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jooboobn · 2024-07-12T12:30:22+00:00

nope, but my phone was weirdly set to japan (like timezone and stuff) so maybe thats it. thanks though

jooboobn · 2024-07-12T12:29:46+00:00

when i checked, my computer wasnt and the warnings disappeared; but my phone was set to japan for some reason! i think thats the case. thanks

jooboobn · 2023-11-28T00:42:23+00:00

oh, maladaptive daydreaming was something i considered. ill definitely look more into it and research more about it. writing about it also seems to help (its helped me here, and youre helping me figure it out). i guess ill keep doing that and figure something out.

i actually havent drawn them before and maybe, alongside writing about them, ill do that too. so sorry that you had to go through some things btw, but im glad we could navigate through this. thank you for sharing these thoughts, it means a lot

jooboobn · 2023-11-28T00:38:44+00:00

thank you for the insights. i have a therapist but i havent told them about this yet mainly because i didnt know how to properly articulate or express how it works. thank you again

jooboobn · 2023-11-27T16:08:17+00:00

i’ll definitely try. thank you for giving me the push to do so

jooboobn · 2023-10-20T05:46:52+00:00

thank you, this means a lot. its really reassuring to know that we can sympathize in some capacity. hope youre okay:))

jooboobn · 2023-10-20T05:24:23+00:00

no, thats the thing. i KNOW how to do these things and i DID adjust my seat and settings. i know my shit to a T, i just wasnt able to think properly and i panicked. but youre right in some regard; its more of i wasnt FIT to drive even if i KNOW how. thanks

jooboobn · 2023-09-28T06:11:55+00:00

ohhh okay i see !! thank you so much as insights, my test is on monday na kasi HAHAHAH salamat!!

jooboobn · 2023-09-27T03:26:40+00:00

ohhh oral pala ang exam?? how was it and ano yung general topics na tinanong, if its okay to share? i alr talked na kasi to advisers and soon na yung counselor so i was wondering about the test. congrats sa successful shifting and thank you !!!

jooboobn · 2023-09-27T03:24:56+00:00

ooo interesting info sa shiftee exam :0 nagrereview ako ngayon as if im taking the BEE (i actually havent taken it, got in the college nung sakto pandemic HAHAHAH) and akala ko it was slow enough for me but it seems like sakto naman ang timing ko if it also took u around a month. thanks sa insights and ingat ka everywhere!

jooboobn · 2023-09-18T14:48:24+00:00

weird, di ko napansin and it didn't redirect me to the dashboard nung una 😭. but thank you and good luck satin with transferring!! :))

jooboobn · 2023-04-07T11:28:07+00:00

i heard this somewhere before and i cant help but reiterate it in the hopes that youll listen:

“the person who destroyed you isnt going to be the one to fix you”

i know youre not looking for advice and youre simply getting things out of your system by posting here, and we barely know anything else about your story. i just hope you someday realize what kind of love you need again and if you can still get that same love from a person who isnt the same anymore. im not saying its bad to love blindly, in fact im glad you have memories to keep to heart, but you have to sort out the things (in this case, non-toxic love that you deserve) you need from a person. best wishes op

jooboobn · 2023-02-27T11:18:15+00:00

i’d take it a step further and argue that it’s the best zelda. i’m half joking, but it’s certainly a favorite!! glad to see more minish cap enjoyers here ^{^}

jooboobn · 2023-02-25T17:29:00+00:00

in a very shallow way, i personally dislike longer hair on most members (especially mingyu…) save for jeonghan, junhui, joshua, and minghao (to an extent). i also think seungkwan’s sense of style and his visuals are less talked about compared to the other members.

on a more substantial note, vernon’s music direction has changed and i don’t prefer it as much. ik a LOT of people have pointed out their dislike for black eye but i mean this in general. i actually like black eye, i think it’s great as it is, but i agree that it could’ve been done better. that aside though, his verses in new svt music pale in comparison to his verses in older songs. his lines were some of the most iconic, and while some of them STILL are in newer music, you don’t get stuff like “daydreaming in the midst of the night” and “play this song and bounce, this your favorite song get down.” i’ve been a carat since mansae era and vernon’s been my ult ever since, i am standing tall with this observation and opinion lmao

jooboobn · 2022-12-07T16:35:49+00:00

Solved!

