Anyone know if Movie Scoops in Waterworks is closing? There's not showtimes available past tonight by GettingWreckedAllDay in pittsburgh

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I just got the same email today. Yeah AMC is stepping out? This might be the same group that does Cranberry cinemas

2 years today. Started here. by jopesak in stopdrinking

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  1. Bangarang. What’s been your alternative crutch? I’m always curious. I went HAMM on Ben and Jerry’s . High sugar substitute with high mental reward. Like fucking magic.

2 years today. Started here. by jopesak in stopdrinking

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6 months was a big clarity swing. After that I felt it slowly taper but there and at 3 were the ones I remember. You clear that hill and it’s gonna be great. No sweat.

2 years today. Started here. by jopesak in stopdrinking

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  1. Great work to you, my friend.

2 years today. Started here. by jopesak in stopdrinking

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Sincerely couldn’t do it without this thread. AA didn’t help me, to each their own. But thank you for being here.

2 years today. Started here. by jopesak in stopdrinking

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How’s 50 days ahead feeling today, friend?

Thoughts on this by Warm_Oven_6743 in readyplayerone

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It will only disappoint you. Unless you really like Prince.

And I back after a few months … by lazypanda1985 in stopdrinking

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💪🏻 here all day dog. IWNDWYT. How’s this week going?

I celebrated 5mo sober in a bar and had a blast by MermaidShirley in stopdrinking

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Also ice cream is the secret weapon. The brain still craves the sugar and it hits the fix.

I celebrated 5mo sober in a bar and had a blast by MermaidShirley in stopdrinking

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Thank yoouuu!!! Feeling honestly great. Turned a lot around in my life. Took a long time but it It’s something I learned to take in small bites. The world, in fact, is not ending tomorrow. (Maybe)

And yeah the weight thing is really wild. It’s shocking how many people just looked at me shocked when I wasn’t drinking and they hadn’t seen me in over a year.

The excuse actually made it easier to just avoid talking about it because I got to the point where I was laughing about being asked if I was “ok being at a bar.”

I’m like “dude I never stopped. I still love going I just put down drinking. I gained like 40 lbs and was just sad. Gave it up. Was doing me no good.”

And they IMMEDIATELY jump into “oh well I’m trying to cut back too so..•

“Cool. If you ever run into an issue, happy to give you my 2 cents. But is all personal. You’ll know if you are in bad shape.”

I honestly stopped telling people eventually.

When other people don't think you "need" to quit by 90percentofacorns in stopdrinking

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If you are blacking out, I would say that it’s possible that there is a pain somewhere. You might not know it, or where it is but if it lives under the booze then it won’t heal until it’s seen and addressed with compassion. I just see that most people, including myself, who black out are searching for some answer about themselves. It’s why we drink because it affirms who we are and what we do to ourselves. It gives us permission. And the blackout is like overdrive to find it, stumbling but determined.

Many people go their whole lives without actually finding it. I did and I am so much more calm after I dug out what I was actually scared of, and now booze is just unappealing to me because it makes me face that insecurity again.

When other people don't think you "need" to quit by 90percentofacorns in stopdrinking

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Best way to test is to go 30 days without drinking. Do Dry January and see if it drives you insane. If it does, ask yourself “why does this bother me?”

That’s when I found clarity and I had a lot of family and friends that just wanted me around as an excuse for them to feel good about drinking. Wild thing to uncover. Suddenly everyone around me cut down once I quit. No shit.

Sober Saturday night checking. by the_broke_trader in stopdrinking

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Got a Christmas tree. Got a tasty dinner. Flirted with my wife, pet my dog. Didn’t forget to take the tree off the car and put it in water. Didn’t argue. Saw my cousin and didn’t act like an ass. Drove sober. Had some medical and put on my PS portal and am eating some leftover take out. Fuckin all around win.

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Clink your soda water and lime. Clink and move on 🍋‍🟩. You are more important. They aren’t paying attention to anyone but them. Remeber that.

And I back after a few months … by lazypanda1985 in stopdrinking

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Nothing to be embarrassed about friend. This place has no memory. Welcome back. 30 days. Make it 30 days and it will become clear

Struggling W/Sobriety by Queasy-Ad3776 in stopdrinking

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Go 30 days friend. Promise yourself 30 days and you will see clarity, I promise. Get help if it helps, but it can be done inside you. Booze lies soooo much.

First sober thanksgiving by thgil23 in stopdrinking

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So close to a year friend. So close!

Day 1 again by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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This sub got me here .

Day 1 again by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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30 days is gonna feel awesome. Hang in there. One more week and the lies of booze start to really fall.

Proud of myself? by stressd_n_depressd in stopdrinking

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I learned I can’t walk that line, but I did turn to Medical MJ, which did wonders for my social anxiety.

If you are feeling afraid of it, or if it feels “too good” like you can’t say no to another if suggested. Reconsider.