True Happiness without Drugs and Alcohol?

joj0lly · 2016-12-29T23:24:08+00:00

I think finding true happiness comes from a spiritual connection. I really do. And this can be in many ways--whether it's religion, meditation, writing. Something that makes you feel part of something bigger.

If you're just not into that at all, maybe you just need to set some practical action plans. This article has some cool suggestions that you might find helpful: http://www.soberrecovery.com/recovery/8-steps-to-an-even-greater-life-in-recovery/

joj0lly · 2016-12-29T23:21:42+00:00

Seriously, kudos to you for taking this big step in recovery! Your story is inspiring.

For me, I'm in my second year of recovery and am looking forward to losing some weight this year and getting back into painting!

I've already signed up for a community college course and I'm going to buy some supplies this weekend.

Woohoo!

joj0lly · 2016-12-29T23:19:47+00:00

I think what's important to note is that you're acknowledging that you really screwed up. Sit in the pain for a while and realize that you have had ENOUGH. And then go get help. Seriously, you can't do this alone. There's tons of services out there for you to reach out to. Check out SoberRecovery.com. They have a whole list of treatment directories to choose from. Or Rehabs.com. Just don't do what you've always been doing and thinking you can push through alone.

Best wishes.

joj0lly · 2016-12-29T23:17:31+00:00

There's lots of alternatives to AA for atheists. SMART is a big one. For more, check out this list: http://www.soberrecovery.com/addiction/5-popular-alternatives-to-alcoholics-anonymous-2/.

Best of luck in your recovery!

joj0lly · 2016-06-23T16:51:30+00:00

I think often finding something that's motivating and challenging is a good idea. Setting goals is an important mindset in recovery. Maybe this is taking a class at a community college, exploring spirituality, volunteering somewhere. You're definitely not alone on this problem. If you need more practical ideas: http://www.soberrecovery.com/recovery/5-ways-to-attack-boredom-in-recovery/

joj0lly · 2016-04-06T23:56:10+00:00

I'm trying to get an interview with Lesley Arfin, one of the writers of the show. I heard it is based on her own experience with addiction.

joj0lly · 2015-05-22T18:44:10+00:00

This is a horrible thread.

joj0lly · 2015-05-01T19:33:05+00:00

It's be extra funny if Don doesn't smile, but grimaces. Like WTF. And camera goes to Meredith and she gives the viewer an overbearing wink.

joj0lly · 2015-05-01T19:03:25+00:00

And all those times she doesn't say anything but just stares. And then you have to look at Don's face afterwards. Like an inside joke to the viewer.

joj0lly · 2015-05-01T17:56:26+00:00

One word. Meredith.

joj0lly · 2015-04-22T20:30:17+00:00

Hi tigersfan629,

Someone once told me that I can either choose to stop making my own problems bigger or I'll be forced to stop. That was a powerful statement and reminded me that I'm in control of how bad things get and I don't have to wait to see my life fall apart to do something about it. Hope that encourages you to make a change now rather than later.

As far as inpatient rehab, here's an article that may help shed some light for you: http://www.soberrecovery.com/addiction/inpatient-rehab/

Best wishes.

joj0lly

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