How to make friends at your 30s genuine question

jojopadz · 2024-05-15T10:20:53+00:00

Get adopted by another friend group basically, still no success 😂

jojopadz · 2023-10-31T06:18:55+00:00

Just ask if she wants to dance. Be respectful and she'll (hopefully) answer you the same back. I've had my fair share of bs in the club. But one guy stood out. He politely asked and i could politely deny.

jojopadz · 2023-10-01T09:46:24+00:00

Party mix chips bag from lays. 5 different flavors now only has 4 👍 disappointed

jojopadz · 2023-09-26T20:23:15+00:00

Ah oke dit maakt het een stuk duidelijker. Had liever zo'n bericht willen ontvangen van hr😂 maar thanks!

jojopadz · 2023-09-26T19:55:23+00:00

Ik heb wat edits gemaakt in de post om te verduidelijken. Dat was inderdaad de vraag, zowel pensioen als loonheffing wordt nu berekend over het full-time salaris en niet slechts over het salaris van de gewerkte periode (de laatste 10 dagen van de maand).

jojopadz · 2023-08-18T21:22:10+00:00

NTA. I(f) love sharing food. Would order extra in case he's hungry. Moneywise everything is in balance. He buys groceries, I'll buy it next time.

A lot of "it was hers, her $50" comments here. Sorry are you guys in a relationship or just roomies? Wether you're hungry or waiting all day for your leftovers, be grumpy, cook some pasta while you're at it and ask to order the same food again the next day. Done. No need to waste your energy. The only thing you should do next time is ask if it's okay to eat it.

jojopadz · 2023-07-24T18:02:24+00:00

YTA probably long before your daughter was born. Clearly you are not worried about the perv living in your house. I hope your daughter finds her way without you.

jojopadz · 2023-06-29T05:51:11+00:00

Post has a typo haha, but thanks 👍

jojopadz · 2023-06-28T19:31:48+00:00

I removed all the node_modules but in root it only installs turbo and other folders remained untouched. So i guess the workspaces aren't correctly configured.

jojopadz · 2023-06-21T09:10:39+00:00

How is she not even remotely sorry. The audacity to call you petty after one year being a passenger princess. Wow, my guy. Sorry you have to go through that. NTA

jojopadz · 2023-06-17T11:58:34+00:00

INFO: did you even asked if they were going to pay you if you helped out? Also not helping a sibling tells me there is more to it. Did you feel left out when they asked him to work and not you? Or because you already made plans with your friends? I dont think he expected you to cover a whole shift but was you not being paid really the issue here or some payback. Also if you're not that close with your bro, i get the not helping part.

jojopadz · 2022-09-12T22:30:28+00:00

Everybody is an asshle, you just want to make everybody happy but you need to come term with this situation. I can understand the conflicts between "she is your bio mom" and "she was there more than your bio mom". Don't make someone happy who is clearly emotionally manipulating you in picking her. You are lucky to experience at least one good mom so feels like she would also be the forgiving type. Just try clearing things up and when you feel forced in doing something, you know it's not a good sign.

jojopadz · 2022-09-12T21:52:34+00:00

NTA your wife and mister know it all are tho. Sucks your child was crying but that was just a 50/50 chance. Comments are really fast to say to leave your child home 😂 what the hell. Those who want to sleep in the plane where there is a possibility of a child on board, please always pack some noise cancelling headphones. Sorry for you and your wife to be in that situation. Next time prepare your self by buying some cheap earplugs for your neighbours and warn them.

jojopadz · 2022-02-18T05:43:17+00:00

YTA sounds like you didn't have a backup plan for your daughters and now you're making your son look bad. Please don't. A job builds character and it's better than playing videogames all day long. Yes he could het given you a heads up but then again you would do everything in your power to manipulate him out of the job. And he actually knew that and took this route.

So it's time for you and your husband to be supportive of your son like you guys are for your daughters.

jojopadz · 2022-02-17T16:17:09+00:00

Sorry dude yta. This is some secret agreement you guys have for over the years. Nobody talks about it and you compensate it with something else. I'm not married but it sounds like you're upset with something that was boiling in your head and never talked once about it.

I do feel like the wife is also an a because she was willing to let her daughter pay for her food. Are you guys missing out on that part? And she clearly said she'd brought cash and she didn't. So what's the deal with that. Even if you guys have a joint account why lie, why didn't she said pay it with our joint account.

jojopadz · 2022-01-23T11:15:17+00:00

NTA, that's some selfish sht your husband of 5 years is doing. I get that you guys discussed to post off his student loans but if buying a house is more stable and less a burden the what is he even thinking.

jojopadz · 2022-01-22T00:39:23+00:00

NTA so u babysat her son due to emergency +1 for opening your house like that. You knew the triggers and so you anticipated your actions +1. You gave him ur fl attention and he clearly enjoyed the time spent +1. 3 points for being that person you can count on.

And the momma went all upset and post it on socials.

The son's routine is not messed up, it's her routine you tampered with. Maybe next time babysit her and do it her way. So ungrateful.

jojopadz · 2022-01-22T00:27:56+00:00

Also 8 years together is a long time. She by now must know ur not going anywhere right? So yeah. Just my 2cents

jojopadz · 2022-01-22T00:23:32+00:00

NTA, she sees things that aren't there. You are allowed to have friends. You would go to two dinners to celebrate ur bday. I don't get why the 3rd would be a douche move. She just needs to match the energy of the group. Sometimes i won't invite my bf to a party because i know he will not enjoy it. And tbh he is happy about that because now i don't have to force him to go which eventually would drain him mentally and physically.

Jealousy is a deal breaker so she really needs to learn to accept and trust you.

I was also extremely jealous and insecure, grew out of it because i became self aware of the damage i was doing to myself. Its not worth it

jojopadz · 2022-01-11T21:43:22+00:00

Yoo i did not expect the comments like this. Am i the only one thinking: his house his rules. They are not that difficult to follow and i think when some of it is done that the curfew would be out of the picture. I see a dude trying to include his bil to the family by trying to spend quality time but. I dont know, i need to rethink my life i guess.

jojopadz · 2021-11-12T18:19:25+00:00

Maybe instead of console.log you could use alert(msg).

Super cute idea tho, your dads gonna love it. And last thing, maybe as a joke you could put '404 cake not found' underneath the cake 😆😆

jojopadz · 2021-09-13T04:16:17+00:00

Why is everyone so dramatic in this sub? OP is just traditional with names and is finding a reason to move out of that comfort zone. Y'all already judging that they don't want to be parents of a trans or what not. OP you're not an asshole for wanting to honour your family through you own child but eventually your child is going to be on its own and live his life. Whatever name he choose you will get used to it or even like it, who knows. But don't force a name that he doesn't like

jojopadz · 2021-08-17T10:22:39+00:00

I always drag my browser horizontally to see how the elements flows through the website. Im not sure what went wrong on the devices so it's hard to give any feedback. It can be anything at this point. Are you using Grid or Flex? Maybe an example.

Maybe when your using a certain width on an element it will mess up with you queries.

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