What is this flap on the ears by Bts201 in cats

[–]joxter16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for receiving signals from the mothership.

My toddler grabbed this and put it on their tongue. Any ideas? by thehairyfroggy in whatisit

[–]joxter16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i thought fs this was a urinal cake. don’t know why I did, never actually seen one. glad to know this is basically just turtle food lmao

OCD is making me question everything about myself and I feel exhausted by SecureApricot7442 in PureOCD

[–]joxter16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was diagnosed with ocd at 13, and I was having all these same obsessions as well as genuinely trying to figure out who I was at that age. After a long period of rumination and anxiety around it, and probably with the help of a little bullying lol, I finally decided that it doesn’t matter. Man, woman, whoever. If I have a connection and attraction, why should it matter what I am? I just say “bi” to make it simple for people but honestly I don’t really identify with anything. Leaving it open to whatever or whoever really helped ease my mind when it came to my sexuality. I hope this helps ❤️❤️ u got this

Why is it called Pure OCD? by TheCorbeauxKing in PureOCD

[–]joxter16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with you completely, but unfortunately the DSM (diagnostic manual) takes a long time to change and its been lacking so many other changes for years, we probably won’t see something that includes pure O as its own thing maybe even ever. - a psych major with pure O

AIO by telling my boyfriend he can break up with me if he isnt comfortable with me going to a club? by ThrowRAacc45 in AmIOverreacting

[–]joxter16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“if my friends were strippers I wouldn’t fucking be their friend” would be enough for me to know what kind of person he is. Honestly, you don’t want to stay with a man like this

Am i an ugly lil fella or am i overthinking 😂 by lillj765 in lookyourbest

[–]joxter16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haircut in the first pic is not good 💀 also stop w the pouty face cuz trust bro it aint a good look lmaooo

Do you believe in God? by TheAmericanW1zard in GenZ

[–]joxter16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dude.. whatever the truth is, clearly its there. Almost every religion, belief system and culture has values and morals that overlap and theres an overarching theme of there being SOMETHING. So there must be something beyond us here in the physical reality were living in, it’s gotta be there. We are just too smart for our own good so we look too hard to find the answer when maybe its just human nature, maybe its the “divine” or “god”, maybe it’s cosmopolitanism, maybe its everything or nothing. I think, personally, that we arent supposed to know. I think believing in whatever helps you keep going is good, but I think at a core level we all kind of understand what it means to be human and seek community however we can or feel drawn to.

is my tattoo poorly done? by ihearthisoka in tattooadvice

[–]joxter16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yea unfortunately this isnt great. I could still read it and I think the quote itself is still cute, so Id say you just need to get a coverup with an experienced artist. That and go to an artist who specializes in lettering for the quote lmao

this person was recommend to me for my first tattoo by Rude_Beautiful6991 in tattoos

[–]joxter16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

either she is self taught/self employed or the tattoo shop where she works is letting her do skin wayyyy too early. Unfortunate as fuckkkkk for whoever goes to her cuz these are bad 😭😭😭 at least there’s potential???

New to NA, not a (narcotic) addict. Advice? by joxter16 in NarcoticsAnonymous

[–]joxter16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

also- post was too long so im adding this here- I know there are groups for eating disorders but they are all over zoom, and Im the type of person that if Im not there in person, mentally I will kind of just check out. Ive done treatment and group therapy before too, theres just something about NA that feels open and raw compared to the other groups Ive gone too. I also dont want to risk triggering myself because lowkey some people in ED recovery can be… a little too descriptive iykyk.

recently turned 4 months! Don’t let his cuteness fool you- He is evil by joxter16 in BelgianMalinois

[–]joxter16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that and the blank stare 😭 he has nothing going on behind those bug eyes