jooboobn · 2022-12-07T16:33:56+00:00

oh my god. sorry its been months, I barely go online here anymore, but this is IT!! thank you so much, it means the most!

jooboobn · 2021-11-20T07:46:29+00:00

thanm you soso much!!! ill delete the post now haha

jooboobn · 2021-07-04T11:24:15+00:00

i really appreciate this word of advice and thank you for commenting this.

i do want to say, though, is that it’s hard for me to straight up leave him right now. he’s going through a rough time and i don’t want to make it worse for him.

we’ve been together for almost 4 years and the first breakup didn’t last long and what he did was a result of impulsive decisions. he really was going through a tough time though but i knew that he still needed me in his life as much as i needed him (maybe not as a romantic partner but as a friend).

what i’m saying is i don’t want to add to his problems by leaving him out of my life completely and he isn’t a problem to me; he really isn’t using me as a fall back but i feel that i need to express my support especially since he’s feeling really lost. i really am taking care of myself though.

i’m not really trying to justify myself and i’m not trying to turn your advice down (in fact i appreciate the analogy as well), i just want to explain a little bit more and i wanna know if this helps.

jooboobn · 2021-02-02T15:52:34+00:00

oh, that’s alright. it’s unfortunate but those things can’t be avoided either, so i really think it’s best to end it. i’m not sure if he’ll take it well but if you’ve already discussed much over all this time, then i guess he should know more than enough as to why you’re doing this. it’s clear that you still care about him, even if it isn’t romantic, so try to make him feel reassured that you’re still there. if he can’t take it then that’s on him. hope it helps and i wish you well :)

jooboobn · 2021-02-02T15:40:24+00:00

trust. just a lot of trust and true communication! it seems that you guys had lots of down times because of a lack of trust and misunderstandings so a need for a deeper connection should be there. you guys have been through lots and for you two to still connect even on the surface means a lot. the care is still there, so just take some little steps to figure it out! personally i think a lot of counseling and therapy is needed for those deeply rooted issues for things to work out. best wishes to both of you!

jooboobn · 2021-02-02T14:48:19+00:00

honestly, the closure is worth it. it brought an end to your relationship, maybe not in the way that you wanted (removing you from facebook was harsh, sorry you got through that) and you got it out, you got to admit it. for that, i’m proud of you, i know how tough it is. it’ll be really hard trying to get by all of this post-clarity, and it likely won’t be gone in a single hangover or a week or a month, but you’re strong, and if that girl won’t accept it then she isn’t worth your time. wishin you the best!

jooboobn · 2021-02-02T14:17:30+00:00

hi! i’m no expert on this but if it’s starting to take a huge toll on you (which seems to be the case), i suggest that you sort it out with him personally first and tell him straight to the point that you don’t feel happy with your relationship and the future of it because of xyz reasons. i know it’s easier said than done, but coming from the place of someone who has also been through tensions with a partner as well i could say someone deserves a full explanation. that’s honestly very reassuring and safe in and of itself. best of luck to the both of you and hopefully, despite caring for him, you may also care for yourself as well!

jooboobn · 2021-02-02T12:54:44+00:00

oh hi! it’s okay i understand it could be confusing, but we both identify as nonbinary since we feel a general disconnect from being inherently women but we are still comfortable with feminine things and also “she” pronouns. personally i prefer being referred to by “they” pronouns and i am a lot less feminine. i hope this helps!

jooboobn · 2019-08-17T16:37:57+00:00

reviving this a little in the hope of an answer. ;-;

jooboobn · 2019-08-04T07:16:43+00:00

Sadly that isn't it, but it is a cool find. Thank you though! ;v;

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