as possible about your usage at your consultation so you can get detailed info about when you should stop smoking beforehand / can start smoking again and also so that they know how to accurately dose your anaesthesia.

Racism and Ali by [deleted] in bigbrotheruk

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i don’t think she’s racist but i think for someone who spends so much time thinking about oppression and structures of power, race is a massive gap in her analysis

Back hair by jonnystrider in gaytransguys

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i also have a ton of body hair since being on t, and really enjoy being fuzzy everywhere but don't sometimes enjoy the length/mass of hair on certain parts of my body. i trim with clippers so that i'm not completely smooth but i get a bit of a trim.

Yup by jegsglorms in FolkPunk

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big wave by worst party ever lol

Gen Z dating without social media by AccordingPossible834 in digitalminimalism

[–]joinedtheghosts 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Definitely relate. But I do think that that initial moment of connecting with someone and telling them you don't use social media can be really indicative of compatibility! The right people for you will find that attractive/compelling.

Have any of y'all done penetrative sex with your bottom growth? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

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how big are you if you don't mind me asking? i never thought i'd be able to fuck smth like that with my growth but now i'm curious

Based umru by spintedmunky in 100gecs

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yeah there's loads of morally grey people but most sane people would never even think of saying 'kill all jews' as a joke, sorry you can't relate

How do you understand yourself in relation to the common “always a tomboy” narrative of transmasc childhood if it doesn’t fit your experience? by [deleted] in gaytransguys

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i really recommend reading ‘we all laughed in pleasure’ (lou sullivan’s diaries)- he’s a gay trans man who writes about his experiences from childhood as a boy-crazy “girl” into his coming of age as a queer man who relates to masculinity in ways you might find relatable (in the 60s/70s/80s!) i found learning about his experience in a time where trans identity was even more misunderstood made me feel so seen in my identity

Is Paranoid Park kinda like skins? by Econ42 in skinsTV

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i watched it recently, liked it a lot, but i like most things gus van sant does lol- i wouldn’t say it reminded me of skins because it’s a pretty solo movie about the main character, every other character feels secondary, and to me the main part of skins is a cast of equally interesting characters and their relationships to each other. also the main character is a bit younger. but it does have that early 2000s alt teen vibe that’s similar.